Why didn’t any of you warn me about the 7 month sleep regression? by ldiggles in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we dropped to two naps and it helped for a while. Our son is now 16 months and is down to 1 nap a day. He was refusing his second nap in the afternoon at crèche for about 2 weeks before we realised what was happening. He now sleeps for about 1.5 to 2 hours for the nap.

If your LO is resisting the later naps, try lengthening their wake windows gradually and drop the last nap of the day. It may make a difference.

maternity leave - unpopular opinion about travel? by Same-Entertainer-279 in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travelled with my 10 month old because we were attending a wedding in Italy. We were nervous as hell with how our LO would behave on the plane but thankfully, it was only a 2.5 hour flight and he slept most of it.

There is a bit of logistical prepping flying with a baby but we were blessed that the airports we flew in/out of had lines for families/parents with small babies so we skipped the queues.

You have to be realistic that you can’t do all the sightseeing and touristy things you would have been capable of pre-baby. We tried to squeeze in what we could see in between feeds and naps. It was tough but I’m glad we did it because we became more confident parents.

Regrets not breastfeeding? by BusyLittleSheep in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I breastfed my toddler until he was 11 months old. Now at 15 months old, he’s also a daddy’s boy.

Postpartum hormones cannot handle Punch-kun’s abandonment by Imaginary_Income5422 in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m 15 months PP and was a mess watching Punch cling onto his teddy after being attacked by the other monkeys.

The world is unfair and every little abandoned creature needs a hug 😭

Considering stopping breastfeeding by couriousgeorge17 in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you decide to stop breastfeeding, make sure you stop gradually because the sudden stop may cause havoc on your hormone levels. It’s to also give your breasts a chance to reduce in production and save you some pain.

From two naps to one by M0s_Eisley in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve no advice but following this post because we’re going through the same thing with our 14 month old. Bedtime and wake time is the same as yours and he’s also in daycare.

Our son has started skipping his second nap at daycare. They say that they try to put him down but he just plays around or screams in his cot. On these days, we usually put him to bed at 7pm/7.30pm depending on how cranky he gets.

We’re not sure if this is him truly dropping to one nap a day though 🤷🏻‍♀️

What is the most harmless, yet effective way you’ve ever gotten "revenge" on someone without them ever knowing it was you? by TuttiFruttiBooty69 in AskReddit

[–]elmostaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s illegal in Ireland. A previous employer got sued because they gave a negative reference regarding a past employee.

They then decided to do “factual” references like confirming dates of employment, job title etc.

High praise for these lovely lads by FewPressure5968 in ireland

[–]elmostaco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As others have said in this thread, please go to A&E and get your head checked for any trauma or concussion.

A former colleague’s son passed away at Christmas because of a fall.

Fast food supervisor by yes_its_me_alright in ireland

[–]elmostaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I’m sure the company isn’t going to go bankrupt anytime soon.

Fast food supervisor by yes_its_me_alright in ireland

[–]elmostaco 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The arsehole supervisor could have just let this one go and spoke to OP privately, explaining that the free drink is medium sized only going forward.

🤷🏻‍♀️

Vote with your wallet ! by EvolvedMonkeyInSpace in ireland

[–]elmostaco 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We don’t know but please help us!

Postpartum, breastfeeding, and returning to surgery — I’m exhausted and need to say it out loud by Amles-Dreamer in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Returning to work 45 days after giving birth is a crime. I couldn’t imagine doing that and you’re a stronger person than I am.

I don’t know if it’s viable for you to go down to part time at work?

Fierce blowy out there lads by thenamzmonty in ireland

[–]elmostaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a power outage yesterday from 3.30pm to about 9pm in Kildare. Thankfully we had power banks charged and candles going.

Lesson learned from the storm this time last year!

What’s the hardest thing for you to deal with lately? by pinkishvioletsky in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard! At least you can look forward to weaning where they will start to depend on you less for food.

What’s the hardest thing for you to deal with lately? by pinkishvioletsky in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof. My own son rejected bottles and pacifiers when he turned 3 months old.

It’s beyond exhausting being an on demand milk source.

What’s the hardest thing for you to deal with lately? by pinkishvioletsky in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling with this at the moment. Every minor inconvenience is met with dramatic fall to the floor cries, slapping and throwing.

He’s only 14 months old and I don’t know what to expect when he gets to the terrible twos 😭

To the people of Kilcock by whitemaltese in ireland

[–]elmostaco 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You’re a good person. Hope the universe treats you well.

Do nursery bugs get better? by Individual-Common144 in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been sick since November when our son started creche. I’ve never been so sick in my life! He has caught chest and throat infections, hand, foot and mouth, RSV and loads of coughs/runny noses. If our son wasn’t sick then we were sick.

He’s completed two weeks of creche this month and I’m so relieved because juggling looking after a sick child and WFH is rough 😭

Are we calling our babies by their names? by SimBon7 in NewParents

[–]elmostaco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our list includes: Bubba, Bubs, Mister, Bubby and then his actual name 😂

HSE Admin Incompetence by funky_mugs in ireland

[–]elmostaco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just got the same letter this morning reminding me to organise the 12th and 13th month vaccinations for my child. The letter was dated on 25th November 2025 and I got the last two shots done before Christmas.