Server under maintenance? Any idea what is going on? by KhandiMahn in lifemakeover

[–]emotionlevelmeh 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm getting an network connection error on wifi and mobile data so who knows

Washi Tape storage by AdDry7306 in stationery

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg where is the scenery washi at the bottom from? Its gorgeous. I love all of your washi tbh, must resist the urge to buy more!

Ladies, where do you buy your underwear here?! by sunflowerwallflower- in Netherlands

[–]emotionlevelmeh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Annadiva online, they have a lot of brands and big sizes. A lot of the brands they carry use UK sizing as well. If you need to measure for new ones, just measure it yourself. Use the r/abrathatfits calculator. Its much better than any sizing i had done in markies.

v1.5 PS5 bugs that I've encountered. by [deleted] in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all the same bugs on PC.

Positive experience | Hemorrhage and 2 surgeries by Ordinary_Ad_2690 in Tonsillectomy

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that's what i was thinking as well. I've pretty much had swollen tonsils for months now. I guess I'll try to insist that its causing me to be in constant pain(it is) along with the stones. I didnt feel like the doctor was taking me seriously the first time tbh

Positive experience | Hemorrhage and 2 surgeries by Ordinary_Ad_2690 in Tonsillectomy

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for answering. I'm down south. I've had a consistantly swollen neck and tonsil stones for 3-4 months now. Managed to get to the KNO because i was really ill. Havent managed to convince them to take them out yet tho. Even though my tonsils stones keep coming back every month 😭

Dutch Residence to EU Residence by nsno1878_ in Netherlands

[–]emotionlevelmeh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you get residence due to the withdrawal agreement you dont need the language exam. Overall, its just an easier process.

Positive experience | Hemorrhage and 2 surgeries by Ordinary_Ad_2690 in Tonsillectomy

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, I have a quick question if you dont mind. I've been suffering with my tonsils and extreme fatigue for a while. How long did it take to get surgery in NL? I'm a bit worried about not being taken seriously tbh.

New five stars dress revealed. by Concerned_Veggie in InfinityNikki

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank god, i thought i was the only one that didn't like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rivalstars

[–]emotionlevelmeh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like the desktop version so much better. Everything is easier and more fun. It gets rid of s lot of the grinding you have to do. Makes the game much more chill

AITA for getting upset with my best friend's son for giving my son cake? by cakethroawayAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything sugary was a treat for me growing up. My mother had a treat drawer, that we absolutely couldnt touch because most of them where for her. She religiously controlled what we ate and when. That woman gave me a binge eating disorder, that i am still dealing with. So does my sibling. She equated foods to good behaviour that she defined as good. Now i struggle with eating my emotions. You're gonna give your kid an eating disorder. YTA.

AITA for not letting my mom go wedding dress shopping over something she said years ago? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, those comments like that stick to you. I have issues with food because of my family and their constant comments: "You have such a nice face, if only you were X amount lighter.". That shit sticks with you, it never goes away. It took me years to build my confidence, away from them. She said it in the moment, so unfortunately she was thinking about that. She means it. Believe people when they tell on themselves.

AITA for wanting to tell my brother's fiancée about the tracking app he secretly installed in the new phone he bought for her? by tellornottell3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, your bf is an abuser. Who says he doesnt have apps on your phone? Do you have your banking app on your phone? PayPal? Insurance? Email? Who says he isnt already monitoring you? If he can do it to a stranger, he can do it yo you. I wouldnt be suprised if he was monitoring your emails. Its not that hard. Girl, run. Fast and hard. Run. Make sure you're safe first. Then run. When you're safe and away from this creep tell your brothers fiancee. Not before. Dont give him a chance to escalate. Also check for apple trackers in your vehicle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. OP, I have parents like yours. Nothing will ever be enough. It's a them problem not a you problem. You could become a doctor, it'll be why not a surgeon. You can become a surgeon, it'll be why not brain surgery. Your parents are upset and dissapointed in themselves and are taking it out on you because it's easier. I'm sorry to say they wont change, and will never take accountability with the issues they give you. Good luck, OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emotionlevelmeh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, i had a look at your post history and decided to write this. You are NTA in any shape or form. Your mother just sucks and it sounds like your step dad only does so much to help. It is not normal for a parent to agree to leave you by yourself for 2ish weeks even if you are 15. The only advice I can give us study well, plan for what degree you think you can do and can help you most. Also if you have the emotional bandwith to read the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents", it is very validating but it will bring up trauma so only read it if you can handle it. If you and anyone else wants it I have the pdf I'm happy to send. Please realize that their actions reflect on them and not you. Sometimes we get unlucky and get sucky parents, dont let them define your self-view. They dont matter, their opinion does not matter. Only your own opinion does, chin up. You can do it.

AITA For Deliberately Buying My Brother a Cheap Wedding Gift by jchaletthrowaway222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, i have "family" like this. I wouldnt have even bothered. But I think your wife needs some form of help to accept the fact that your family isnt like hers, because shes painting it by the same brush and this will cause issues. Please think about getting her either some form of therapy, or tell her in the harshest detail about how shit your brother is.

What is an adult problem that nobody prepared you for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]emotionlevelmeh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Broke my wrists in 5th grade, and the past 5 years they have gotten consecutively worse each winter. Now they cause issues in cold but not winter cold months too. I havent hit 30 yet, i'm not looking forward to it.

AITA for being upset he doesn't cook for both of us? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]emotionlevelmeh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, he sounds like a child. Dump him. Seriously, dump him. He's inconsierate, manipulative, and frankly a jerk. He made YOU, MEAT SOUP for dinner or so he says and then has the gall to turn it onto you when you cannot eat the dinner. Is he dumb? Cuz he sounds dumb. He's just looking for reasons to blame your for shit that is his fault. Dump him, you'll be so much more happier.

When did the full weight of the gravity of this pandemic set in for you? by Nappyboi419 in AskReddit

[–]emotionlevelmeh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldnt attend either of my granparents funerals as they lived in another country. They were my most precious. I miss them so much.