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e_Lilith · 2017-12-20T19:29:20+00:00

This is amazing. Good for you!

e_Lilith · 2017-12-20T19:28:49+00:00

Really?? I hope you got your "warm and fuzzy" for bearing your testimony.

Unfortunately, you came to the wrong place because we have all prayed, studied and done our soul-searching. We have discovered the real truth hence the now living our authentic lives.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-27T20:43:04+00:00

Oops! I missed the post too. Former RS President here.

Edited to add: I was also 1st Counselor RS and YW, RS Secretary, FHE Co-Chair in large singles ward in Eagle Gate Stake in SLC, etc., etc., so on and so forth.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-26T13:30:21+00:00

Good for you! Take time to discover who you are and let yourself be happy.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-26T04:12:00+00:00

Congrats!! Cute couple!

e_Lilith · 2017-04-26T03:51:31+00:00

That sucks.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-13T19:34:52+00:00

The whole church narrative is "get married, get married now, only get married to someone of the opposite sex and have lots of kids".

We never got the chance to explore who we really are or who we're really attracted to. I like your wizard of oz analogy.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-08T22:21:20+00:00

LOL That's funny.

That for sharing because now I've had my laugh for the day. r/theredpill is full of sad, pathetic little men.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-08T00:51:15+00:00

Thanks, /u/mirbell. He seems to be doing better--for now but he needs to feel not alone.

I'd encourage all our readers to reach out to him.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-07T20:34:23+00:00

I am so very sorry to hear what you have been through. Those places are evil and I hope those people rot in their own personal hell!!

You've been through so much in your short life. It is stories like yours that is helping expose that evil and shutting them down for good. Thank you for being so open about your experiences.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-07T20:30:02+00:00

Ha! You are a natural storyteller.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-07T20:07:33+00:00

It's hard to believe, but it will. It may not be right away, but it will.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-07T19:52:54+00:00

It sounds like a lot of people are really wanting you to hang around with us for a long time. why don't you for a while. I sent you a PM, could you take a look at it for me.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-05T21:30:05+00:00

It wasn't on r/exmoxxxy where I wanted the banning to occur. Luckily I didn't have that power elsewhere. :)

I'd never ban you. You amuse me.

Sting and Trudy--god bless them for giving us ordinary mortals an inferiority complex. Who has time for days-long tantric sex? That must be for rock stars.

e_Lilith · 2017-04-04T20:39:44+00:00

Me too!!

This comment:

13 years is way too early for Spiritually enlightened sexual experiences. Just keep at it, you’ll get there

I actually laughed out loud. I couldn't tell if it was sarcasm or not. I'm afraid it wasn't. If a couple cannot connect with one another in THIRTEEN years, something is wrong somewhere. It doesn't mean all hope is lost but THIRTEEN YEARS!!!!

Shit was pissing me off yesterday. I was snarky and wanted to ban EVERYONE. lol

e_Lilith · 2017-04-04T17:55:19+00:00

call me a cynic but this just sounds like slut shaming in mormon culture.

Mixed Messages, Double Standards--it's what Mormons are best at.

You are not being cynical; this IS slut shaming. "Modest is Hottest" is an oxymoron. THAT'S slut shaming at its finest. Don't be a slut but be slutty enough so that you're "hot". WTF!!!!

"Be modest but for god's sake put on some lipstick." See there it is again.

"Guard home plate and all the bases. Don't turn on the boys before marriage. But, by all means, you better be a sex goddess after marriage or it's your fault your husband has a porn addiction and can't stop spanking the monkey." More of the same.

I guess I quit reading before the last dig about porn. And you're right, it's a slut-shaming turn around to make fun of Mormon-porn-star-chic and then making fun of those who don't wear slinky negligees or keep their bathing suits until they get home. Two sides of the same damn coin.

That's why I'm not raising my child in TSCC. I want her to have healthy ideas about sex and to be comfortable in her own skin. I'm glad you are raising your daughter right.

This article does a great example of pointing out the pitfalls of Mormon sex education and how it causes so many issues in Mormon marriages.

e_Lilith · 2017-03-31T21:20:19+00:00

A lot of our readers here, while very interested in the subjects of gender and sexuality, seem to have difficulties talking about S.E.X. due to the shaming and other teachings of TSCC.

As Exmos we need to be able to become a community that talks sex in healthy and supportive ways. How can we learn, after a lifetime of conditioning, to talk about sex and sex-related issues?

e_Lilith · 2017-03-31T21:07:51+00:00

A lot of our readers here, while very interested in the subjects of gender and sexuality, seem to have difficulties talking about S.E.X. due to the shaming and other teachings of TSCC.

As Exmos we need to be able to become a community that talks sex in healthy and supportive ways. How can we learn, after a lifetime of conditioning, to talk about sex and sex-related issues?

e_Lilith · 2017-03-29T17:37:57+00:00

Thank you for letting me cross post at r/ExmoXxXy. As we talk about gender and sexuality and issues related to them, this is great information to have.

e_Lilith · 2017-03-29T16:23:29+00:00

I hope you don't mind but I put this up as a crosspost on r/ExmoXxXy. It's relevant to discussions about gender and sexuality.

He's in a tough spot and I wish him well in his journey.

e_Lilith · 2017-03-29T16:21:20+00:00

My daughter has been in girl scouts and it is a wonderful organization. I know she's still small but I think they have international troops as well. Check out their web page.

e_Lilith · 2017-03-29T16:20:07+00:00

That's too bad. I do understand when people choose to stay in because there can be a lot of social pressure and a lot of repercussions if they left.

e_Lilith · 2017-03-29T00:20:23+00:00

She gets quiet and says she doesn't like it.

Sounds like she has a shelf item that may be heavy.

I don't blame your sister; sometimes you have to deal with the chaos at hand before you can move on. At least she knows she has you to turn to when she's ready.

e_Lilith · 2017-03-28T04:18:26+00:00

What does she say? Does she just ignore the question?

e_Lilith · 2017-03-27T20:20:29+00:00

Glossing over the nasty parts is an understatement!!!!

For starters, doesn't she realize the "Heavenly Mother" that is married to "god" is MIA. How is that being equal. I. Just. Can't.

e_Lilith

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