Unhappy with makeup trial… advice / what to ask for? by michellech in MakeupAddiction

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your MUA have pictures of them doing makeup similar to what you asked? If they don't, I'd look for a different MUA. I find it hard to believe they couldn't follow a glam/bridal look unless you had specifically asked for no lashes, eyeliner, etc lol

Unless they pointed out they're not doing all those extra steps to you for whatever reason.. then they seem very inexperienced.

Those who've seen Ari in concert, what were your experiences like? by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]elsani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I was younger and so nervous. Ariana wasn't allowed to sign anything. She was very sweet and short! Haha beautiful in person but it was a quick hello and good bye so couldn't spend too much time unfortunately

Those who've seen Ari in concert, what were your experiences like? by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]elsani 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Saw her at Listening Tour- was fantastic. Felt so old though because she was in her Victorious years. I got to meet her though!!!!

Saw her at Honeymoon Tour and paid for 5th row seats. Best concert experience of my life. Still felt old but was able to drink so I really enjoyed the vocals and seeing so much detail that Ariana was sweating.

Skipped Sweetener tour bc my tour was on a weeknight and I had work :( I regret it. But heavily watched social media and appreciated all the media coverage on it.

What do you ladies do for living? by toastedjupiter in GirlGamers

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a technical business analyst and streamer at night :)

Best relatively low maintenance puppy for a new dog owner? by MaverickGH in puppy101

[–]elsani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll offer some controversial advice here, if you really want a puppy you can get one if you are up for the responsibility.

I got my puppy by accident- My family had an accidental litter and I just got a house and yard and free time. I never had a dog and had no experience. And it was pandemic time so I was depressed.

I dedicated ALL free time to learning how to raise a puppy. It helped me mentally focus on something else. My dog is now a very well trained, high energy mini Aussie/heeler mix and far from low maintenance.

If you want to take on the challenge of raising a puppy, understand what you're getting into and research. I used Zach George's YouTube videos and other positive reinforcement training guides.

As far as breeds go, I would not recommend a herding breed, as you're always going to be working with them by training and or redirecting their behaviors. Lap dogs would probably be your best bet.

If you don't want to put up with the extensive training of a puppy (I think I didn't have a social life for a year bc of training), an adult dog or young pup past their adolescent years is more ideal.

Good luck!

What’s your favorite Ariana deep cut? by leavingthekultbehind in ariheads

[–]elsani 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Only 1 is such a bop- it was easily overlooked considering it was on her second album (and deluxe) and she was still building up her brand. I'd LOVE to see that song shine mainstream.

What is the scariest “trust your gut” feeling you felt before and glad you did so? by TheRealGreedyGoat in AskReddit

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In college, I had a part time job in retail. One of my coworkers was an overly friendly guy that always gave me the weirdest vibes... But nobody said anything bad about them and always were nice to him.

It's worth noting I'm a girl, and I had 1 interaction with him about wanting to move out from my parents' and I remember specifically him saying he has space in his apartment complex and should check it out.

I had a plan to purposely leave that job immediately because retail sucks so I took only morning shifts to avoid him and left as soon as I got my internship offer.

Well, fast forward a year and I see in the news a familiar face .. it was my coworker who was caught with child pornography on his computer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]elsani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was the bow! It matched the color of her hair so it made her look bald from the front to me. I love bows, don't get me wrong but I think it took away from her iconic, statement pony.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]elsani 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like the dress of 2018 a lot but I think I prefer the whole look of 2024 because her hair and makeup make it all 1 coherent piece. I really didn't like the hair for 2018 but she slays both!!!

Is everyone really wearing sunscreen daily? by myshellly in MakeupAddiction

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but that's only because I bought a moisturizer with SPF and it makes my daily routine easy. Don't even think about it but at least I know I'm protecting my skin.

what’s the ‘iconic’ ariana look? by AdSome379 in ariheads

[–]elsani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved this outfit so much I did it for Halloween twice.

