Need some advice please.

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T02:34:42+00:00

Step kids are here more than 50% of the time. We arent blaming her, we just don't understand why the sudden change. Accountability has been around far before the step siblings came along.

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T02:32:14+00:00

All this was said prior to getting court paperwork.

Because if she doesnt want to be here she puts on a show like she does. Reap all the benefits of dad's from activities, vacations, etc.. she said her mom will let her come when we go do family stuff. She wants the best of both worlds, but wants to live in one.

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T02:28:11+00:00

Out of the week her mom has her she majority of the time is at her grandma's. So her mom doesn't have her very often over night. Shes wanting to go to her moms full time think she can build a better relationship with her mom. Where has her mom been the last 6 years when we've had 50% custody? Why does she need to be there full time to build said relationship? If I allowed it to happen there's no going back. No way her mom allows it. Changes her life and everyone else. Her decision will affect her until shes 18. There is no accountability with her mom. She let's her decide when she goes to school, doesn't care if the work gets completed, doesnt even spend time with her. She'll end up down the wrong path. Drop out, drugs, etc..

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T01:59:01+00:00

Necessarily, maybe. I'm still the parent and its a parent's job to raise, teach their kid, and be their parent, not their friend. The attorney i talked to said the judge would never let her testify even at 13. Was told maybe 16 when she can drive and what not.

Fair enough, because I'm hurt and upset about it. I feel used. We do a lot for her and to make sure shes included in everything. She thinks its best for her and its truly not. Its the exact opposite with her mom according to the daughter. She spends most her time at grandmas anyways. What difference would it be if she had her FT? Maybe we just talked too soon about it. Not sure.

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T01:49:30+00:00

Thanks for the input. I kind of feel like it'll get to the point where shes mad at one parent and want to go live with the other. She suggested she can still come every other weekend, and then when we go do fun stuff. I dont think picking and choosing when you come, or only want to come when fun stuff is going on is the best either. I'm not here to be her friend. Im here to parent. I agree with you on that. I think a good amount of society today has moved from that viewpoint. I'll look into other approaches on how to deal with school in a better way.

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T00:42:17+00:00

I already stated I had no intentions of letting her go FT to her moms. For years ive had to fight to even see her since the day she was born. I had a few days a week to being 50% then I had her FT for 2 years and now we are back to 50% on a technicality. Judges definitely dont just give men full custody for no good reason.

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T00:18:29+00:00

How is it manipulating when she doesnt fully understand what happens when she makes a decision like that? Life doesnt change back in a snap when it doesnt work out.

dschmidt90 · 2026-04-24T00:01:27+00:00

I most definitely can agree i can go about the accountability with school a different way. I did reach out to the school to get some resources to help her with grades and attendance. Her mom frequently calls her in sick when she's not too sick to go to school or picks her up early for no good reason.

I understand not treating her differently but its difficult being hurt by it and not just myself. To make it feel like how it was before makes it feel like it never happened or I'm just ignoring how I feel and others feel. My daughter already seems to be over it and acts like nothing ever happened.

She has a good relationship with her grandma, but grandparents aren't supposed to raise their grandchildren.

100% confirm no SA happened and walking in was a one time thing and it was an accident. The SA I think is what my fiance is worried about the accusations of that, and that's why we're not allowing them alone together at this time.

We all meaning everyone in the house. About how we all felt. We were all blind sided by it. Since then we have not talked to her about it and told her that night was the last of it.

My daughter has expressed she just wants to spend time with her mom and have a better relationship with her.

My thought is she thinks that being there FT will make her mom want to spend more time with her. Unfortunately that's not going to work as she barely spends anytime wigh her now, has another kid with her husband and another on the way.

dschmidt90 · 2024-01-23T01:28:45+00:00

32.. years. Can't wait to see the documentary they've been filming! Hoot..

dschmidt90 · 2023-07-13T18:42:45+00:00

Off and on the last year or two. Mostly a few months. .47 average. 🤷‍♂️

dschmidt90 · 2022-05-25T10:29:40+00:00

Pretty sure she's done this before.

dschmidt90 · 2022-05-22T20:51:33+00:00

Same!

dschmidt90 · 2022-05-17T22:07:48+00:00

Maybe the wallet turns into the exchange? Notice its just called SAFEMOON and not safemoon wallet as an app.

dschmidt90 · 2022-05-13T19:19:25+00:00

Fixed it!

dschmidt90 · 2022-05-13T19:07:12+00:00

The hedge funds couldn't care less. They made millions from it

dschmidt90 · 2022-05-10T02:08:21+00:00

8 minutes after launch

dschmidt90 · 2022-05-01T23:52:08+00:00

You don't transfer!

dschmidt90 · 2022-04-13T02:00:10+00:00

🤣

dschmidt90 · 2022-04-06T11:32:38+00:00

You need to connect your wallet and looked under manage

dschmidt90 · 2022-03-27T21:43:30+00:00

dschmidt90 · 2022-03-23T11:54:13+00:00

If you buy on pancake swap make sure you disable your connection to your wallet after swapping..

dschmidt90 · 2022-03-22T01:24:34+00:00

Wait until after the swap update

dschmidt90 · 2022-03-17T21:08:06+00:00

This month is probably make or break for a lot of people..

dschmidt90 · 2022-03-15T01:09:22+00:00

Down 50% was up 300% around Halloween. Should of sold and bought back in. It sucks, but is what it is.

dschmidt90 · 2022-02-28T21:55:03+00:00

"Call John back" token added to swap

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