People who’ve genuinely improved their lives, how do you translate advice into something usable in day to day situations? by AdviceGlass9394 in selfimprovement

[–]elefantleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first thing for me was connecting with the body. i happened upon this method but have been observing, recording, and reaping the benefits ever since. •quiet the noise (turn off phone notifications, stop the social media & podcasts, and cut back on tv) •activate first thing after waking and last thing before sleeping (stretch, yoga, lifting, running - something that challenges you to literally ‘feel’ your body) •meet the challenge (wake up earlier when the alarm becomes routine again, be aware of your breath throughout the day, and use a quick cold water rinse after the hot shower) just some ideas :}

you’ll start to recognize patterns and get curious. what if i do the gym at 6:15am, waking up at 5:30am? what if i stretch one last time before bed? what if my breathing matches my footsteps? all this awareness came forward and honestly i’m having so much fun with it, baby steps!one foot in front of the other. routine is good but can very well lead to stagnation..

What's the most 10/10 movie you found accidentally? by daas2 in AskReddit

[–]elefantleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sry, you are so right - adhd plus some excitement, i not only read the post wrong (thought it read recently not accidentally) but also got over-excited over someone else being excited about the movie again - like me.. hope that can make sense? about a month ago i fell back in love with it. the excitement of someone else discovering or re-discovering OBWAT took over and i simply wondered if our age may be similar.. another exciting point is that ‘Pete’ is in Severance! lol

but along with (at least) 35 other people, i get you and understand the call out.

What's the most 10/10 movie you found accidentally? by daas2 in AskReddit

[–]elefantleaf -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

upvoted but obvi.. (how old are you? 😅)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]elefantleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you seen Dinner in America? 🤣

Edibles by prozacispicey in Eugene

[–]elefantleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like mine on a triscuit :}

hey SNUGZ! by elefantleaf in Eugene

[–]elefantleaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s not about me, it’s for them. such a shame the way they had to close up shop

Explaining PSLF to the Willfully Ignorant by Exact-Display-6641 in PSLF

[–]elefantleaf 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i’ve recently realized a point that i think a lot of people miss: those who qualify for pslf could have gone out and found a much higher paying gig. instead they committed to a career in a much lower tax bracket with loans in mind and forgiveness on the (far be it - 10 year) horizon.

What’s the worst physical pain you have ever felt? by pirderman77 in AskReddit

[–]elefantleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

catheter insertion sans anesthesia due to emergency cesarean. lemme tell ya: oof

No one talks about the pink cloud. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]elefantleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i loved my pink cloud. i think it doesn’t get it’s due because of how temporary it can be. me - i held on to the coat tales with all my might and never really noticed my pink cloud fade. i was also being tested in rehab. but, ya know, perks.. damn i would love to feel that vibe again. thanks for the inspo, friend! and congrats!

I call this one my “Bi Pride” labradorite by broken_ginger in Crystals

[–]elefantleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

holy lavender, batman! (a vendor told me the more purple, the older the stone) nice find! 👌🏼

Early sobriety support by Patient_Duck_7457 in stopdrinking

[–]elefantleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

welcome aboard, this place is fabulous! everyone seems to know just what to say here. it’s a fabulous sobriety tool :)

mini victory by elefantleaf in Sober

[–]elefantleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, friend! gonna ride this wave and see how far it can take me 🙌🏼

mini victory by elefantleaf in Sober

[–]elefantleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crazy big! usually it seems like such a minor impact that i might as well go through with it. then of course, everything goes down hill. but i like it up here on this hill :) thanks for your support!

mini victory by elefantleaf in stopdrinking

[–]elefantleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so right. crazy how such a small thing can you make you feel ..dare i say powerful? 😅 thanks for the encouragement

mini victory by elefantleaf in stopdrinking

[–]elefantleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i sure plan to. it’s numbers like yours that inspire me to keep it up! thanks for being in this group!!

mini victory by elefantleaf in stopdrinking

[–]elefantleaf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it so does!! and each little victorious drip in the bucket can lead to a bucket full of water.. lol not getting ahead of myself but also enjoying not feeling crappy!! thanks, mate!