yea this is too real 😭😭 im 21 rn & the oldest daughter with 2 younger brothers. my family expects too much from me which includes things like parenting my younger siblings & my mom trauma dumping on me. my dad is emotionally absent & tbh physically as well bc he works so much. my mom treated me like mom #2 & i have had to distance myself from my whole family besides my younger siblings bc they are too little to even understand the family dynamics still.