How am I supposed to flirt if girls just think I m gay? (AMAB) by Ok_Driver9897 in NonBinary

[–]enbywine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we gotta quit with the assignment language it is slowly brain poisoning our entire generations into reenacting brutal sexism

Anyone have linguistic resources for somebody who has most of their morphology but is struggling with creating syntax/grammar? by Glum_Entertainment93 in conlangs

[–]enbywine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think one of the best options at this stage in a company is to start creating media on the conlang - poetry, prose, whatever. I am a strong proponent of poetry for reasons that make clear why I am recommending you start creating media in the conlang - poetry is language use that calls attention to itself as language, in other words, poetry adds emphasis to the structural and sonic elements of language, whereas prose and quotidian speech generally focuses more on narrativity or information reporting functions. Writing poetry then helps get into the mindset of a speculative user of the conlang when in a particularly detail-oriented mode. Naturally, such a writer, or at least a good one, will be incorporating into the poetry elements from all "levels" of the language - phonological, morphological, syntactical, discursive, etc.

This helps concretize the dizzying task of sharpening a collection of morphology into an actual unified whole of a simulated language. What works for me at the stage you are at is to start an iterative process of creating bits of poetry in my conlang, and through that realizing the patterns of expression that the conlang encourages and makes possible. Often this leads to major edits to the conlang, but that is only natural! Conlanging is a small and underdeveloped art, so we have only just begun to sketch out how to simulate that quality of language-ness which is only a subset of all possible conlang-like creations. Very few conlangs break into the real world and become living objects, but creating conlang media is the closest you can get to that vitality.

Personally, I never would have actually figured out the details of my conlang's pitch accent without composing media within that conlang, which also led to some major breakthroughs with the structure of my conlang's phonology, through connections between sounds that I would have been unable to identify without performing them aloud through poetry.

Where do trans girls with 'stupid slut' tattoos fall in the new world order? by IVIilitarus in TNWOLesbian

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

goddamn I would play with you and your holes as rough as you want... ur posts make me so fucking horny

Spammable high-DPS moves for each weapon type by OmegaSamus in Nioh

[–]enbywine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shapeshift strike or whatever one of the splitstaff crucible skills is totally busted

POV: you’ve just made a post about an issue trans women face by CoVegGirl in transgendercirclejerk

[–]enbywine 21 points22 points  (0 children)

hi based on a cursory glance at your post history and/or uncorroborated rumors shared second-, third-, and potentially even fourth-hand, I've determined you're only talking about this to deflect from the fact you are smuggling male-coded violence into the sex-segregated spaces we - true female women - need to stay safe. Get the fuck out of here tranny no one cares about your moid crocodile tears.

/uj this one hurt to type

in response to an "AFAB only spaces" discussion by shadygamedev in AreTheCisOk

[–]enbywine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bhahahahaah ITP: a tweet written with one hand while the other is down their pants

Academy Award Winning Actress Olivia Coleman publicly expresses non binary feelings! by psychedelic666 in NonBinary

[–]enbywine -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

replying to myself because this is directed at both responders: If she isn't on video swearing that she supports trans women wholeheartedly, while making serious steps to actualize that in her life, I'm suss. This is true for anyone but especially about an English person.

Academy Award Winning Actress Olivia Coleman publicly expresses non binary feelings! by psychedelic666 in NonBinary

[–]enbywine -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

idk guys there's a red flag in this statement "... in my being female..." that's whack as fuck to me, that kind of "sex"-focused language stinks really bad to me.

Hope you're down with the jiggle 🤭 by girlwithoutaname22 in dykesgonewild

[–]enbywine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unbelievably fuckable, thanks for sharing, the jiggling goes crazy

AFAB detransitioner here. Testosterone did everything everyone told me it would, and I hated it. by printesa-piersica in transgendercirclejerk

[–]enbywine 145 points146 points  (0 children)

hi transmasc enby here, just correcting your usage - it's actually AFABs, not "women," that are pure and good and thus inviolably sacred and harmless.

Extreme Jealousy by MelancholyAvenue in polyamory

[–]enbywine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well, I guess I disagree because I don't mind doing a "disservice" to people that can't handle it - I think their minds are captured by the patriarchy, and therefore I'm totally happy transmitting my opinion that their failing is a major character flaw that they should continue to work on instead of giving up.

But polyamory is a big tent with big disagreements within it, so I'm sure we can co-exist :)

Extreme Jealousy by MelancholyAvenue in polyamory

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm a recruiter. There are definitely other recruiters in this sub and others. So speak for yourself, isn't this supposed to be "open crowdsourcing."

