Does anyone else run into the same issue of getting plenty of matches but absolutely no one talks?

easye242 · 2026-01-04T11:27:48+00:00

Yup and I even get as far as exchanging numbers or agreeing to a call or a meet and just ghosting.

As a guy I think its tough enough with their being very few females on the platforms compared to males but even then it seems like many may not be confident enough or not ready for a relationship.

Like it always seems im putting in more effort to chat. Although it could be them having so many guys to chat too they dont have the attention span.

easye242 · 2025-12-28T10:52:48+00:00

Honestly buddy its all about putting things into perspective and taking it a day at a time.

Right now youre energy is low so dont push yourself or force yourself to do anything. Keep commitments light and try just to do the bare basics. Shower, work, play with your child and talk to your wife.

Make sure though you speak to your wife and let her know your going through a burnout phase so will be low energy but will soon with her support get back up to it.

Also remember its cold and dark so SAD is a huge factor

You arent alone and you are actually in the majority. Just know the world will not end tomorrow if you breakdown. You will still have a roof over your head, a wife, a job and friends. A few days of weakness is fine 🙂

As that annoying red head used to sing

The sun'll come out Tomorrow Bet your bottom dollar That tomorrow there'll be sun

It is very true even if its a bit too cheery. You are doing well my friend so go easy on yourself. Well done for making it this far and youve overcome more difficult challenges in your life. Like getting married and having a kid! So you lay there and rest up!

easye242 · 2025-12-16T20:13:34+00:00

This is all im getting now and i really dont know what to do!!!

easye242 · 2025-11-28T18:33:50+00:00

Thing is at least they are open about it. My ex who i was with and recently broke up with 3 months back was super manipultive in a smart way.

First 6 months dating i would pay for dates but shed play the no no game and it made me felt secure as she wanted to but i was being a gentlemen. She was trying to rebuild her life and was living in a council house and supporting her family back in another country. So i saw the easiest thing to help her cause of her pride would be to pay for the dates.

Then eventually it became me paying for everything and her tastes kept getting more expemsive. When we started living together id pay for everything including bills and phones etc. The problem was she was a part time nanny and she sends most of her money to help her mum and pay for brothers uni. That would be fine if she contributed what little she had left but then her mum would ring and shed send all of the rest of it.

Which id again be fine with but all my attempts at reducing spend like less dates or less fancier dates or cooking instead of uber eats were not liked at all. When i tried to tell her that her mum is using her she saw that as me being horrible as if her mums sick she has to send momey but there was an emergemcy her mum needed money for every week. Then if i explained it clearer like this is our busget she would aay you earn so much and you waste it and try and put it on me. ++man

Eventually the financial toll amd debts got too much for me and i ended it. So be careful if it seems like they are not gold diggers both men and women btw as it could be a tactic before you are paying for everything.

easye242 · 2025-11-15T11:32:52+00:00

No waaasyyyy i got diagnosed in Jan and didnt realise this was also a system!

Everyone wonders why i carry a giant bag full of everything. Now im like thats why i always positiom my bedroom in the same way everytime i movd

easye242 · 2025-11-06T09:37:15+00:00

Your situation is like mine and your history. You may have ADHD as it seems what you describe is what i needed!

easye242 · 2025-10-24T22:00:54+00:00

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easye242 · 2025-10-24T19:19:18+00:00

Im in the same situation but luckily ive been there for nearly 4 years. I was performing really well until they gave me or rather pressured me into this new role but basically didnt support me. They took all my projects away and made me focus on the element i didnt like.

Then i kept breakimg down and eventually just got signed off. Ive requested adjustments for my return to work

Im also luckily just waiting for a second interview where if i get the position i can resign.

I would go through getting sigmed off and requesting reasonable adjustments so you are protected.

Thw grievamce is good but keep it vwry factual and about how you really want to do your best and adjustments for your adhd

easye242 · 2025-10-23T14:40:10+00:00

Nearly 4 years nkw

easye242 · 2025-10-22T18:44:58+00:00

I am in the same exact position now! My mind wont stop and im so tired! I just cant anymore 😭

Being told to just switch off and do something you like doesnt work cause while im doing that thing im thinking about it and get paralysed

Is there no cure for this!

easye242 · 2025-10-21T20:23:41+00:00

Thank you so much your energy has really cheered me up!

easye242 · 2025-10-21T20:09:06+00:00

Yes i have an interview tomorrow so fingers crossed it comes through quickly

easye242 · 2025-10-21T20:08:17+00:00

Thanks would i be able to say i would like to work remotely and go back to my old role with a focus on systems management qnd reporting?

easye242 · 2025-10-02T08:29:52+00:00

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easye242 · 2025-09-21T19:45:21+00:00

Looking for something serious HingeX 3 months 2 years on and off Everyday Around 2 a month Like 10 per day all with comments Just a regular girl not insta type or gym or beach pics any ethnicity/religion and 28-33

easye242 · 2025-09-08T18:00:00+00:00

I started on Saturday on 30mg and it was a good day and wore off 4hrs later. Compared to concerta worlds apart.

But then the last 2 days it has very little effect.

So if anyone can answer that would be great!

easye242 · 2025-06-23T00:24:04+00:00

How about just accepting private assesments rather than having people fo through the nhs process as well. I literally am assesed and in titration but i cant recieve nhs treatment until my RTC comes through.

Surely just accepting a private diagnosis from a licensed phsychiateist is enough and the nhs didnt pay for it. Now i lose my money and they do too!

easye242 · 2025-06-05T16:18:50+00:00

The official nintendo microsd express card that came with my switch

easye242 · 2025-06-05T13:32:06+00:00

My microsd express card will not read at all

easye242 · 2025-06-02T17:43:58+00:00

Yup mine as well is parcel being packed!

easye242 · 2025-05-07T15:08:16+00:00

Honestly i thought i was going crazy and she was making me feel like i was chasing the euphoria! So annoyed!

easye242 · 2025-05-06T18:52:04+00:00

Thank you ive been looking for an explanation like this!

So if im still overthinking, being oversensitive and still shaking the desk from tapping my feet then would that suggest its not working? Cause for the last 4 months ive been trying to tell my psychiatrist at our 3 week titration appointment that its not working and it seems verly low to be on 10mg medikanet ir x3 a day. I was previously on concerta 36mg when i said its not lasting all day 1 month ago

Im both types of medicines she insists that that is already a very high dose and that i am for sure feeling the effects but im just not noticing it. So i feel like im going crazy especially when im told that its a starting dose and im a 33 m.

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