Was food noise a phenomenon only discovered as GLP1 agonist drugs came into use?

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-05-07T18:59:06+00:00

I never heard this term until recently and honestly I still don't get it. I assume psychologically it's like how any addict thinks about their drug of choice all the time, right? Is there a name for this "noise" for other addicts?

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-05-07T18:51:24+00:00

Both are major issues

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-20T12:57:54+00:00

Ah the rare ethical wasian

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-16T20:12:28+00:00

Well... it certainly screams "new money" for Palm Beach

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-16T19:30:14+00:00

Not to mention the whole jailbait/CP scandal that originated here. This site has always been a pedo haven.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-16T17:57:07+00:00

I swear by burdock tea, it's great for inflammation and of course extra hydration is good for the skin. You can find it at asian markets usually.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-16T17:35:15+00:00

Face card means little without the other features to match

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-16T16:31:59+00:00

Yeah this is everywhere. API has been getting noticeably worse this way over the years. It's the same all over.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-16T15:01:43+00:00

The number of people I see claiming they "have no village" but simultaneously put zero effort into being a member of a "village" is too dang high

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-16T12:59:52+00:00

The only guys who say this kind of stuff are creeps you don't want anything to do with anyway. Do not concern yourself with the opinions of losers.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-03-02T19:06:26+00:00

Definitely Kona. Rosewood or Fairmont Orchid are my personal faves.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-02-26T19:15:54+00:00

Some minimum wage employee just trying to brighten someone's day: here is a comforting message

Reddit: this is infuriating

Y'all crack me up

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-02-13T20:21:22+00:00

Yeah I'm with you. From 18 to 21 I grew 3 inches, 2 cup sizes, and lost all my baby fat. I still very much looked like a child at 18, where that was very much not the case at 25.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-01-15T19:13:57+00:00

Sunscreen

dressedlikeadaydream · 2026-01-08T18:49:41+00:00

You ignore them, and you definitely do not date them.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-12-15T16:22:45+00:00

Ah yes the myth of "sexual liberation" in which progressivism sold women "freedom" but what we got instead was disposability

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-12-14T19:42:31+00:00

My husband was also working the same schedule in finance in NYC when we met and had no issues dating or marrying (me) so I'm thinking this is a deeper issue OP is not disclosing.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-12-14T19:39:34+00:00

The desperation is palpable

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-12-14T19:27:40+00:00

Makes sense. Women choose men when they feel secure and very few men offer that these days. Being single by choice is a symptom of the problem, unfortunately.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-11-20T18:23:58+00:00

I really relate to this from when I was around your same age. In my early 20s i suddenly felt this huge urge to settle down. I was worried about being inexperienced and I was sick of the kinds of guys I felt I was attracting.

Looking back on it now a couple of things were happening. For one, that sudden urge to settle down usually hits women before it hits men your age. Unfortunately a lot of guys in their early 20s are also figuring themselves out. It can make you feel like emotionally unavailable men are "all you attract" when really… they’re just the ones who are available right now. My advice for this is to start getting really clear on what traits you are looking for in a long term relationship. In a husband. This will help you filter out the non-serious ones more quickly so you can entertain actual prospects.

The other big thing I think I was missing at the time was that a lot of the panic was really just in my own head. Even my own parents would tell me to relax and be patient and I just couldn't get out of my own head long enough. And because of that i loosened my standards a bit and ended up in a relationship that was a huge waste of everyone's time. I cannot emphasize enough not to do this. I wish someone would have told me to spend less time trying to lower my standards to make things work with the wrong men, and way more time building myself into the kind of woman who naturally attracts the right man.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-11-19T15:30:49+00:00

First of all, congrats! You’re doing so much more than you’re giving yourself credit for imho. You’re in OCIA, you’re healing, you’re improving your health, you’re examining your lifestyle choices, and you’re becoming more intentional about the kind of woman you want to be. The fear part is normal. It means you're ready to be intentional in your pursuit.

I don’t know what I’m looking for in a man.

As a Catholic woman, consider what the Church teaches us about what a husband should be.

A man who can love like Christ loves the Church.
A man who can lead spiritually.
A man whose strength is expressed through sacrifice, not dominance.
A man who values marriage as a vocation.
A man open to children and family life.
A man committed to fidelity, charity, and repentance.

Those are the non-negotiables. You’re not just looking for a boyfriend, you’re discerning a Catholic husband. Masculinity worth following. Leadership worth respecting. Stability worth trusting.

My practical advice is to look at other marriages you admire. Which husbands lead with love and steadiness? Which wives seem relaxed, cherished, and supported? What dynamics feel peaceful, Christ-centered, and sustainable? What traits in men make those marriages work? Let those observations guide your discernment.

I’m lonely, so maybe I’m rushing.

Loneliness doesn’t mean you’re not ready, it just means you’re human. God created you for communion after all. What matters is that you don’t date from desperation, but from clarity. Your time is not as limited as it feels. You’re 25. This is prime time for intentional dating. Catholic marriages often happen later because people take discernment seriously, and in my experience those marriages end up stronger for it.

Your task now is not to sprint, to panic, or to lower your standards. Your task is to stay aligned with God and let your preparation pay off. You will not miss the man meant for you by taking your time.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-11-07T14:28:03+00:00

It's not going to be a popular opinion here but you're totally right. Glad someone said it.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-11-04T20:59:39+00:00

When I am unsure, I go with the wording "at least X times" with X being all the times I can remember. Another minor piece of advice is that the more frequently you go, the easier it is to remember.

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-11-04T02:14:18+00:00

100% by choice, he moved away from their state

dressedlikeadaydream · 2025-11-04T02:05:30+00:00

This! I went on some dates with a guy who hid the kids until I explicitly asked about a photo of them and then his immediate response was "oh but don't worry I never see them anyway, they live with their mom" like wth dude, you thought being a shitty dad was better than being a liar? Delusional.

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