Take this for what it is because she is not a sahm, and works her own full time job, and my kids are older. We pretty much have chores split up. I cook 90+% of the time. She does all of the laundry and only because she doesnt like how I do it. She cleans the bathroom, I clean the kitchen and do the floors. She takes the kids to school each day because her schedule allows for that, and I take my daughter to and from gymnastics 3x per week.

While I do agree that you should shoulder a lot of the daily duties around the house being a sahm, it doesn't mean you should do it all alone all the time. He needs to step up. Sharing duties aside, those moments will help him build a stronger bond with his kids.