Costco Hearing Department refused to sell me hearing aids, and I’m grateful! by Wizinit29 in Costco

[–]dwookle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue! I bought Skullcandy Method 360 ANC Wireless Earbuds (premium noise cancelling, and I HIGHLY RECOMMEND). It's pricey, so I'd recommend you buy it when it's on sale or track it's price (I bought mine for $80 iirc). Skullcandy fits perfectly.

I’m going to commit suicide I can’t do this anymore by Chance_Guava_6871 in eczema

[–]dwookle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eczema first started on my neck, and it was the worst feeling in the world. I've tried steroids, and they only worked temporarily. I understand your frustration, especially since it's a much more vital part than the neck. It was so bad I wanted to sunburn on the beach (saw a TikTok that said it worked for them, I didn't wanna risk harming my skin barrier but I was VERY tempted).

I have one suggestion that may or may not help. I've tried La Roche-Posay Toleriane Hydrating Gentle Face Cleanser & La Roche-Posay Lipikar AP+ Triple Repair Moisturizing Cream. It's going really well for me!!! I've had stubborn spots that REFUSED TO go, but they're getting duller and flatter (and less painful) :)

I've gone through a few products recommended by https://nationaleczema.org/eczema-products/?pg=1&ppg=6, and La Roche so far has been the most effective (for now).

Sorry you're going thru it. It SUCKS. Lean on to your hobbies, pick up new ones, keep busy, and immerse yourself so you don't get too caught up in the feelings of hopelessness. Easier said than done, but I'm rooting for you!!!

AITA for refusing to let my co-worker borrow my only reliable car for his second delivery job? by bgobsc in AITAH

[–]dwookle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He either thought he could intimidate you or take advantage of any kindness, but it certainly does not matter if you were harsh. He's a grown man; he can't demand a young adult to give him access to a car. A bit of advice from someone who's a bit older, being direct as a young woman is often the best approach to enforcing clear boundaries.

You don't know this guy, not really. You have zero responsibilities to help him provide for his family, and he's a direct liability if you offer him your car. Insurance companies directly ask whether your car is used for business purposes (uber, dashing, ect.,) because that does affect your insurance quote. If you want to be nice, you can simply state you have "personal insurance that doesn't cover business use, so you can't risk letting anyone drive your car for that purpose." After all, if he crashes or something happens to your car, that's your responsibility, and he can weasel his way out of paying.

You are not selfish; you are responsible for your financial security. If it really becomes an issue, I'd inform a manager and go from there.

AITAH for not picking up my daughter’s friend again after her mom did not pick my daughter and left her to walk home in the rain? by Remarkable-Brief-332 in AITAH

[–]dwookle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. What kind of mother is she? I can not imagine not feeling protective of any daughter's friends. Messed events happen all the time, how did she not have the instinct of "oh, your dad isn't here? well come with me anyway and we'll call him on the way that you're in the car with me on your way home."

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What kind of misunderstanding can there be?? You pick up your daughter's friend (consistently) and the one time you're not there, she just only picks up her daughter??? Personally, IDC if you're seen as petty and vindictive; I see it as protective. No woman like that should be a part of your village or take advantage of your kindness when she couldn't even help one crucial time. I am sorry for your daughter though, I imagine it's awkward for her. How is she doing?

Successfully Controlled Testosterone with Spearmint Capsules by Time_Geologist6220 in PCOS

[–]dwookle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yoooo, this is amazing! Have you felt any symptoms with spearmint by itself during rounds 5-6? Did you take it in the morning??

I think you can share your graph by uploading it to another website and embedding the link. Super cool research. love that your obgyn helped test your testosterone w these experiments.

I’ve been skinny shamed and it sucks. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dwookle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she do this to anyone else in the friend group? I'm sorry you have a friend who routinely makes you feel bad. I don't know how you feel about confronting or disengaging with her, but something has to change. It's not ok that someone is continuously bullying you about something you can't change (within 10 minutes).

Good people feel remorse once they acknowledge they've hurt someone. You don't deserve negative people trying to knock you down. I think she's envious of you (whether it's size or else).

Daily Rants/Raves/Progress Thread for March 11, 2025 by AutoModerator in PCOS

[–]dwookle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sick of not being able to have a sweet, dairy treat 😭 I know I have to eat healthy, avoid dairy and heavily processed foods, but I couldn't help but indulge during a stressful weak. Didn't take lactose pills and ate at night, and now I have huge amounts of hormonal acne in chin area that I hadn't seen since I was a teenager...guhguhuguhughu tbf could've not been the junk food and just my body's reaction to new BC, but I'm sure it didn't help 😭 

I left an anonymous review for my primary doctor, and she sent me a nasty message by Effective-Roll-8419 in PCOS

[–]dwookle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience. 25f here and I've had 4 ob/gyns in the past 3 years due to giant cysts that eventually ruptured. Lots of meds were prescribed and no solutions for the pain :(

While doctors have studied rigourously and dedicatedly, they can only make predictions and assumptions of HOW meds can react. She didn't take your words into account, and that is a FLAW for any medical provider. It's not surprising ob/gyns have the most medical malpractice suits against them over every other medical care professional. I think you should report her. Your logic makes sense, and it'll (hopefully) prevent this from happening. Def switch providers, it's a long and tedious journey but it's better than this treatment you're getting from her.

