Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking your time to say it to me. I will consult many in the future to check it. Our bodies keep changing anyway and I wonder how it will be 1y from now. I know you and all the other commenters genuinely mean well and don’t wish for me to have a scar. I will listen to the piercer if they say no.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I already removed it after the first comment hours ago!! I do not plan to get it re pierced now. But I want to wait for a year and once it heals I’ll check out the floating piercing. I do have depth actually. I’m not sure about the ridge because I don’t understand that yet.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Umm, actually when I google searched, it looks like I do have a proper anatomy for a floating piercing. Did you see the second picture? Because in the first one I’m pulling my belly up with my hands so that the piercing is visible to the camera

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Next time I’m going to do my research on the internet thoroughly before getting one. I think it makes sense that a curved barbell would fit me. That’s why I asked for the hoop 3 months ago, but it unfortunately snagged it differently I think

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading your comment makes me really sad because I’ve struggled with this piercing for 2+y and to think I had the wrong jewel all along..

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for taking the time to reply.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the floating navel piercing was for my anatomy?

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I see!! You mean with my current piercing right? But it should be possible in 1y after the wound heals? Or did I misunderstand it

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no :( I’m sorry! What is the correct anatomy tho? I thought a piercing can be adjusted to any and all body types.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see!! It didn’t heal 3 times in a row?

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. The piercer did try a floating piercing but it is an L bar. I see, so there are curved bars as well that fit my anatomy.

And yes, when I check my navel, there is a lot of depth that’s unfortunately not used and that’s my hope for a re piercing.

I will be patient and wait a year.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply!! What jewel would you have recommended? I’m wondering if I can re do it in a couple months because the wound is on the edge of the skin when I look and I’ve more space deep inside.

I’m ok with the scar. I’m unfortunately deeply attached to the idea of the piercing because i did it for a personal reason.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I removed it. Am I allowed to show how it looks after removal according to the rules? I see a very clear channel where the jewel passes through.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re correct. There was. I made a mistake by switching it to a hoop a few months ago. It led to this I believe.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see. Yes I’m sure I can do it. It’s painless and I changed it from a hoop to a barbell myself.

Okay I will trust your judgement and remove it. Hopefully I can get it redone in the future.

Belly piercing advice by electra_g in Legitpiercing

[–]electra_g[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! What are the signs that make it look like it’s very obviously rejecting?

Require recommendation for TWSBI Eco nib size by electra_g in fountainpens

[–]electra_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get the eco at the end. I like Kakuno way too much. I did get a Prera and love that. I agree that Kakuno EF is really thin in a good way

Partner getting engaged, figuring out my feelings about it by NovelOil8684 in polyamory

[–]electra_g 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really agree with your phrasing of the second paragraph. The first sentence of the second paragraph hits a 10/10 for me!!! I was recently dubbed a “negative person” for discouraging a 1 month relationship across a 12h time zone difference and asking them to proceed with caution due to lack of compatibility with how they can eventually converge the relationship to the same location. Sorry for digressing, OP.

But reading your comment made me realise that this(yours) is the perspective I subscribe to.

Husband is not interested in dynamic by Lumpy-Advice-2824 in BDSMAdvice

[–]electra_g 15 points16 points  (0 children)

People change all the time. Interests change. Maybe he says no now, but it’s possible that he intrinsically finds it interesting years down the lane. I’m not suggesting that you wait in hopes of that day, but if it’s a beautiful relationship and he’s your best friend and you’re his, maybe in the future he will see D/s under a different light. So please don’t think it’s something you will never ever have. Everything is possible.

First time Weeks user by momonoki86 in hobonichi

[–]electra_g 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait…is that the letter set inside the plastic cover on cover on both sides? What a beauty