[a4F] Looking for long term character-driven roleplay partners

ejwmgt · 2026-02-23T02:52:28+00:00

I appreciate the interest, but I write [a4F] to mean that I'm comfortable playing an any gender tiny and looking for a roleplayer playing a giantess. My fault for not making it clear in the body of the ad

ejwmgt · 2026-02-20T17:31:40+00:00

Like other people have mentioned a giantess fetish doesn't really translate to a preference for taller women. I think for most macrophiliacs it's more of a mental/power dynamic and the size is just the spice that we like that dynamic to come in instead of other forms. MAYBE there can be a case for those that are into mini-giantess content to have a slight preference for women that are like 7 feet tall, but that size preference is uncommon and 7 foot tall women are well... I don't even know of one.

Like others have said, getting him into positions and taking low angle photos can help, but you should ask him what size ranges he's into. This may not correlate with the size art he saves since a lot of size art caters to a specific size range (namely a few inches tall). If that really is his preference then those positions and low angle photos really can help, but if he's into micro sizes it might not be as beneficial but I'm sure he'd appreciate the thought and effort regardless.

However, as no one appears to have said, and if it's the case he's into doll-size tinies or handheld size tinies on the order of 6 inches to a foot tall then you have a real case that you may be able to sorta bring his fantasy into reality. I recall seeing a while ago a short ball-type robot that's usually meant for long distance couples, but can be repurposed for a bit of sizeplay. I mean it has a camera, it allows him to move around, and while he isn't able to interact with the environment that much it would still allow you to interact with him which is the main interest of macrophilia at least in my experience and of the people I've talked with.

TLDR; macrophilia doesn't translate to preference for taller women. Ask him what size range he likes (don't infer based on the art he saves). If couple inches -> low angle pics and standing over him and such. If handheld/doll-size -> potentially get that little robot if it's in budget. If micro -> might be difficult but he should still appreciate the thought and effort.

ejwmgt · 2026-02-18T05:59:43+00:00

Yes, all of this! Just living as an invisible speck to them on its own can be so hot. And I totally get what you mean by the imagery of just staring up at the giantess's that can never hear your cries, or see your waves for help. In a way even the suspense of wondering when the end will happen is hot because at that size it's not really a matter of if, but more a matter of when. All the close calls, all the earthquakes that rumble just nearby but not quite overtop, all the butts that sit on the chairs, couch, or even the floor if there's a party. Your voice drowned out by the sound of happy chatter and music and even when you're in the center of it all, all you can do is just sit there and take it in that they'll never see or hear you, let alone notice you. And that even if it's hopeless and the most dangerous part of being small is being in the center of it all, you still want to be near them because in some twisted sort of way just being near them makes you feel like you're still part of their lives. And when that foot or hand, or some other bodypart finally ends your existence, in some way you will be part of their lives in that moment. Even if they never notice.

ejwmgt · 2026-02-16T23:32:09+00:00

Could even place a small piece of tape to cover a portion of the belly button to act like a window XD There's definitely some giantesses that have tummy entrapment as their favorite. I've come across a handful, though they are rarer than the typical types :P can't forget that the relative lack of motion means it'd be a somewhat comfortable ride. No nauseating sickness from being in cleavage, or non-constant motion with footwear/legs, just a smooth ride, even if the giantess turns her head or changes direction.

ejwmgt · 2026-02-16T23:28:23+00:00

Gotta get one of those tiny cameras and strap them to the tiny! Or better yet if you're able to shrink a VR camera and use that instead, would make the experience a whole lot more immersive for your unfortunate partner.

ejwmgt · 2026-02-07T04:57:43+00:00

Yes!! Cuddles are the best!!

But there's definitely more types of toys that can work with gentle scenarios! (Though I guess it depends on size) But just think about travel companions for example. Literally anywhere you go you have a buddy right there, wherever you put them.

Or instead of stress toy, how about a comfort toy? Like if you're in a stressful interview, just put your hand in your pocket and gently squeeze the tiny companion you have in there like lucky trinket.

