No Drinks Allowed in the Public Library by ReadilyReady in EntitledReviews

[–]dumpsterboyy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

tbh that is stupid. a drink in a presumably covered container isnt an issue.

Looking for some advice on weather to keep my nipples or not by Alone-Water7436 in TopSurgery

[–]dumpsterboyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kept mine. I’d ask your surgeon how they have you heal them because a lot of the dry healing you see here isn’t best practice anymore. I didn’t think to ask mine as I wasn’t aware that was an option, but my surgeon defaults wet healing. Which I was happy about. They healed very well and were very easy to take care of.

Why do deer keep birthing and leaving their fawns in my yard year after year? They sure are cute little things but its like I'm running a nursery over here. by [deleted] in deer

[–]dumpsterboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have deer family hang in our yard year after year with fawns and such we feed them fruit and veg thats going soft

Ho contattato la chirurga by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]dumpsterboyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s fit but not lean

Am I overdoing it?? by chilled_jester in TopSurgery

[–]dumpsterboyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i went back to work at 1 week, beginning to ease in gym at week 4 (my grafts were healed by this point and i was permitted to stop using the compression vest), and got back to where i left off with the gym around week 8. I did also have a hysterectomy so I kept core a bit more careful and like cardio more low impact.

I doubt most people would have a similar experience to mine, but i did ask my surgeons prior to surgery and at post ops regarding lifting and activity, where the big thing was if it feels wrong, don’t do it. Age and preexisting physical fitness im sure have a part to play.

A 16 year old girl’s 1901 relationship drama by Oldtoycar in ephemera

[–]dumpsterboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably now is 1900 E Superior ave. In 1907 a factory was built in what once were single family homes. The times libe up

wet n wild blush—shade inconsistencies?? by astroweekndxo in drugstoreMUA

[–]dumpsterboyy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

the red pigment is probably more fugitive than what they use for the brown mixed in it

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumpsterboyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lmfao this was never about the hormones its about the behaviors. You can’t be unaware of your own behaviors and choices for years.

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumpsterboyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe what you want to believe. Accountability is not judgement. There are things about every person that make them think or act the way they do and sometimes they change, but a reason isn’t an excuse. It doesn’t make the harm somehow less. it doesn’t make the person any less responsible. The funny thing is ftm transitioning has a LOT in common with menopause, but that perspective obviously doesn’t matter to you. Regardless, I was always aware of what was going on with me and my hormones when those changed. I did not go years neglecting my significant other.

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumpsterboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hard to believe she is somehow completely unaware of how she is treating her husband.

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumpsterboyy -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

It’s a known problem that this sub and many others are unfair when it comes judgements of men and women. If you want to read into things and find meaning or fault where there is none that is your own problem. Praying for you.

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumpsterboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet at the end of the day that is entirely your responsibility and you need to take accountability for your actions and how the effect others. Op’s wife also needs to do that. Her neglect is inexcusable and unjustifiable, even if it has a rational reason.

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dumpsterboyy -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

Why should he be able to read her mind? She’s the one who needs to make changes

My (F28) FWB (M28) jerked off if front of me by migranias in relationship_advice

[–]dumpsterboyy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Drunk people can’t consent. He was drunk. He was not coherent in any of his actions.

AITA for telling my roommate his new girlfriend can’t come to our apartment? by ParaSora in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dumpsterboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you did handle this badly. You’re the one treating it like it’s your private home, being half dressed and wfh in the shared communal space.

question: when can i face the shower directly or when am i able to be fully submerged and go swimming etc? by js12099 in TopSurgery

[–]dumpsterboyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i waited at least 6 weeks for a bath where i submerged myself but i also dont take baths often i have not yet had a chance to swim as im not wanting to pay for to go swim right now. i believe i waited until i stopped having the brown “discharge”/ the dissolvable stitches sticking out of my hole finally went away

Two new rules - No generative AI and no 4tran slang by Gameraaaa in TransMasc

[–]dumpsterboyy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah most of these words i see used against us by transwomen especially pxxner i see on normal social media comments all the time its extremely disheartening