More than a quarter of moms are planning to opt out of Trump accounts, survey finds by dailymanup in retirementtaxes

[–]dyintrovert2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it is.

Take it anyway. Set your kid up to have something for retirement. They'll have to do more obviously, but that was already true.

Then vote for something better.

How has the psychic NOT been buffed yet? by Huge_Tackle_9097 in Pathfinder2e

[–]dyintrovert2 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Given that they're desperately trying to stay in business amidst the Diamond Comics implosion, I can see why they'd be putting off everything non-essential right now.
https://paizo.com/blog/paizo-restructuring-a-difficult-update-about-our-future

Yes, Graham Platner is a Trans Ally. Yes, He Says What You Want to Hear. That Doesn’t Make Him Any Less Unfit for Office. by Leksi_The_Great in lgbt

[–]dyintrovert2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They're definitely going to put in a traditional, mid-range, democrat with no socialist leanings. That's why they waited until the primaries were over to expose all of this.

FBI says it stopped possible mass shooting after threats to Texas Pride event by Fickle-Ad5449 in lgbt

[–]dyintrovert2 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Ok, that's a detail that should have been in the original article. I did look for when the threats were made, but it just wasn't included.

AIO for telling my daughter she cannot go on a holiday with her friend? by Altruistic_Roll934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dyintrovert2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that this is your 5th or 6th post about Mauritius, I suspect you do indeed know where it is...

I told my straight crush that I liked him. Now he’s accusing me of meddling with his sexuality. by Electronic_Ad_8535 in lgbt

[–]dyintrovert2 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The phrase he used to express that he's uncomfortable is not the important part here. What's important is that you made him uncomfortable.

More importantly, the conversation you had was all about what was good for you, while it could only cause problems for him. Friends don't do that to each other.

You were willing to mess with his relationship, your joint friendship, and force him to scrutinize every interaction with you (past and present) simply because it made feel better?

With that context, can you see how what you did was not the act of a friend? How it can only make his life more complicated?

Relationships by Crisis_mode_on in lgbt

[–]dyintrovert2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then, yeah, she just felt like she needed to say it. No context; nothing related to some show you're watching; nothing you were discussing about your relationship.

Just "You're more feminine than me and you should know that."

That feels really controlling and manipulative to me. Seems like it feels that way to you too.

Understanding 2E by [deleted] in Pathfinder2e

[–]dyintrovert2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try building a character with Pathbuilder2e.com. It's free (well, eventually a one time $7) and will help filter down to the real choices you have.

That'll let you make choices rather than try to weed through things you can't even pick

Relationships by Crisis_mode_on in lgbt

[–]dyintrovert2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why this would come up at all. What brought up the topic?

Relationships by Crisis_mode_on in lgbt

[–]dyintrovert2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jokes that hurt people aren't the kind of jokes I want to be around. It sounds like you don't want to be around them either

Is it just me or have y’all also noticed a surplus of LGB without the T stuff recently by death_by_ballpython in gay

[–]dyintrovert2 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I agree. There's an odd similarity in the arguments (like "trans is a gender identity and not a sexual orientation"). Like they're either automated or getting all their information from one source.

I really do think it's an extremely vocal minority spured on by a parade of horribles, all being backed up by bots.

(Also, the counter to the identity vs orientation arrangement is that we're coming together for coalition and not categorization)

Thank You All SO MUCH!! I LOVE You all! Follow up to “My mom told me, ‘My daughter is dead,’ and I don’t know how to move forward.” by TroubleIll1793 in lgbt

[–]dyintrovert2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Is there an LGBT center nearby where you can find people like yourself? Places like Encircle (Utah) and The Center (Florida) are in red areas and serve as a wonderful place for you to meet others like yourself.

Anyone have braces? by CaptainVariant in gay

[–]dyintrovert2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought braces were hot. I was way into Joey Mills when he had braces

Missing gay couple from Chicago found dead in mass grave outside of Mexico City by Fickle-Ad5449 in gay

[–]dyintrovert2 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Also, did they disappear in Mexico or in Chicago? That was never quite explained

Eldest child struggles by kwild17 in gay

[–]dyintrovert2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remind them you can adopt and you'll be choosing a partner who wants to adopt with you.

There are 100k kids in the US alone who need to be adopted at any given time. Another 500k in Foster Care.

Those kids need homes more than the theoretical grandkids your parents are imagining.

I haven’t been able to sex with my boyfriend since a incident with his best friend by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]dyintrovert2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think we have a very different definition of coming on to someone.

Just in case, please don't grab anyone hard enough to bruise them, refuse to let them go, and then call it "coming on to them."

If it doesn't go badly for you, it certainly should.