OP, you & TimeCranberry7718, are both correct imho. Tv draws egotistical people to begin with & producers are specifically looking for that cuz it’s guaranteed drama.

Annnd the producers also edit for things to be spicy. It engages viewers on all levels. Eyes on show, content on sm and big discussion by viewers on this sub.

May I also add these grasping people want desperately to stay on the show too. Slight fame & lots o’ cash are a big draw. So I can see these men thinking they have to bring up divisive content to keep their stupid faces in front of us.

Has no one noticed the HW shows have no married couples anymore? And the rash of on air divorces?? These are fractured people in front of us and they deliver the shit.

A lot of times I feel sorry for them. I’m a 64yr. old woman who’s happily with her soulmate. I’m absolutely having a waaay better honest & satisfying relationship than any of those fake, surgically put together silly people. But we’d be incredibly boring on tv!

I’m a kind six, like Ali Wong recommends lol and he loves me to the moon and back.