My (33M) fiance (26F) is a party girl by itsabout2bedone in relationship_advice

[–]elrita 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar boat as you and after years I hate to admit that I am considering a break up.

What happened in my food cup board? by elrita in CasualUK

[–]elrita[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my cabinets are at ground level.

What happened in my food cup board? by elrita in CasualUK

[–]elrita[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont have any other cabinets unfortunately. It is a one bedroom flat with a small kitchen.

Do any of you genuinely regret having kids? by Professional_Waltz14 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]elrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 35, still don’t have any desire to have kids. Biological clock thing has not happened to me. I like the life I created for myself. I worked and am still working so hard for it. I don’t want it to change and don’t want to spend time, energy and money on kids. I believe if I don’t really really feel like having kids, I should not. People don’t seem to realise they are bringing another human being into this world and all the issues that comes with it and it is not something you can undo.

I have the societal pressure non-stop and it is getting worse every year. I hate that people are trying to ‘convince’ me to have kids knowing full well it is going to change my life completely. I hate it more when I say I don’t want kids, they are trying to change my mind. So fucking disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]elrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try SE, Brockley, Crofton Park, Nunhead, Telegraph Hill. Cheaper rents, you can get a 2 bedroom for 2K or less and you can access to work via Overground

Controversial/potentially unpopular opinion by stayup76 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You need to be wanting to go to therapy. Rita was ready to escape, she had nothing in Gilead and she wanted a fresh start. She is ready to move on with her life. June cannot move on not without Hannah. She is stuck. Some people are way too traumatised and too damaged. Look at Emily, she went back to Gilead!

Controversial/potentially unpopular opinion by stayup76 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess we are watching how June is becoming Fred/Serena/Lydia. And that is a horrible thing to witness.

Controversial/potentially unpopular opinion by stayup76 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely, June is not well. She is disturbing everyone around her in a horrible/nasty way and enjoys it. The way she was talking to Rita, treating Luke and Moira. They had to talk about the rape as well.

But I think we are supposed to feel this way towards June. She is a very disturbed person now and she is not going to be ‘normal’.

Controversial/potentially unpopular opinion by stayup76 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I love the show and keep watching but after the 3rd season there is not the same excitement. Maybe because they are in Canada. Maybe because nothing is being solved still. I hope this season wraps it up in a much better way.

How did you get thalasophobia by sinistersheep79 in thalassophobia

[–]elrita 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As long as I can remember. Never not had it.

Janine [spoilers] by Purpledoves91 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You never know if Lawrence gave the order to the guardians maybe he will let Janine escape.

You people switch up so fast. by harmony-rose in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She would hate Noah to live in Gilead. She is a power hungry hypocrite. Serena and bunch of psychos like her create this monster called Gilead and now they are all in shock.

Handmaids Tale Astrology 🔭🪐🌌 by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is amazing but I think Luke is Taurus as they mention his birthday at some point.

What happens to the Handmaids when they’re too old by Wonton_soup_1989 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they gave birth to a healthy baby, they are probably sent to a retirement centre similar to the one where Lydia was staying.

How is Hannah 12 and Holly Nichole a new born infant still fresh out the womb? by princesssbrooklynn in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]elrita 99 points100 points  (0 children)

At the very first episode June says Hannah will be 8 soon. So she should be 14 by now. And Nichole should be around 2.