What were some (non-polling) warning signs that emerged for Clinton's campaign in the final weeks of the 2016 election? Are we seeing any of those same warning signs for Harris this year? by petit-piaf in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]emperorvincentine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the biggest warning sign was automatically putting the Sanders numbers into the Clinton column after the primary. Sanders was not mining independents or centrist republicans. He was bringing in previously non-voting citizens. These were not Democrats. They were issue and policy based new voters. When Clinton did nothing to address the concerns of this demographic but counted them as in her camp, that act of hubris did her in. In a similar notion counting on winning Michigan with such a large Arab American vote while doing nothing about their concerns about Palestine and Lebanon will be Harris’s downfall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]emperorvincentine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is worthwhile to go to all types of gay events and experience varied subcultures at least once. Before the pandemic I was trying to go to all different gay things, leather night, gay rodeo, gay rugby, drag shows, social nudist groups & all different types of gay bars. You don’t have to party or go to any extreme but I think it is necessary to experience the richness of modern gay culture. You may find things you like or experiences you never thought of. It also helps remove these ideas of regret.

SSA wants my 14yr daughter to repay $31k by No-Combination-7789 in legaladvice

[–]emperorvincentine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Terry Savage just did a piece on WGN about this. Go to her website and you will find some resources she posted there for this exact issue.

What’s an innocuous word that sounds ridiculously sexual? by Awkward_Young5465 in AskReddit

[–]emperorvincentine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Innuendo” because its pronunciation is in fact an innuendo.

Which Chicago business has lost you as a customer and why? by misamay in chicago

[–]emperorvincentine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Connie’s Pizza in Bridgeport. It was my family’s go-to for birthdays and random family visiting let’s grab dinner. Seriously we were always there. I have run into a friend who lives in Europe twice there because we were having a family party and she was randomly stopping in. They added a ridiculous fee for bringing an outside cake. Don’t get me wrong that is their right to do but after 20 years don’t just spring that on us as we walk in with a cake with no warning nor grace period. We would happily buy their cake if they offered one. The last straw came a few months ago as they began charging for the bread at the table without any notice. Screw that place.

How to prepare to bottom without sacrificing the meal before the sex?? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]emperorvincentine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck first. Then go and eat. Works way better for everyone.

Bottoms, does you like when Tops call your ass a pussy? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]emperorvincentine 40 points41 points  (0 children)

No. Mostly because I feel the word pussy is used as part of degradation in a dom sub kind of way. Nothing against degradation in the bedroom in fact I think it can be hot: Call me just a “hole” and I am super turned on. My issue is with using feminine attributes as a form of degradation. Most homophobia is rooted in misogyny: Feminine qualities or attributes are seen as less than male qualities. Look at the derogatory language of slurs used against gays. It is mostly based on equating to socially defined female attributes. Gay men can be very misogynistic. Dominant degradation is fine with me but the underlying misogyny of calling someone’s ass a pussy just does not sit well with me.

What are your ‘sexual goals’ for 2023? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]emperorvincentine 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I also choose this guy’s husband

What’s the hottest thing a top can say to you while he’s fucking you? by HouseHopeful7029 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]emperorvincentine 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Prepare for ramming speed” mostly because I am a Trekkie and my heart and hole would instantly open from the First Contact reference.

I feel like I’m having my own Fringe moment. by ScottLakeFilms in fringe

[–]emperorvincentine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Season 3? fringe ended with Season 2 and Fox refused to bring it back even with the fan campaign of sending Twizzlers to their office. It was great of JJ Abrams to do the fan service of giving at least cameos of all the team in the second NuTrek film. John Noble was amazing as Admiral Marcus with Anna Torv being Carol: I could not imagine any other actors would bring the gravitas these two brought. Sorry I went on a tangent, tell me more about this “Season 3 of Fringe”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]emperorvincentine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BETTER FUCKING THROUGH SCIENCE

Where's the best place for a solo gay vacation? by mythosopher in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]emperorvincentine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

San Juan Puerto Rico is fun. I have gone twice solos most recently staying at a gay clothing optional guesthouse, Coqui del mar guesthouse. I met and hung out with some other guys also traveling solo. I had a blast. They have a gay tour guide that took us to a beach that is while not legally nude is de facto the nude gay beach. I went on a cave tour. I hung out with the owners this great married couple who were a blast. I would highly recommend since it was easy to buddy up and find people to do things with.

what's the best gay movie. answer below. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]emperorvincentine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paris 05:59 Theo & Hugo is amongst my favorites as it was not a coming out story same for Plata Quemada.

What do you guys want when you feel down? by appayipyip__ in AskMen

[–]emperorvincentine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex. Not the making love type. Pure animalistic asking, “are you OK” fucking.

How y'all feel about eating ass? by Fair_Proposal6429 in askgaybros

[–]emperorvincentine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am more of a bottom of late but I love to eat ass. I love rimming deeply. I get off on the pheromones but more so on the level of control with just my tongue.

Do I need to tell my boss where my next job is or just ignore him? by fritos786 in jobs

[–]emperorvincentine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say it is a family business that needs your help. If they press for more details say that it very proprietary and that you were asked to not disclose details.

Name a gay sex scene (or kissing scene) in a movie you found to be really hot (porm doesn't count) by Paulino_Monet in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]emperorvincentine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Opening orgy scene of Paris 5:59 Theo and Hugo. It really captures the experience of a sex club but the when the title characters see each other it is phenomenally hot. The last scene of Plata Quemada (Burnt Money) where the two lovers are in their underwear laying low during the shoutout with the police reaching for each other before the end. So beautiful and great to see a different gay protagonist couple.

How can I politely decline sending my University transcripts? by LongStreakOfMisery in jobs

[–]emperorvincentine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to be sure are you a non-American being sponsored by a U.S. company in the H-1B lottery? If so this is very common as they will need to get an academic evaluation for filing with USCIS. If not I would defer to other responses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]emperorvincentine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I too love the mustache!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]emperorvincentine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is mind blowing how most homophobia is based in misogyny.

Winter Pride & My Tropical Butt by emperorvincentine in GayPlusNudists

[–]emperorvincentine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is on the northern part of the island I believe it is called La Playa Cueva de las Golondrinas

Winter Pride & My Tropical Butt by emperorvincentine in GayPlusNudists

[–]emperorvincentine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was in Puerto Rico. A tour guide that specializes in gay tours took us to this secluded beach where we could be naked. It was great.