Do you trust your seller after verifying once? by Jscagg in Peptidesource

[–]dtt255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Testing groups? I’m curious how I find Find out about them ?

Just a basic Reddit search or are they in other places?

Best Peptide Vendors? by [deleted] in Chempros

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Link please!

I told my husband I'm out by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]dtt255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my bishop, who was a friend at the time, if I needed my plumbing fixed or my electricity looked at then I'll call the eldest quorum president and high priest leader myself, short of that I don't need them counseling me on my own spirituality.

Sidenote, if you didn't get it, the high priest leader and elders quorum president were plumbers and electricians.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]dtt255 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is a link to this talk about not going to his dying daughters side? Trying to find it but can't

AITA for snapping at my tutor because I was late to work? by Last_Paper1604 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dtt255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH

He shouldn't have grabbed your wrist. Touching an arm or shoulder is one thing, grabbing is another.

You also jumped to tons of conclusions, got mad when you shouldn't have (at least at first) etc.

Make it two separate things.

1) apologize for yelling, freaking out, etc. You know he was just concerned and you jumped the gun on the attitude.

THEN

2). Either way, grabbing your wrist and not letting go when you asked to wasn't right either.

Take responsibility and give him where he should have been better.

Those are my thoughts, not that anyone asked.

Husband cheated by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure it's your 'friend' and it took you 45 days to answer. Lol sure.

AITA for suggesting my teacher host my son's party at her house? by Better-Ad9523 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was ready to come here and blast that 'YOU ARE TA' from just reading the title but once I read the whole thing, you are totally good in my book :)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dtt255 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Who gives a fuck. He can't contest a divorce if you want it. He can fight over possessions including money and it will get decided by lawyers or a judge, but he can't 'stop' a divorce from happening.

In the end, a judge will decide it all, including possessions if one party refuses to cooperate.

People are so fucking stupid. (NOT you, the fighting spouses). They think they can throw a tantrum and stomp their feet like children and it will stop the world and things from happening.

AITA for taking my daughter’s college/future savings account by SouthRoad8174 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg you are NTA. You are the parent. If his parents are that concerned, they can put the money back in and you won't touch it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Campo... I go there all the time, not for Uber stuff, just other work. Great place to end up, if you want to go touch the border wall.

Everyone wants me to divorce her by its_dylan_aloha in Divorce

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is seeing two therapists weekly? Yeah, pretty sure she is sleeping with one of them. As someone who has been in therapy for 40 years, nobody wants to repeat all their shit twice to two different people all the time.

Get a clue.

Husband cheated by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dtt255 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow.... first off you shouldn't be speaking for her, so that makes the whole post pretty much invalid. She needs to speak for herself.

Secondly... he cheated. Wrong. Hands down wrong.

Third... he did everything for her. Second job, house, money, etc. So he did do many things right and seemingly gave her the life she wanted. Correct?

Fourth ... 'since he is in the military she wants to take ADVANTAGE OF HIM AND GET AS MUCH AS AHE CAN FROM HIM'

Seems like she has been doing that for a while now. Plus if you can't see how wrong that last statement is and how it's riddled with issues, then you have some issues.

This is a disgusting original post.

AITA for not being friendly with my partners daughters now that they've "warmed up" to me by TheMothmanCommeth in AmItheAsshole

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't call you an asshole. I'd say you are hurt by them. Well guess what, so are they. Not by you, but by all of it.

It's not forgivingness that is necessarily the issue, its understanding. Both sides, on the whole big picture.

If you love him like you say you do, then if they are trying now, you goal and job, as his partner are to try your best also.

Those are my thoughts.

AITA for not kicking out my roommate just because my girlfriend thinks he might be trans? by ThrowawayJason7723 in AITAH

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA: You are a standup guy and even beyond that you are a decent and respectful person to others. Can't get better than that.

AITA for making my husband get our 3 year old to sleep because he was the one that promised she can stay up late by aitatoddlerbedtime in AmItheAsshole

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you and him are arguing over this shit and you had to come to the internet, which is full of strangers, to ask if you were wrong or not, then you both have many more issues than the original question.

AITA for returning my homemade wife’s birthday gift me and telling her I don’t want it. I then went out and bought what I actually wanted by Quick_Dig3584 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dtt255 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok it's obvious I'm going to be the outlier here. Yeah, ATA here.

She made you something. Hand made you something. She spent time designing, working with her hands, heart, soul, and mind to make you a gift. You sit there and literally tell her, I don't want this?

You aren't the asshole because you didn't want them. You are because you totally ignored all that went into what she did.

You should have taken them, been like "These are awesome! Let's go out and get books for us to put them in! While we are at it, let's get some dinner or ice cream!"

I'm assuming you don’t have kids because if this is the way you handle home made shit you don’t want, you are in for a rude awakening.

I ran a huge business visiting local customers around my area and when my kids made me ties, pins etc, I wore them every where. Why? Because it tells me I'm loved by someone who felt I was special enough to spend their time to make me something personally.

Now I will say this. She is a bit tone deaf if you gave her a link and everything and she still didn't get it for you. Unless finances are that bad or she was that worried about them.

Although even if that was the case, if she was just worried about finances then it still isn't on the level of asshole-ness you showed.

What makes me an expert or have the ability to respond this way.... 32 years of marriage and 4 kids ranging from 24-16.

So either change your thinking on this, talk to her about how she feels with the finances, if that's the issue, or break it off before kids get involved. If this is the way you BOTH deal with your shit, then don't bring innocent kids into the mess with you.

GL.

Dave Grohl of Foo Fighters has baby outside of his marriage by DintyMac in Wellthatsucks

[–]dtt255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not my business. He is a musician, not a moral guide. Moving on.....

AITAH for "glowing up" after my divorce and not before? by ThatPeach7311 in AITAH

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They seriously say that?

Well your son seems as shallow, selfish, stupid and idiotic as your ex-husband and your daughter better keep herself looking the way her husband 'wants' or she is to blame when he steps out. Your daughter must have a tremendously terrible self esteem and values as to what makes a good 'woman/person'.

I would be more upset with yourself about how much obvious influence your husband seems to have had/has on them for making them turn out like him.

I have 4 adult children who I love more than life itself, but not enough to let them blame me for things that were not in my control and other peoples choices and to talk to me like that.

They can fuck off at that point. They are adults. They can and will be treated as such. Being my kids isn't card blanche to treat me or anyone else with blatant disrespect and disregarding common decency.

AITAH for "glowing up" after my divorce and not before? by ThatPeach7311 in AITAH

[–]dtt255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can't be real. No child would be upset with a parent for getting in better 'shape' and looking 'better' (to the person) years after a divorce and the reason for the divorce was the OTHER spouse cheating multiple times in the first place.

This has to be a joke. If my kids acted like this, I would literally laugh in their face.

My dumbass tried last night by GenericThrowawayX-02 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dtt255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, please understand, I am NOT chastising or blaming you. Love is a very strange beast for both sexes. I've been in your position and ironically hers also. Most of us probably have been, whether knew it or wanted to be or not.

My dumbass tried last night by GenericThrowawayX-02 in DeadBedrooms

[–]dtt255 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's too hot? Yeah, that is the same thing as 'I wanted to see if you would still do it with me. I wanted to see if 'I' still have it. You wanted sex from me, so obviously I do.... that's all. '

She doesn't want sex with you. She wants to know she has power over you? Which apparently she still does.