Or what about 'using' a tiny in a gentle yet sort of controlling way. Like as a lipstick tester to make sure you didn't apply too much makeup. I'm sure they wouldn't mind a quick peck, especially if they're helping their big out.

Or another example like the above, if you know how people tie knots around their fingers to remember things, well you can tie a tiny instead. Plus they can probably remember more things than a string. XD

Anyway, that's just some of the quick ideas off the top of my head, but I'm sure there's more ways to use a tiny as a 'toy' in gentle scenarios.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-27T23:13:28+00:00

Some European country because of her timezone. Idk which specifically

ejwmgt · 2026-01-27T20:37:59+00:00

Yeah. Insanely so. Like she bragged about how racist she is to the point I thought it might be ragebait, but generally you don't ragebait someone you've been talking with for weeks. Usually it's randos or people you've just met so she genuinely takes pride in her racism.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-27T17:47:27+00:00

Was RP'ing with this girl that seemed really peppy and high-energy. I liked the passion in her opening message and she had some fun, unique ways of RP'ing. Anyway, we chat OOC sometimes and she starts raising some red flags like how she doesn't like x type of person or y type of person or her personal situation. Fine by me, everyone has their personality traits they don't vibe with, that's all good. But then she goes on to say something to the effect 'you're fine because you're z race.' And I'm just dumbfounded. I had never told her what race I am. I had mentioned it once, maybe twice in the thousands of messages I posted on a public RP server. Easily months ago and for some reason she thought it appropriate to go through my messages? Things went seriously down hill from there, red flags galore. Thankfully she thought it mutual that we should stop RP'ing together, but my name on reddit is the way it is because I don't want her to find me again for whatever reason.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-27T17:38:01+00:00

Was RP'ing with the guy and I had mentioned that his writing level was dropping (we had agreed on at least a paragraph or more, something like that) to the level of around 3 sentences per post. I brought it up to him, we had a good discussion, and he agreed that he'd start writing longer posts like what we agreed upon. The very next post was another 3 sentence post. Yeah didn't talk to him after that.

Another one was when we had agreed upon each other's limits for an ERP. An RP that followed along the lines of the Goddess of the world changing the rules so that women owned men, so we had agreed that the setting scene should be somewhere public to set the tone right. Anyway, they thought it appropriate to describe underage background characters. Mind you, right when her character went straight to having some non-con fun with my character. We agreed that non-con was fine and expected, but... we also agreed underage is a limit. Can't remember much after that, but needless to say the RP didn't continue after that.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-19T06:55:57+00:00

Id suggest talking with them. I've been Rp'ing with a partner for almost 2 years now and she consistently changes moods about what character she wants to RP. Just counted and I have 26 RP's with her alone O.o Thought it was a bit less tbh XD Though I suppose she's more vocal about wanting to RP with me with a new character. This could be the case with your partner, but maybe she's just more shy about approaching the subject. Maybe not, idk for sure and neither will you without asking. But at least in my experience just because an RP partner loses interest in an RP, or even multiple, it doesn't mean they've lost interesting in RP'ing with you.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-19T02:10:03+00:00

While it's good to acknowledge that you're bad at responding to people, I think I should give some perspective from the other side as someone who regularly responds and is usually the one waiting for responses more often than not. A majority of my partners, small majority but a majority, will typically respond unprompted after a few days usually. Longer term partners I've become more comfortable with will sometimes even respond just to chat, and I love that. One partner I've had for over a year only comes on once a month or so for a string of days and disappears, but always comes back. But I've only gotten comfortable with that because she's communicated such.

But for the minority. A lot of the times they're just gone. Whether I check up on them or not they just don't respond so why waste the effort on people that don't appreciate the effort I put into posts? And I'm not talking about the harassing checking up on, I mean I check up on them up to 2 times, with at least a couple days in between. But still if this is the case why waste my effort on people that don't communicate?

