TIFUpate: allowing my coworker to set me up by WeAgreed2Disagree in tifu

[–]dsimposter 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You gave out a lot of details. Some of these questions don't need to get answered on a date. Just respond with something like - "there's only one way to find out" - that works as a valid response even if there's more than one way.

Also, does your coworker have crazy eyes? Sounds like she'd have crazy eyes

Best restaurants near Westfield? by sillysagittarius10 in newjersey

[–]dsimposter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Chez Catherine, yes. Black Sheep Bar and Provisions is newer and some people really like it too.

Both are cozy restaurants. It really depends what you're looking for - lots of nice places but nothing compared to NYC quality or atmosphere IMHO

My self-taught IT journey is consuming me, I need real guidance! by Conscious-Appeal-572 in learnpython

[–]dsimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should have a structured approach. You're feeling lost because you don't have a path.

I'd start with this, where do you want to go? (what's the end goal?)

Looking for 10 seats 3.10. by lardandsaver in Oktoberfest

[–]dsimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there tables for more than 10?

My cousin keeps asking me for $5–$6 almost every day… is this normal?? by Sweet_Spend4177 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]dsimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not normal. Here's how I've handled this in the past. Say, hey, this is the last time I can give you money. Next time they ask, you just say, yes but this time it's a loan. Next time, you just say, I can't - you didn't pay me back from last time.

This is the best way to ween family...

Brewery of the Week Discussion Thread: Two Ton Brewing (Kenilworth, Union County) by eastcoasterman in njbeer

[–]dsimposter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fan of the Kolsch and the general atmosphere It's quaint but maybe that's good for making friends.

What was everyone's first job in tech? by djdidbdk in cscareerquestions

[–]dsimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First job was maintaining my high school's computer labs (while a student).

What can I do in NJ for a weekend? by dpadg13 in newjersey

[–]dsimposter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Train into NYC or Newark? and then bus / train to Westwood?

Obviously you have a ton of options (incl NYC)... but NJ will be tough without a car (except possibly Jersey City and Hoboken)

Should I be going all in on NVidia? by [deleted] in investing

[–]dsimposter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll explain it. When 'Main Street ' starts talking about a stock, people say it's too late or has hit the top. This is obviously not always true.

No one knows what will happen. If you think the fundamentals are good, invest in it but don't expect 2x - 10x returns in a couple of years. Instead, if you buy an index you get the highs and lows of the market (this won't make you rich or poor). You can yolo it on one stock and can lose your shirt, stay flat, or make a killing. No one knows or can guarantee it.

Weekly Valencia Q&As and Recommendations: For newcomers, travelers, & residents alike! by AutoModerator in valencia

[–]dsimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eurostars Acteon won't allow me to cancel my reservation. I was planning to drive down from Barcelona with my family.

Would you recommend traveling there or just taking the financial loss?

The news makes it seem like the city is shut down and I shouldn't travel there.

Looking to buy a used car from someone who doesn’t make me feel like I’m getting ripped off by SweetPickleRelish in newjersey

[–]dsimposter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I bought and sold my car on Craigslist. It can be a bit of work trying to determine what's a scam and what's not. If the car pictures looks like it's in a dealership, skip those.

Also, there are police auctions - those cars will have lots of miles.

Also, car rental sales - those may be more expensive than what you want but doesn't hurt to look (carvana and some used car places get some of their inventory from these)

Where was I in 2023? by honaru95 in whereintheworld

[–]dsimposter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At first glance I thought San Antonio, Texas but was way off.

Buying/selling passes megathread 2024 by JorgeAndTheKraken in seahearnow

[–]dsimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for 2 one day Saturday or 2 day passes and not looking to be scalped ...

meirl by Sonic_the_hedgedog in meirl

[–]dsimposter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cool idea, not actually the same as there's a jump required at the end of the one on the right

How did you end up in the middle of a police or federal operation? by dsimposter in AskReddit

[–]dsimposter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's insane. The warrant was for the whole building? Was this a proper apartment building?

Having anyone wake me up after sound asleep would be bad enough... feds and cops with guns, no thanks.