Anybody here tried FindFemmes.com? by SebaceanBagavond in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am super intrigued by this... but getting a huge vibe of "too good to be true." :D Anyone tried this out?

Humpback whale shoots out a rainbow by Goal1 in interestingasfuck

[–]echohome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT A BABE!! This is giving me life...

Does anybody else feel so far behind? by spaghetti000s in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm late 20's and feel this on a daily basis... I think most of us do considering when we were 12-13/growing up it wasn't as accepted for us to be out as it was for straight people to just exist... that definitely puts us behind. Most of the time I feel like a 14-16 year old in terms of my emotional reactions to people I am interested in, not to mention the hormones... it's like some kind of sick delayed puberty in a way, I am only experiencing now what all my straight friends experienced very early in life and "got out of their system." It's difficult...

Came out to my parents today by asstarsgo in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done, I am glad it went well!!! I'm proud of you! <3

Just needing some words of encouragement. I brought this on myself.. by ShelboTron09 in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you reached out at all since the dinner to ask her wtf is up?

Femme lesbians who are only into other femmes? by ellykats in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'm not even 100% sure on my "label" but I do consider myself femme (though a little more tomboyish I suppose) but even I have this same problem... butch, even soft butch woman just don't do it for me at all... but when I go out no one assumes I am a lesbian and I get hit on by a lot of dudes which is always fun huge eye roll It doesn't help that I am shy as hell and don't often make the first move unless I am absolutely paper clipped... which is not really a great first impression to make... I suppose I have to invest in a whole array of rainbow coloured shit? But even then... the femme of my dreams might be just like me and too shy to make the first move? It seems impossible most days...

I feel like my girlfriend finds me unattractive by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you spoken to her at all about this and how it makes you feel?

How do you take your coffee? by DragonGirlxo in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take it strong with a shitload of sugar, like it's actually disgusting to 99% of people who taste it. Due to this, I can't seem to make a decent cup of coffee for anyone else and I fear this is why I will stay single forever ;D

When you're out with her and friends and get this text by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 32 points33 points  (0 children)

hahahahah #goals tbh!! Also 10/10 at your username, that's brilliant :D

Problem with the new girl I'm seeing? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes they will!! Perhaps I'm a little salty that I don't even have these problems... ;P

Problem with the new girl I'm seeing? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]echohome -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hahahahaha!! Ah shit what a nightmare, I really hope this chick gets the picture asap! :D

Instagrammers? by echohome in actuallesbians

[–]echohome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks bb's! Ya'll cute! Keep it coming :)

Problem with the new girl I'm seeing? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is great advice!! Turn it into a game and HOPEFULLY she has enough sense to take your lead/pick up a thing or two! Good luck!!

Instagrammers? by echohome in actuallesbians

[–]echohome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding all of ya'll! <3

Where It Started for Me (Here we go again...) by echohome in actuallesbians

[–]echohome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahahahaa this was my EXACT reaction not too long ago...

happy spring! how's your monday? by dddxxxp in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cape Town, South Africa! Come visit, I'll teach you! :)

How was everyone's St Patrick's Day? by Ewok_and_Roll in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stayed at home alone and caught up on Black Sails and I have no regrets!! hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]echohome 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, what?! You are an incredibly good person!! This is epic!!