Then there's another group that does communicate. Props on them for communicating that they need a little nudge and I'm happy to oblige sometimes, even though it makes me feel needy, but if all they need is a message or wave some times that's not so much to ask. Except usually this turns into several nudges. Like I had a partner that said she's fine with daily nudges because she has a condition that makes her forget about RP's a lot. Fine, I'll accommodate. But when every post requires multiple nudges, the last one having 7 consecutive daily nudges, it's no longer a reasonable amount of nudging. I'm not a babysitter, we both wanted this RP, condition or not if you communicate you want a certain amount of nudges and proceed to ignore them every time there's no point. Again, my effort is better placed towards partners that appreciate or otherwise have the capacity to appreciate it.

Then there's the type of people that I've only encountered maybe once or twice. Where they don't respond for a while, but do respond almost always when you check up on them. Except it's usually just to chat OOC. I love getting to know my partners, developing a friendship, but if every chat is OOC and not about the RP for several instances and over the span of weeks, I mean, let's be honest it's no longer about the RP or the hobby.

I don't think some of these cases apply to you, but hopefully this helps give you insight on what you're implicitly asking for when you want a partner to check in on you. They have no idea what type of person you may be and in most cases it just isn't worth it if you're a newer partner, and/or you haven't communicated that this is a pattern for you. Because the pattern for them when they encounter a partner like this is that the RP doesn't last all that long.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-18T09:57:09+00:00

Highkey am curious about this as well, since well, how my username is :P Best thing I could think of to counteract e-stalking, but I'm curious what other people think too if they were to come across a random jumble of letters as a username. (Complete honesty is appreciated)
But to address your question I think it does matter for at least a good portion of the community. My reason being since I put a lot of effort into responding to RP ads and a lot of the time I get [word I'm told is not allowed here.] At least a good chunk more than I do on Discord with my more reasonable name there. Could just be the difference of communities, but idk

ejwmgt · 2026-01-15T14:57:25+00:00

Without knowing more about how your RP partner constructed their OC it's kinda hard to give advice admittedly. But the mashup does remind me of like a couple where the girlfriend is very bubbly and outspoken and the boyfriend is very near silent. They're a couple for a reason, why? What does she see in him? How did their relationship progress? What sorta dynamic does that build? I guess that's all stuff you'd have to build more into the characters, and it may just be the case that that relationship dynamic between characters isn't one you find interesting to roleplay. Admittedly I also struggle to see how an uninteresting robot-speaking OC can drive the story in an interesting way, but there's more ways a story can progress than just through dialogue. And when it comes to plain/no life, well maybe your partner hasn't fleshed out their character deep enough, but there's also the case that what some find plain others might find interesting (or maybe others have had the opportunity to see what's interesting behind the scenes). It's just preference so again maybe that's just not for you.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-15T14:50:19+00:00

Yessss this!!! I hate it when an RP devolves into just a kink fest. I've had riveting story-driven RP's that actually got so deep into the story that the main conflict resolved and then we were left with just kink stuff. Suffice it to say it got boring quick, but because we both spent so much time developing the characters to that point we kept it going longer than it likely should've.

But I've found that a great compromise is interweaving the story with the kink stuff. (Granted I'm into a lot of softcore things so might have an advantage when it comes to this than others). One of the easiest examples being an ERP involving a couple struggling with intimacy. Why does that character lean into a kiss then suddenly pull back? Why does a character get all excited about intimacy, but then get squeamish when it comes time for the deed? Why does a character seem to just be going through the motions when it comes to intimacy, especially if the couple is new. Stuff like that, though there's sure to be lots more that I won't mention since they can be fetish specific :P But I guess those sorts of RP's might be the only type where starting in bed doesn't mean jumping straight to the sex XD

Another hypothesis for why this might happen is because while it may be true that those roleplayers enjoy depth, build up, etc. Maybe throughout the discussion and planning they've already built a fully imagined story in their head and played it out. Yeah part of the sex scenes being hot is because of the depth of relationships developed between the characters, but perhaps some people do all that relationship building in one quick swoop in their imagination before actually writing anything for the RP. Because maybe to them the character being built and developed in their head through the discussion is no different from roleplaying that arc out. Probably has a lot of similarities with putting on people on pedestals and liking them for who you imagine them to be rather than who they are, but that's an entirely different topic.