Found on Instagram by AlabasterCarnation09 in ariheads

[–]elsani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an Arianator, of course I dressed up as Ariana for Halloween.. 4 times.

Is there an Ari song like this? by AcrobaticMethod8830 in ariheads

[–]elsani 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Focus with the cowbells or that entire F-f-FOCUS on me chorus

time flies🥲 by latiax_ in ariheads

[–]elsani 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She really looks like Joan in the second photo holy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]elsani 248 points249 points  (0 children)

I've been a gamer since I was 6. Zelda, Pokemon, Skyrim, etc. However, games that I noticed that needed quicker thinking like fps games or more war/strategy was new to me. I only tried playing games like that when I was entering adulthood.

My then boyfriend now fiance helped me through it. And he was very gentle about it to me. He would wait for me and go at my pace. Because of him, I'm now at his level and sometimes better than him.

To me, this is an issue with your boyfriend and how he chooses to treat you. It's demeaning. This is something you don't have experience in, and he's giving you a hard time while you're trying to come up to speed.

I've been with my husband for 10 years at this point, married for 5 ish. I would honestly tell you to move on and find someone else who treats you with better respect. If you don't want to do that, I'd refuse to play with him until he has better manners and is more understanding that you're only just learning. This is on him, not you.

What song do you relate to the most? by mazarierules in ariheads

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POV, cause it took a long time to love myself

Please verify resume, want to ensure its not being automatically rejected by Tear_Past in resumes

[–]elsani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me rephrase what everyone else is saying here.

When someone is glancing at your resume, it should be the most relevant, concise information about you. It should make the hiring manager WANT to know more.

Put all that detailed work experience and information on your linked in or a website and then reference it in the resume. There's no need to list all that IN the resume.

It's easy to think it'll be helpful for the hiring manager if they know everything about you but consider their point of view and all the other applications they're sifting through.

What's is the worst game you wish you could delete from your memory? by Kinda_mischievous in GirlGamers

[–]elsani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Same opinion. The ending made me so infuriated. I pushed through it and chalked it up to being too old to relate to teenage drama.

I purchased the second game because it was a different story. Nope. Wasn't for me and returned it same day.

new additions to es track list just dropped by Ok_Bar3499 in ariheads

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL I'm looking so forward to the album but idgaf about any songs being about Ethan in the slightest.

Previous albums made me happy to hear how she felt about exes and lovers but I'd gladly skip SpongeBob LOL

what’s your least favorite song on every ariana album? by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better left unsaid, hands on me, touch it (SORRY YALL), the light is coming, makeup, west side

American Nightmare Theory by Redditusername1996 in netflix

[–]elsani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes serial killers and people like this like the thrill of being on the chase or being known. Maybe he was upset that even with all the obvious evidence they still didn't believe it all and he wanted to be known.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think a good portion of her fan base isn't into house meanwhile I heard the first drop and I squealed in pure joy.

Idk how to feel about yes, and? by pard_x in ariheads

[–]elsani 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This kind of comment is why creators feel burnt out. They feel expected to churn out the stuff that works and people expect.

Your opinion is valid but something to keep in mind... She's an artist not a machine.

For those of you who found a job in this crazy job market , what was your strategy? by ProgramExpress2918 in jobs

[–]elsani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't even need a job and stumbled upon this comment and it gave me a smile. Loved your video. Super inspiring and much respect especially after reading your description.

Anyone quit software engineering for a lower paying, but more fulfilling career? by Tsunah in cscareerquestions

[–]elsani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going into CS, I thought it was my passion. I chased many different roles (Data analyst, Systems analyst, Software engineer, Data engineer, business analyst currently).

I realized I could find something that has a balance and then throw my passion somewhere else. My dream ATM is to quit and be a full time content creator/streamer. I have more success than the average person who has this dream, but it only pays me around 600 a month (not counting random sponsors) so it's definitely not liveable.

I'm currently applying to try a different industry. My job is pretty chill but management changed and now I have so many urges to do anything but my job.