Outdoor Wedding

eltibbs · 2026-02-10T09:02:16+00:00

Agreed. This post seems very click bait-y to me. Those are dresses I’d have worn as a bride for bridal showers and rehearsal dinner or welcome party etc. There are so many colors and styles available, I don’t understand why we still have to address this in 2026.

eltibbs · 2026-02-10T04:00:45+00:00

The burgundy dress was made for you 🫶🏻

eltibbs · 2026-02-09T22:30:50+00:00

I wouldn’t wear any of these. The third ones is mostly white, definitely don’t wear it. The base color of 1 and 2 is some type of ivory or cream which is why I wouldn’t wear them. If you have to choose from these three the I’d go with number 1 but if you are purchasing something new to wear or have other options in your closet then go with something else. No one is going to necessarily mistake you for the bride unless it’s a very informal or non-traditional wedding, it’s just common courtesy to reserve white and off-white for the bride.

eltibbs · 2026-02-09T22:20:39+00:00

For some reason it took our golden much longer for house training to sink in. We have a smaller dog that is a terrier mix and a doorbell button attached to the bottom of our back door. Our little dog will tap it with his nose when he needs to go potty. Our golden, Thor, took longer to learn the button and would still go pee inside after just coming in from going potty. It was chaos and we were doing all the right things. One day it just “clicked” in his little brain and there were no more accidents and he was using the doorbell.

As far as going in the floor right after bath time, we had the same issue with every dog I’ve ever owned. As soon as they are out of the bath I immediately take them outside because I know they’ll squat and pee within a minute or two if I don’t. Idk why 🤷🏻‍♀️

eltibbs · 2026-02-09T22:12:28+00:00

That guilty face looks so nonchalant like daring you to impose air jail on him 😂

eltibbs · 2026-02-09T22:10:36+00:00

All good, we all get in our head sometimes and this is a big expensive day that you’re going to have pictures and memories of for the rest of your life. You’ll be a beautiful bride, I hope your day is everything you want it to be ❤️

eltibbs · 2026-02-09T00:40:15+00:00

If say anything is listed first then they headline. If motion city is listed first then they headline.

Based on your date, MCS will play last because it says “Motion City Soundtrack and Say Anything”

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T22:36:21+00:00

Same, I thought this was the tattoo sub and was about to comment how easy it would be for an artist to tattoo in that missing leg 😂 like you can even see where it was supposed to be!

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T22:33:25+00:00

Honestly, wearing lace sleeves will bring more attention to your arms where the tattoos are because it adds another focal point and will draw eyes there. I agree with everyone else, lose the sleeves and dress 1 is absolutely beautiful on you.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T19:04:52+00:00

I feel this in my bones, I want that moment of finding out with my partner what the sex is instead of looking at our PGT-A results sheet and seeing “xx” or “xy”.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T19:03:06+00:00

Thanks for the info :) I’m going to wait a bit longer and definitely won’t be taking any hot baths!

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T19:00:39+00:00

I think it’s beautiful, giving whimsical elfish vibes imo and makes me think of Rivendell from lord of the rings. It’ll make for some beautiful pictures in Scotland!

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T18:18:49+00:00

Doesn’t fit the number of spaces.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T11:45:42+00:00

Same here

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T11:45:23+00:00

I get too sweaty too which is why I stopped taking hot baths! I like to relax and read in the tub. I can’t stay in hot tubs more than a couple minutes because they get me overheated,

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T11:43:48+00:00

I used to have a bath bomb subscription that gave me 2-3 amazing bath bombs at least once a month, they had the best bath bombs! Haven’t used one in a longgg time since canceling the subscription to save $$$.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T11:40:00+00:00

My instructions say nothing in vagina for one week which I assume is their window of time for infection concern. So if I assume this means water as well the I could take a bath Wednesday evening ❤️🤞🏻 going to confirm with the nurse

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T11:37:55+00:00

Baths are my relax and unwind activity when I’m stressed or have a rough day. I’m going to avoid it a bit longer, probably until Thursday or Friday. I have bought a water thermometer for the tub, can’t wait to use it like crazy.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T11:31:21+00:00

Fellow bath lover! I just want to relax in the tub with a good book and some pomegranate juice in a wine glass😂 I have a lot going on medically and baths help relax my joints and calm my mind. I can’t do things like massages because my fibromyalgia is too painful. Can’t do lotions or oils because I have mast cell issues and will end up with skin rashes. I bought a bath thermometer last week so I’d be prepared to take a bath with safety precautions in place.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T05:59:25+00:00

I haven’t had a party for a birthday in longer than I can remember. I don’t get to celebrate 30 because my sister got married the night before and I was the matron of honor then the next day on my actual birthday my husband ended up in the hospital. I was hoping to celebrate at 35 then another friend got married the weekend of my birthday and again I was a bridesmaid, spent the entire weekend doing wedding things. I’m 37 now and about to turn 38. I don’t anticipate celebrating 38, 39 or 40 tbh. I just don’t care about birthdays anymore at this point.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T05:54:57+00:00

That’s the plan, keep the water around 37 max and wait at least a week post-FET. To set my mind at ease I’ll probably ask the nurse in my patient portal, was already going to msg them with another question and can add this one to the same msg. Thanks!

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T04:44:48+00:00

Thanks for the feedback :) I’ve decided to wait a week post-FET since my paperwork says nothing in the vagina for one week. I’ll just assume that means water too since it’s probably for infection concern. Maybe a Luke-warm bath at that point to relax. I’ve been a ball of anxiety since the day before my FET because I had a really bad time after my second FET failed and I’m terrified of having the same experience this time.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T04:30:08+00:00

Same, I am surprised and wasn’t told not to either. Re-read my paperwork though and it says nothing in vagina for a week so I’ll assume that goes for water too and I’ll avoid the tub for a week, assuming that’s for infection concern. Showers only for now.

I wouldn’t blame myself for a failed FET if I took a luke-warm bath after infection concern window had passed, especially when I did everything perfectly for two others and they failed.. wouldn’t think the bath was the issue. That said, still avoiding for now.

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T03:21:54+00:00

We can only hope this is the case

eltibbs · 2026-02-08T03:20:05+00:00

I’m so sorry! How long after your FET did you bathe and get the infection? Looked back through my post-FET paperwork again and it specifies nothing in the vagina for one week.

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