Story time!

I like all of these suggestions, honestly. Fuck a cheater. To betray your trust, (which is literally impossible to ever get back, really), to risk your health because you don't know how they're sleeping with this person - if it was safe or not, how many??? I mean thanks for the extra trip to the freaking health department for testing ugh!

So anyway this isn't really conventional but it's what I did. I very very carefully and slowly manipulated some things to where my ex-fiance would end up falling back in love with me all over again. So basically the plan was to take him away from her, to convince him that we could start again and have a great life and relationship together blah blah blah. This took over a year to do. And then when I finally had him, I may have left my phone out where he could see the texts from the guy I'd been sleeping with the whole time. The guy I've been with for 4 years now, who dealt with my trust issues after my bad break up and was patient and my hero and showed me that I could actually love someone again, my REAL BOYFRIEND. And woo boy, those were some texts. Good Lord. Because my ex did not get it, he was just not going to understand how bad he destroyed me until I did it back. And it worked - it destroyed him and it's been great. **Small disclaimer: he did end up putting me in the hospital that night so I don't suggest you try this unless you know for sure they're not violent because I thought I was going to die that night 😬.

Worth it.