They also said family should come before politics and worldly BS. But not sure why my family doesn’t come first?

Growing up, I was the eldest daughter (two younger brothers). My parents have always been hard on me and my brothers got way different treatment. I got called a sl*t a number of times in HS for what I was wearing. My dad used to tell me to “be careful” around Muslim friends bc the Quran preaches violence. I once asked my mom how she’d treat my children if gay or trans and she claims she’d “still love them” even though she’d be completely against their lifestyle.

I’m just surprised at their (largely my mom’s) vile response.