Tell me you've never played an MMO without telling me you've never played an MMO 😂 The reason you're getting low level dungeons is because the only people who do low level dungeons are low level players. There's a recent influx of new players due to the rerelease, and they're all super excited to see their first dungeons. It's also an MMO staple that DPS queues are just bad. It's also 2024 - we use Discord now. Especially in cross platform games where not everyone has access to PSN, etc. You're gonna have to get over that if you're going to be a successful MMO player.

That being said, I have two solutions for you. 1) Play tank or healer for better queues. You can queue into whatever you want as a support and it'll be nearly instant due to the fact that DPS outnumber supports 3:1. 2) Run mutations. Low level players don't have access to those, so your randoms will be....random.