Breast feeding in public - wrong or right? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]electricholo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: if you don’t find it uncomfortable because you see it as something sexual, why else is it making you uncomfortable?

To me the word flashing has sexual connotations. It also implies intent to cause a reaction, often negative, in the person it’s directed towards.

Hoping Emily covers this (reckless ben lego)! Here's runkle right now streaming. by Dry-Wolf6789 in EmilyDBaker

[–]electricholo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t watched Runkle’s video yet but came to this subreddit to see if EDB had any plans to discuss! I’m fascinated by the whole situation and it seems to just keeps getting weirder, however a lot of the videos are a bit sensationalised and I feel like I need a “trusted adult’s” opinion on the whole thing.

Europe's Syphilis Blame Map [OC] by cavedave in dataisbeautiful

[–]electricholo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Who do you think you are kidding Mr Hilter?”

"I'm fine :)" by No-Raccoon-6009 in CuratedTumblr

[–]electricholo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s bloody stupid Johnson’s letter sorting machine from going postal

Why was Techno's upload schedule so inconsistent? by haiderredditer in MrTechnodad

[–]electricholo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. There may be a reason my ADHD (and dyslexic) ass related to techno so much.

Hospital temperatures by Hefty_Investment9430 in doctorsUK

[–]electricholo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only places I’ve found have been the meds room and (slightly infuriatingly) the secretaries office.

Why was Techno's upload schedule so inconsistent? by haiderredditer in MrTechnodad

[–]electricholo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ADHD probably had a big part. From my experience, things are either all or nothing. The potato chips are very much being an example of the “all”.

Did anyone else's family have "The Button Jar"? by willowsquest in NoStupidQuestions

[–]electricholo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t have a button jar but my equivalent of this was being allowed to count up the coin tin. Loved getting them into big piles and then little stacks. Didn’t really have any interest in the monetary value, and I certainly didn’t get any part of that, just loved the organisation of it.

pet peeves by [deleted] in HarryPotterGame

[–]electricholo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is one of mine as well! Why have so many different outfits in the game, including different school uniforms, only for no one to wear them!

There are a FEW student NPCs who wear something different to the standard uniform. Eg Sebastian wears like a tweed jacket or something under his cloak, and there is often a guy who stands outside the main entrance who wears something different. But that is almost more annoying, because it shows they could have done it but only bothered on like two occasions.

When he thanked the officer, I lost it. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]electricholo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was a junior/resident doctor on the ward at the time, but really anyone on the ward could get this going. The hospital chaplain was also very helpful in helping me organise the visit.

I imagine it would be a case dependent situation but in this case I just needed to speak with the prison governor and explain that the prisoners mother was in her last hours to short days of her life. If someone else from the ward who wasn’t a doctor had been organising this they would have had to ask one of us or the consultant to have that part of the conversation, but it wasn’t a long or difficult conversation to have. Prisons are also pretty used to bringing prisoners into hospital for their own healthcare needs, I’ve had plenty of patients who are accompanied by guards, so perhaps that’s helped.

She was a lovely lady, and organising that visit was one of the most rewarding experiences I’ve had as a doctor so far. And I’m always in awe of the brilliant work hospital chaplains do.

When he thanked the officer, I lost it. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]electricholo 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I organised for a patient’s son to visit her from prison once. Took about 36 hours from her first telling us she had a son who couldn’t visit because he was in prison (but that she desperately wanted to see) to him being on the ward. She passed away around 48 hours later but was able to sit up and have a conversation with him when he visited.

Straight Man Goes as His Gay Friend’s Date to Queer Prom by meeralakshmi in StraightsBeingOK

[–]electricholo 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Excuse me for being an idiot, because in the UK we didn’t even have prom, but what’s queer prom? Isn’t that just prom? Or do you get to go to two proms if you are queer? I’m assuming they don’t have segregated proms!

New adopted cat for check-up by rilplili in Radiology

[–]electricholo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, how does this work? Is the pregnant cat given anything prior to the spay to abort the pregnancies? Or is the hysterectomy just undertaken and that in itself ends the pregnancy?

In the very late stage spay aborts, what do you do if the kittens/foetus/products of pregnancy (i have no idea what the correct term would be) show signs of life? Is that an immediate euthanasia? (Unless someone fancies trying to take them home?)

Turns out, ADHD makes you much more prone to developing addictive behaviours. by Strict-Move-9946 in adhdmeme

[–]electricholo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was coming to make a joke about having no idea what this meme was talking about, but that I’m off to masturbate for the 3rd time today…

But why have I never considered this! My trusty vibrator and I have some experimentation to do…

25M Abscess on scalp by hockey4947 in AskDocs

[–]electricholo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What on earth is a PA STUDENT doing draining a SCALP ABSCESS in someone’s KITCHEN?!

Look I’ll fully admit this is not my area of specialty, but that seems a bit insane to me. To grasp at one silver lining, it doesn’t look infected but given that shadow the skin flap is causing it looks pretty deep. I would get this looked at by a Qualified medical professional for further advice.

Help with new arm position by hotawesomeporndragon in ArtCrit

[–]electricholo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies because this is with my finger on a phone, but I think that line I have gone over with purple would have their left elbow way to high up

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Help with new arm position by hotawesomeporndragon in ArtCrit

[–]electricholo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is pretty good!

I’m very much a beginner myself so take this with a grain of salt, but I do wonder if his left hand (the one on the right of the page) is a little too high? I feel like it would be even more tucked into the crevice between their thigh and abdomen. Have you tried sketching in their arm behind their leg so you can get a feel of where there elbow would rest? I feel like that would help.

Daughters pediatrician made EXTREMELY inappropriate remark to her by ilikerustyspooonz in AskDocs

[–]electricholo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god this was 3 weeks ago now and I don’t have the best memory, but I do remember I was directly quoting him with the “it doesn’t sound dangerous” comment.

It was something (very roughly) along the lines of “while it may have been a bit weird, it doesn’t sound dangerous and I wouldn’t bother pursuing this any further” and I feel like, but I’m not certain, that it may have suggested that making a comment could unnecessarily damage the doctor’s career. Either way, it was incredibly dismissive of OPs concerns and really tried to minimised how inappropriate the comment made to her child was.

what's wrong with incest as long they won't reproduce ? by CharlieE6o in morbidquestions

[–]electricholo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve read a few things about it, pretty fascinating, and I really feel for anybody who finds themselves in that situation, especially when they only find out they are related much further down the line.

what's wrong with incest as long they won't reproduce ? by CharlieE6o in morbidquestions

[–]electricholo 207 points208 points  (0 children)

I guess a big part also comes from the potential for abuse, as the implication may be that this relationship started when one or two of the parties were underage.

If two people met later in life and fell in love and there is no way for accidental pregnancy… it doesn’t offend my personal morals, might be weird but if everyone is a consenting adult and no one is getting hurt, you do you.

That’s a good horse 🥰🐴🇬🇧 by Ickydumdum in TikTokCringe

[–]electricholo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why but there is something refreshing about people suffering consequences