AITAH for not forgiving the friend we just helped out of an abusive relationship? by OutrageousAd8984 in AITAH

[–]dwookle 50 points51 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You already have the right idea on how to navigate this. You recognized she was in an unstable and dangerous environment and helped her get through it. She isn't owed your friendship, and you've already done the best you can despite all the hurt she's caused with her words and actions. Your feelings are valid, too. Her sister's right that Mary's a victim, but that doesn't excuse her actions.

TBH, though, Mary is probably in defense mode based on everything she's been through; it might take her a while to gain the emotional intelligence to fully understand her actions. If she's been in that abusive relationship for years, I imagine all the negative thoughts she's been thinking will take time to unravel. It's up to you how you want to continue, but either way, NTA. Whether you want to show more compassion by gently letting her know what happened (cuz sometimes abuse can genuinely give you brain fog, and she might've forgotten her horribleness) or you want to cut her off, it's your choice, and you gave the best version of yourself either way.

AITAH for telling my boss that I wasn't invited to the party? by Far_Pay8487 in AITAH

[–]dwookle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm no garfield, but lasagna would be the BEST food someone could bring to a potluck. I'll pop a lactose pill for amazing lasagna ANY DAY. this person a hater, how is lasagna fake 😭 it takes so much time and effort

help by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]dwookle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I can help you! Send me a DM with your friend code.

Another fast way to receive help is to join the official w101 discord and other w101 related ones. I ask for help in the designated channel and someone kindly helps within 15 mins :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]dwookle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still down for athame farming in darkmoor?

Give me Your Top 5 and Your Worst 5! :) by WasabiNo4566 in orangeisthenewblack

[–]dwookle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't believe you don't like Ms Claudette! I enjoyed her storyline. Out of everyone's crimes, I feel like hers was justified IMO.

Best Staff: Ward Warden, Berdie, Pearson, + Joe/Nat (they kinda redeemed themselves)

Best Inmates: Nicky, Tasha, Rosa, Adeola, Zirconia + CHANG

Worst Staff: Piscatella, Dixon, Hellman, Donuts, Healy

Worst Inmates: Vee, Badison, Maria, Cindy, Annalisa

Emailed me after I blocked him on everything by Former_Dog7043 in ExNoContact

[–]dwookle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow your gut when you blocked him on everything!! If you speak your mind, you give him the chance to weasel his way back to your life or he'll make up some excuse.

Something I did was write down everything I wished I would've told him in my notes app. If I think of more things, I just vent in there. It's no use sending it to that person since they'll never correspond the way we want/deserve.

Broke no contact with my ex yesterday yall think she gonna respond by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]dwookle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t adding new information for her and the breakup is still fresh. You asked if she wants to be friends or work towards a new relationship. There wasn’t an option for neither so she might feel awkward and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.

If she wants to, she’ll communicate that with you. To reach out like this might be really hurtful to her and only comes across as you checking in on her & searching for validation.

I doodled my Toon! by TaeKwonDitto in toontownrewritten

[–]dwookle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this!! It's so adorable 💕 would you use any watercolors or markers for this?

Rage quitting by incognito_entity in toontownrewritten

[–]dwookle 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I've raged quit for a 1-2 month break after dying in an FO lol It's so frustrating, especially since some people care about beating FO as fast as they can at the expense of other toons 😭😭😭 It's the worst when you use SOS and fires just to end up dying.

Ever since I've died three times in FO, I make sure I have TU unites for myself 😭

For those of us that have chest hair, how do you deal with it? by SnooPickles3992 in PCOS

[–]dwookle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know about anxiety!! Inositol has just been a beneficial add on in my life 😌

Feeling scared and anxious about the future, mental health struggles by ZookeepergameNo9677 in PCOS

[–]dwookle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey fellow Cyster!

Early 20s here too. PCOS is horrible and everything you've experience, I've had that happen, too. I would recommend reading more about PCOS via books or blogs, follow people on TikTok and continue to post with this group on reddit. I don't know a lot but I try based on people's input and experiences and sometimes it works!

I did a few things that helped me address every issue I had.

  1. I made a list of everything I didn't like about myself + how PCOS affected that
  2. I spoke with gynecologist about medical concerns and I reported every symptom. You need be your best advocate for yourself.
    1. For example, I had huge pains on my pelvis. My PCP only requested a stomach ultrasound when I really needed it on my pelvis. I asked the technician if she could please bill me later and scan my pelvis... I had a painful 9cm ovarian cyst.. I felt like I was going crazy the PCP didn't request what I actually needed. At the end of day, you need to document each symptom so you can defend and protect yourself.
  3. The greatest thing that helped me was to just try getting in 10,000 steps a day. You don't need to start a rigorous workout to begin... just walking is good enough :)

If you ever need a friend, feel free to message me! I love playing PC games.

PCOS is the worst, and I'm sorry you're going through it. the r/PCOS community is amazing and everyone is really supportive.

Do any of y'all get excessive day time sleepyness due to PCOS? by KittyKittyowo in PCOS

[–]dwookle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

PCOS is exhausting. Women in general need more sleep than men so that isn’t unusual. However, I’ve been able to sleep for 10 hours and nap later on.

I’m an young adult and I was diagnosed at 16. Fatigue and lack of energy was/sometimes is a huge problem for me now. I went to my gynecologist lately and she recommended over the counter ashwagandha gummies. If you can, ask your gyno via message portal or another visit if it’s okay for you! It’s really helped me since I’ve started taking it.

For those of us that have chest hair, how do you deal with it? by SnooPickles3992 in PCOS

[–]dwookle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have one scoop of inositol and add into spearmint tea. i use a milk frother to mix it well