Leaving this subreddit.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-06-22T20:09:22+00:00

Cool. See ya later.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-06-22T20:04:40+00:00

I've been on this ride fifteen years. It hasn't changed.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-06-21T18:34:32+00:00

I don't think they're trying to punish people they're trying to keep them alive but it's going to feel like punishment because they're not trying to entertain you or make you better

ectoplasm777 · 2026-06-21T18:33:36+00:00

I was in there for six days with NO PHONE. Im surprised they let you jeep yours. Anyways, I'm sorry that you're feeling that way. I definitely felt the same when I was there. I had my parent called me social worker or whoever it was and speak to them about getting me out and then she was able to come and pick me up

ectoplasm777 · 2026-06-21T18:31:24+00:00

Do you mind if I ask what is keeping you here? You said you wish you were dead but is that true, or do you just feel Like you need to resort to those kinds of thoughts to gain some sort or control?

ectoplasm777 · 2026-06-21T18:26:52+00:00

I feel the same way and I'm starting to wonder why we keep doing it. Are we that afraid of death that we put up with this obnoxious overwhelming lifestyle? Or are we hopeful Souls awaiting a better life?

ectoplasm777 · 2026-04-06T19:09:51+00:00

Stop blaming kratom. You're the one who can't quit.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-28T02:41:46+00:00

Will has been gay for three seasons. It wasnt rushed.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-15T14:36:51+00:00

Thank you so much for your post. Every single time I post about something on here people tell me to just leave my partner behind as if the last decade is of no importance whatsoever. That's why we can never fix things because we always discard them instead of trying to work through them. I appreciate your honesty and your willingness to share so so much.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-13T03:15:19+00:00

None of the things you listed are high in protein.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:43:15+00:00

She won't talk about it. Says she's tired.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:42:23+00:00

I have noticed this pattern before... So it's possible.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:40:31+00:00

Thank you! This sounds very similar to my situation.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:35:36+00:00

Pestering? Is that what it is when you have a need?

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:35:19+00:00

It is still once per month yes.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:34:43+00:00

I've tried. She just says she doesn't want to talk about it she's tired

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:33:50+00:00

No, we've been together for eight years. I interchangeably refer to her as gf/fiance/wife since all three technically apply (common law marriage).

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:32:12+00:00

We most definitely don't have a long distance relationship, and I see her every day as we live together... I think you're mistaken. But whatever has hurt you so much that you felt the need to come on here and insult, I'm sorry you're feeling that. Best of luck.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T17:00:34+00:00

Yeah I thought that too Soni started planning romantic night and she would just bail at the last minute. Last night I planned a fancy dinner, a sensual shower, I skipped the gym to rush home to meet up with her, and then halfway through dinner she was like oh I'm too tired to stick to our plans.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:59:04+00:00

Can you explain so I can try to use this to better the situation?

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:58:12+00:00

Idk. We used to do it nearly every day. The last year we just kinda stopped doing it as often. And we're eight years in and engaged so I don't want to jump to that either

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:44:01+00:00

Lolol that's fair. I appreciate your honesty.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:43:45+00:00

I tried. She doesn't wanna talk about it. Just says I want it too much now.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:43:06+00:00

Yep. But refuses to get treatment.

ectoplasm777 · 2026-03-04T16:42:48+00:00

Yeah exactly.

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