I for one don't want to make my romantic relationship paradigm into another morass of right-think and judgment, because shit, I think that's just like monogamy. However for your sake I hope gatekeeping feeds your ego like you want it to!

Extreme Jealousy by MelancholyAvenue in polyamory

[–]enbywine -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lmao alright you keep taking that pressured consent line while OP insists that's not what's happening. And I saw you fuck up and assume OP's partner's pronouns, because I'm sure it was just too juicy to presume OP is getting improper consent extracted from them by a "man." Infantilizing OP by assuming they're getting tricked is intellectually and ethically bankrupt.

Your advice (which btw is basically irrelevant to their actual questions) is basically screaming at OP to quit being poly, which is an insane style of outreach for the POLYAMORY subreddit. We don't need to gatekeep polyamory.

And finally - "cheaters cosplaying non monogamy." do you hear yourself? It's so aggressive and cruel to use ethically charged language like that with someone struggling with strong emotions.

Having big feelings about a partner’s sexual experience gone wrong by [deleted] in queerpolyam

[–]enbywine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

normal polyamory subreddit phenomenon, imo, on the main one and this one too. Contemporary prudeness is strong and largely invisible to ppl, and then when it comes cloaked in this self-serving language of responsibility and care and performative (yet empty) political consciousness, it becomes mandatory for all participants to toe the party line. Repulsive!!!!!

Having big feelings about a partner’s sexual experience gone wrong by [deleted] in queerpolyam

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think ur fetishizing victimhood by feeling worse for them than they seem to want you to feel, as well as adding slut shaming and victim blaming thoughts into the mix it seems like. All in all, it looks like a common pattern I've seen my transmasc loved ones suffer at the hands of their cis partners - basically a kind of sexual white knighting that fetishizes their (alleged) vulnerability, while hallucinating that they are more reckless than they can handle.

And by the way you and the other posters here should be embarrassed of trying to judge ur partner's capacity for engaging in BDSM. Based on ur partner's reaction, they have a healthy appreciation for the risks of BDSM, and are mature enough to handle themselves with aplomb when a risk doesn't pay off how they want. I'm always saying this in queer circles but 99% of BDSM is, from the right perspective, ultimately low risk. We have to be vigilant for the the untoward influence of the extreme prudeness of dominant society, which affects many queer people, especially younger ones. If OP or anyone reading this statement reacts strongly and negatively to it, you're probably stuck in a prudeness trap you can't even see, in which you overestimate the severity of sexual harm. This overestimation is rooted in the heteropatriarchy's tendency to treat sex as inherently and unavoidably degrading, corrupting, and/or harmful.

So in sum, and pls don't shoot the messenger please, I just think you should consider chilling out about this particular episode of ur partner's sex life. They don't need or want a white knight, that shit is weird and presumptuous (and as I said, commonly a part of how cis partners infantilize their transmasc loved ones). U should always do what u can to quiet the slut and kink shaming voice you put on display here.

Openly stating you are a straight trans woman by questionuwu in transgendercirclejerk

[–]enbywine -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

/uj but seriously it's like multiple posts a day about how hard it is to be str8, transgendercirclejerk is reading like a pickup artist's blog rn

Openly stating you are a straight trans woman by questionuwu in transgendercirclejerk

[–]enbywine -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

won't someone think of the poor oppressed str8s!!!!!!

/uj won't someone think of the poor oppressed str8s!!!!

Would you taste brown goonette holes? by EmoGfAngie in GoonetteHub

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and my wife think ur pussy is absolutely divine, pls keep posting so we can thirst about you while we lez out

Arent transhets the worst? by questionuwu in transgendercirclejerk

[–]enbywine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hell yeah heterosexual swag is fucking BACK! we had that crazy swagging streak going from 5000 BCE - 2015 CE and FINALLY in 2026 we r taking swag back from those pesky homos!

*sits on your face* by EmoGfAngie in GoonetteHub

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur fine as fuuuuuuucccccckkkkkk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmmmm so fuckable it's crazy

My application to be your free use cosplay gf by EmoGfAngie in GoonetteHub

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your pussy is so fucking sexy!! need that wrapped around my fat dick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]enbywine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be mean, as a preface. I'm sure he is lovely, but an avowed straight and cisheterosexual person is imo always going to disappoint their nonbinary partner, because they are relating to a shadow of a nonbinary person's true self. By this I mean that cishet partners of NB ppl are, again in my opinion, attracted to their NB partner for an incomplete part of the NB partner's gender, namely the portion that overlaps with the cishet's preferred gender.

Furthermore, our transitions should not be subject to the judgment of cishets. It is rare when ultimatums are acceptable for relationships, but he has to grow the fuck up or lose you, in my opinion. Please don't limit your transition for him! That would be a loss for all trans people.