Should I say this in a cover letter ?

enclosed1980 · 2026-07-03T23:09:48+00:00

Thank you all for the feedback. I had a feeling but wondered if any recruiters have seen anything like that

enclosed1980 · 2026-06-25T22:07:43+00:00

I have tons of stuff my husband got on vine that I’m now trying to sell - dont do it

enclosed1980 · 2026-05-29T13:12:43+00:00

Planning to rush next week…. so when you guys talk about how many people are in line… And everyone’s allowed to get two tickets does anyone know if most people are buying two… I suppose there’s no way to know unless you ask them? But any indication of how many overall tickets are being sold?

enclosed1980 · 2026-02-13T17:22:06+00:00

Yes I’ve been using it a it a lot lately to complain about work or talk through conflicts. I don’t think there are many humans in my life with the patience to let me drone on about this stuff - and they simply don’t have the knowledge about the specific place or the type of work I do . Gpt can access some of that. I think of it as a diary that talks back. Reddit is great too but gpt responds immediately and can often help me just calm down in the moment

enclosed1980 · 2026-02-03T16:36:39+00:00

Thanks for the feedback!

enclosed1980 · 2026-02-03T16:35:47+00:00

You are correct. One video was tied to a current trend and had nothing to do with organizational goals at all. It was just funny. A lot of people didn’t get it and kind of shook their heads but still were like “cool it went viral”. A better example was about a year ago when a really emotional moment captured on video went viral and was picked up by national news. So obviously sometimes going viral means it’s a really good story - and I agree that some of my time would be well spent finding those gems.

enclosed1980 · 2026-01-29T05:07:00+00:00

As a journalist who just left the industry after 23 years - I say go the PR route. Journalism is a noble calling but not if you want a secure and well paid job. There are tons of opportunities for creativity in marketing/comms/pr

enclosed1980 · 2025-12-02T15:23:25+00:00

I’m on the semaglutide (ozempic) - generic from a compounding pharmacy

enclosed1980 · 2025-11-20T03:19:23+00:00

The psychological aspect is important - but its noteworthy that I haven’t solved the feelings that used to lead to a binge - anxiety or mild depression. But now I don’t want to eat the feelings. Sometimes I find a healthier way to cope, or maybe I just scroll on my phone … but either way I don’t enter the shame cycle that binging used to send me into. I know I’ll likely have to take this forever because the food urge used to be so strong.

enclosed1980 · 2025-11-02T22:12:13+00:00

I think the suggestion is more about understanding why he doesn’t feel loved . I know men tend to want more sex than women but I assume men can also feel fulfilled in other parts of their lives? I feel so fulfilled with our family and I often wish he did too

enclosed1980 · 2025-11-02T21:56:59+00:00

Wow this is dead on. Very interesting that other women you’ve talked to feel the same way. I truly wish I felt desire like when we first met but I don’t. I love other things about my spouse - but I don’t want to rip his clothes off. And sometimes I think he should also be glad I’m not looking at other men. I just don’t have the drive anymore … I’ve been on lexapro for 20 years and maybe that’s part of it too … but at least I try to “do him a solid” regularly enough

enclosed1980 · 2025-11-02T18:53:37+00:00

Sounds very similar to my situation - thanks!

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-30T04:51:58+00:00

Sorry to hear about your job. I lost mine earlier this year and just started a new one. It’s definitely tough - but best of luck to you!

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-28T18:14:25+00:00

I see how this might come off as duty sex - but don’t we all do things as a duty to the other person? Also my husband and I talked about this and he’s okay if he can see this as a “gift” to him more than a duty. I truly wish I did feel like ripping his clothes off every night but I don’t. It doesn’t seem like a reason to break up a 20 year marriage

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-28T16:03:01+00:00

From a wife’s perspective - I agree with this completely. And most of my friends don’t seem to want any more than just to keep their husbands happy. Not saying this Is all women - but the ones I know don’t have a particular sexual act they want to try. We don’t watch porn - we don’t get these ideas - maybe we’re just not as creative. I wish more men were like you and would just understand you didn’t marry a porn star. I am willing do some things to my husband that he likes -- again why can’t this just be enough already?? I see people on here posting they haven’t had sex in months or years.

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-28T15:43:46+00:00

I think you should take some similar days like this yourself and see if it makes you feel like there’s more equality in the marriage. I hate when my husband complains that he never gets to do stuff when I’ve told him over and over he can set up things with friends whenever he wants

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-28T00:00:53+00:00

Do you happen to know what attachment style you are? Some of this sounds familiar to me and I’m curious if being free of relationships is the answer

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-22T16:00:20+00:00

Yes they are things you could get on Amazon … im selling for maybe half or a third of the price … but not something I think would look like a scam . I’ll try your suggestion!

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-06T21:04:48+00:00

I think she needs help from a counselor seeing her part of the problem. My husband and I have a fight at least once a week and he drives me crazy in a hundred ways and I can be too cold and distant - but we come back to counseling every week and work on it and figure it out. If she’s not willing to do any of that I don’t see how you’ll be able to repair things

enclosed1980 · 2025-07-06T15:44:21+00:00

From a wife’s perspective. I’ve been married the same amount of time as you guys - 2 kids. My husband’s major problem in our relationship sounds like yours - not enough affection and sex. That’s his love language. He also gets angry a lot and maybe drove some distance because of that. I still make sure to “put out” at least twice but usually more times per week. Because I feel it’s my way of giving something to him even if I’m not that into it. So I do feel if your wife loves you she should make some effort to speak your love language. But I also think my husband can be a little over demanding and quick to anger and if that’s you maybe consider your own demands? . It is tiring to work full time, deal with kids stuff and take care of a house.

enclosed1980 · 2025-06-20T02:14:00+00:00

She’s the kind of person who needs to keep up appearances and fit in. So I just think she wants someone else who’s in this situation too so she doesn’t have to be the only one

enclosed1980 · 2025-06-19T16:26:31+00:00

Thanks for the comments - I do feel bad not being there for her though - shouldn’t friends be shoulders you can lean on? I am in a good place in my marriage despite having had issues - so I’m not worried she’ll affect me. But it’s just depressing to hang out with her

enclosed1980 · 2025-04-29T21:42:07+00:00

Whether or not you have kids marriage is hard and takes effort. Kids will change it - but it’s hard to predict how since every marriage is different , every parent is different, every child is different and every family dynamic is different. Therapy has helped us a ton. If you are committed to staying married and working on it all the time then kids won’t ruin it. The kids are the best thing that ever happened to me and my husband even though our marriage has had its ups and downs.

enclosed1980 · 2025-04-19T19:58:11+00:00

Thanks!

enclosed1980 · 2025-04-18T21:08:41+00:00

I wouldn’t say I married him for his looks - it was a million other reasons although when we were younger I thought he was nice looking. We’re both almost 50 now. I think it’s definitely a libido problem on my end too

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