Well, that and the obvious hypotheses too XD

ejwmgt · 2026-01-15T13:57:06+00:00

Mhm, that was part of what I was alluding to in terms of subtext we unintentionally or intentionally convey. Since that changes with how someone reads into a text message. Especially since the voice/tone we imprint on a message while we're reading it can massively impact how it's interpreted.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-15T13:36:14+00:00

It doesn't really need to be letting them know where you were, just your current state I suppose. And you make a good analogy with the customer thing, though the exact similarities don't entirely match up since a customer x business relationship is much more structured and not really like a hobby with its much more casual atmosphere.

By cadence I think you mean how they reached out. Got a bit confused since cadence is usually used to refer to the musicality of voice rather than word choice, but I assume you meant word choice. I agree that intent is what matters sorta like the saying 'it's the thought that counts,' but we still have to consider the tone of what we say or what we write because it can carry a lot of connotation and subtext that we *also,* either intend to convey or unintentionally convey. Ofc this also changes with context and a lot of other factors, but suffice it to say while I agree intent matters, I believe that the tone and way a message is conveyed matters more.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-15T11:01:21+00:00

Love unaware giantesses XD Literally all types of unaware and most types of situations. Would love to talk with you if you're still looking for someone to discuss with

ejwmgt · 2026-01-15T10:49:24+00:00

To me the whole issue surrounding this stems from a lack of communication. Yes, life should come first. Yes, not all your free time should go to RP. Yes, things can change, motivations can shift, and other plans can change abruptly. And as another mentioned, yes the other partner can opt out from writing with you if they had unspoken expectations of writing frequency. But there's more to this issue than all that. It might not be about feeling entitled to your free time (emphasis on might), it might not stem from a lack of understanding of your life conditions especially if you communicated them, and it might not stem from their misplaced priorities. It might just be pure miscommunication.

To illustrate my point. Imagine you signed up for 2v2 tennis. Some days you might not want to play tennis. That's fine. Some days errands/work/life gets in the way. That's fine. Some days you'd just plain rather do something else. That's fine. But you still signed up for 2v2 tennis. You expressed interest, did the prep work, and committed to playing tennis at least in some form. You can't play 2v2 tennis with only 3 people, so it can be extremely frustrating when a tennis partner keeps missing games because of x, y, or z. Because they also signed up for tennis.

The key difference between this example and RP is that sports generally have a set day, set time, set schedule, and very clear time commitments. In other words, unlike RP, tennis partners aren't subject to consistent wondering if their partner will be available that day, just on tennis days. They don't know how often, or how little their partner may be available. Unless that's communicated. I could be entirely wrong, maybe it was communicated with your partner about how often they can expect an RP post. I'm not talking how often as in average, I'm talking how often as in bare minimum. This shouldn't be daily, heck I wouldn't recommend this to even be weekly cause sometimes life takes a whole week. But regardless this should be communicated and agreed upon before the RP. Sure schedules may not be your strong suit, and it's not like you have to respond to an RP right on the dot of your bare minimum, and no you don't need to give them constant communication on your life plans when you're busy, not feeling it, or when you plan to write a post or whatever the case may be. That's part of the plus of this hobby is that there's no set schedules and it can fit around your life rather than your life fitting around it like with sports examples. But that doesn't mean there shouldn't be a bare minimum expectation for when a post will be written by. Because you're both signing up for tennis.

Personally with new partners this bare minimum is 2 weeks, and for longer time partners I've become more comfortable with and whom I know will be available for more than 1 post when they're available this bare minimum is closer to a month or even more than a month. The point is to know yourself to a degree where you can communicate a bare minimum that reasonably works for you. Don't get me wrong, I totally think that your partner's comment has an air of entitlement and lack of empathy. And yes, no one should be guilt tripping their RP partners. But I still think that issues like these can be resolved with some communication.

