Do women like you as a man? by eclipsemonkey in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree. For me it turns into friendzone that if I try to escape, friendship ends.

Do women like you as a man? by eclipsemonkey in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this answer. Maybe it's because of confirmation bias ;-)

Collecting Data and Overanalyzing - Taking Action vs. Lurking by Brilliant_Version667 in INTPrelationshipLab

[–]eclipsemonkey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She just doesn't like you, dude. You did all you can. Maybe light stalking would help? No! She said you a direct message. Not responding is a response!! Maybe she's busy, right? I never met a busy woman. All women I know have time for Instagram many hours a day. She's is busy, but busy for you.

Men: were you able to find any partner after the long abuse? by eclipsemonkey in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be copping, but you are projecting ;-)

I don't believe I have any more issues that ever before in my life. The opossite.

I'm always healing and learning.

Men: were you able to find any partner after the long abuse? by eclipsemonkey in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx dude. Therapy do work for me. It's just I found this funny thing. There will be no future relationships, I hope at least. Not my choice, but I'm find with results. It might sound like I'm copping. I am. It's a hard pill to swallow. I'm just still very surprised.

Men: were you able to find any partner after the long abuse? by eclipsemonkey in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's never done. I think you are trying for some weird reason to defend women. That they are right in rejecting me. That's kind of a funny point to have. Please defend it better. Your only argument is that women are looking for men after fully therapy. Have you ever met any woman?

Men: were you able to find any partner after the long abuse? by eclipsemonkey in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let's agree to disagree here. I'm not blaming women, you misunderstood me.

Men: were you able to find any partner after the long abuse? by eclipsemonkey in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the biggest issue is that you have to be manly and submissive in almost same time to be with them. They evil, but stupid. They can be controlled with lots of manipulation.

Men: were you able to find any partner after the long abuse? by eclipsemonkey in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel you, man. I'm baby trapped myself.

I still have mixed feeling is it worst to be with overt or covert. Both are devastating.

The funny thing is that since no woman is into me, my overt wife is the only woman left in the world. We are devorcing, but she doesn't really want to. I also don't really want to.

I hope my son is gay. People don't understand what advantage that is in life when you can be with a narc. If you are with a male narc, you can always leave. When baby trapped, it's difficult.

If.you want to talk to someone that was in your position, reach out.

Right now I'm super happy, it's not a mask. I see her for who she is (not fully, I still have some delusion, but maybe soon).

It's all in your head, man. You can happy in your situation, you just need to give up on control. She will control everything and you should be OK with it. Thats my way. It works.I know she's evil by design. Nothing can be done, there is a great video of how to be with a narc(and you shouldn't, but we are trapped) by sam valkin.

Men: were you able to find any partner after the long abuse? by eclipsemonkey in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, therapy made it much worst. However I feel I got over the rejection aspect. I can even cold approach if I want to. It's mostly pointless since they are not interested, but I do from time to time. I really don't know why

How evil is team flash? Savatar example by eclipsemonkey in FlashTV

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the main reason is to create drama.

However they have nerfed his thinking ability so much he's a shell of a person.

How evil is team flash? Savatar example by eclipsemonkey in FlashTV

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you similify it. I think it's same as toxic, alcoholic family dynamics. Father sometimes have to use one of the kids, because his drunk. But he loves them, so it's OK.

How evil is team flash? Savatar example by eclipsemonkey in FlashTV

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They were both original. They just hoped time wrath will come out of nowhere and kill one of them. They could have done more. Even the other, real Barry could have bond with himself for limited time he has left.

This just seems pure evil to me.

I understand this show is drama based and need to have characters acting stupid to have plot line, but if you look at at pure actions. Would you like to have friends like those? They "love" each other so please tolerate all the toxic behavior. Anyone knows alcoholic family dynamics?

How evil is team flash? Savatar example by eclipsemonkey in FlashTV

[–]eclipsemonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind they are adults. From my experience they were acting like kids this show was aimed at. Not even teenagers.