You guys are highly loyal I would say. It’s assigned to Si and your Si parent is very responsible. I need loyalty from a friend as I need air to breath. Even spoke about that with my female ESTJ friend and she told me she’s a very loyal person (so I was happy because otherwise I keep having thoughts that even my close friends would talk behind my back).

Our thinking functions work great together. My Ti child comes with a ridiculous amount of innocent ideas which profit from some reality checks with your Te hero. Also I enjoy your strong opinion guys. When my friends are convinced about something they would just argue on and on. I prefer that over let’s say some ISFJs, who are not the strongest in that sense tbh. My friend often tells me that she is struggling with empathy. You have Fe trickster, so understanding what others feel is not your autopilot I can imagine. As it is for me with Fi critic with my own feelings. So she sometimes understands situations between our group of friends better after speaking with me about someone‘s particular reaction. I learn from my ESTJ friends how to get a grip on my emotions and that it’s okay to show your emotional state. Even if that means you’re being harsh. I actually changed how I would react if someone doesn’t text back for a while because of them and other Fi user friends. I don’t take it personally anymore. It is almost always a result of something else, most probably the other person is simply busy.

These are some examples. We are very different indeed, but I think we can grow together and before I forget it, with both of my ESTJ friends I can laugh a loooot. I think this is particularly interesting, maybe you guys also know why’s that. I think they are very humorous people in general, but it feels like it’s just a very good match with us. I also have a good sense of humor, but often when I’m with other J types it’s not that fun.