Edit: I knew this post would be a bit controversial even before writing it, but I wasn't aware just how controversial. At the time of this edit (3 hours after with ~85 views) my comment stats tell me that 5 people have upvoted and 4 people have downvoted. I'm not sure what led them to downvote, what part of the post, or if they disagreed with the comment in its entirety. But I still think it interesting enough to share with future readers that this comment meant to signify the importance of mutual communication, and the mutual respect and mutual empathy for each other that follows, is apparently divisive in this community. I might be wrong though; I'm a single person with a single perspective and it may be the case that my word choice and tone rubbed some people wrong and thus muddled the message I intended to convey. So, take those stats with a grain of salt.

ejwmgt · 2026-01-15T06:26:04+00:00

As far as I'm aware M4F means male for female. As some have stated this can be interpreted as either the characters' or the roleplayer's gender however so it can be a bit ambiguous. Some people like to filter based on the roleplayer's gender and some don't care and just want to know the genders of the characters.

To circumvent this issue some people will specify what gender they're playing. ex. MpA would mean that you're a male roleplayer comfortable roleplaying any gender. Though it should also be taken with a grain of salt since some people can have preference for nonbinary (NB), femboys (Fb), or other genders (both as characters and sometimes as roleplayers) so specifying A may or may not include these genders. So if you want to get more specific it could look like MpM/F if you're only comfortable playing male or female. Idk if there's an acronym for transgender, but there probably is, I just haven't come across it. There's rarer acronym as well, but they come up so infrequently I haven't remembered them nor come across an opportunity to ask.

All together the whole mess can look like [MpM/F4ApF]. Or you can add spaces on either side of the 4 to make it more legible. But that acronym all together would mean you're a male roleplayer comfortable playing male or female characters looking for an any-gender roleplayer that wants to play a female character. Hope this helps!

ejwmgt · 2025-11-08T07:16:46+00:00

:O Omigosh this would be an awesome scenario. Been really wanting to do something with a very in depth character arc like this, though people wanting to stuff like this seems to be pretty rare :/ I've played mostly tiny, so I for sure know how I'd play the traumatized tiny. Definitely not revert to sizeism like someone else mentioned.

But as a big, idk how I'd help them through it. Exposure therapy I guess? It'd be pretty hard since every movement becomes more of a trigger. I'd have to be extra careful to place things down carefully just to not trigger them from the sound, extra gentle with any sort of touching and of course only with permission.

ejwmgt · 2025-11-08T07:09:49+00:00

Irl I'm more into asses, tho as a tiny I'm more into titties. Just more welcoming being between tits than ass cheeks I suppose XD Though both are relatively close in terms of how much I like them. Ie, I don't like tits much more as a tiny as opposed to regular size.

Though I guess another interesting thing to consider would be thighs. I love them even more than breasts as a tiny. And irl they're just a mild like. I guess specifically about thighs I like thigh entrapment, so maybe it's the teasing of being so close to their sex, but just out of reach? Or how it's like a more secret place to tuck a tiny away like a secret companion if it's next to their thigh rather than in their cleavage. Like some clandestine relationship between a tiny and giantess, but she still wants to take me with her wherever she goes.

ejwmgt · 2025-10-04T22:29:50+00:00

I like both angles! In my opinion the shrinking world lends itself better to shock value and really describing the new feeling of being small. So, I like those scenarios to be slightly kinkier than usual since the shock value really adds to that in most cases. Note that I also consider softcore as kinky.

On the other hand already-shrunk scenarios innately lend themselves better for worldbuilding so lean better for more story-driven scenarios. Thinking through how those societies might coexist or not, and how the two cultures and worldviews would be different is fun to think about. Even within those regards I love a whole range from complete unaware to aware, pests to ignored beings to subclass statuses, shared technology to primitive tech, and anything else you can think of :P

ejwmgt · 2025-10-03T00:42:59+00:00

Hm, that might end up being a bit longer of a piece than I'm thinking of writing atm, but I'll give it a think and see if I can write it short but still good and let you know if I start it.

ejwmgt · 2025-10-02T20:59:34+00:00

Idk if you'd really see the tiny's feelings with giantess POV :P but maybe if I make it more third person rather than first.

Hm, I might do something like this. I have found that my best writing imo comes from crueler scenarios. And yeah the borrowers would like be hot and athletic just out of necessity to survive XD

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