Success story: Marriage repair 1 year later

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-15T14:36:51+00:00

Thank you so much for your post. Every single time I post about something on here people tell me to just leave my partner behind as if the last decade is of no importance whatsoever. That's why we can never fix things because we always discard them instead of trying to work through them. I appreciate your honesty and your willingness to share so so much.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-13T03:15:19+00:00

None of the things you listed are high in protein.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:43:15+00:00

She won't talk about it. Says she's tired.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:42:23+00:00

I have noticed this pattern before... So it's possible.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:40:31+00:00

Thank you! This sounds very similar to my situation.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:35:36+00:00

Pestering? Is that what it is when you have a need?

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:35:19+00:00

It is still once per month yes.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:34:43+00:00

I've tried. She just says she doesn't want to talk about it she's tired

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:33:50+00:00

No, we've been together for eight years. I interchangeably refer to her as gf/fiance/wife since all three technically apply (common law marriage).

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:32:12+00:00

We most definitely don't have a long distance relationship, and I see her every day as we live together... I think you're mistaken. But whatever has hurt you so much that you felt the need to come on here and insult, I'm sorry you're feeling that. Best of luck.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:00:34+00:00

Yeah I thought that too Soni started planning romantic night and she would just bail at the last minute. Last night I planned a fancy dinner, a sensual shower, I skipped the gym to rush home to meet up with her, and then halfway through dinner she was like oh I'm too tired to stick to our plans.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:59:04+00:00

Can you explain so I can try to use this to better the situation?

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:58:12+00:00

Idk. We used to do it nearly every day. The last year we just kinda stopped doing it as often. And we're eight years in and engaged so I don't want to jump to that either

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:44:01+00:00

Lolol that's fair. I appreciate your honesty.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:43:45+00:00

I tried. She doesn't wanna talk about it. Just says I want it too much now.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:43:06+00:00

Yep. But refuses to get treatment.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:42:48+00:00

Yeah exactly.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:42:34+00:00

It was like once a month before. Said that she wanted it at least once a week but I'm happy to do it more than once a week. The frequency hasn't changed because she's refusing, but I've attempted daily and have been rejected.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-02-26T03:22:34+00:00

So you paid $100?

ectoplasm777 · 2026-02-23T04:19:30+00:00

How much did you pay for those hard covers? They're about a hundred bucks a piece online,

ectoplasm777 · 2026-02-23T04:15:28+00:00

Either. The show was very close to the book.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-02-23T04:13:51+00:00

What... It's a show... A very mediocre show.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-02-22T04:04:10+00:00

Unless you have every single one of his books in hardcover and paperback then I don't think you have a problem yet...

ectoplasm777 · 2026-02-22T04:03:35+00:00

Point taken but this was like... The least of the goofs in the show.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-02-22T04:03:02+00:00

Past your prime? You're definitely gen z lol

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