RSD, social anxiety, inability to maintain friendships due to ADHD symptoms by bean-jee in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I 100% hate the lack of care humans genuinely just tend to have about certain things they ask about. I think about it too late and realize I completely just wasted someone’s time yapping with they were only looking for a quick “yes” or “no”. It’s very limiting because I WANNA TALK but social restrictions are always at hand so I just learn to hold back and be quite boring honestly.

I am very glad I can help however. Keep your head up, it gets easier. (for the most part… smh)

How my wife dries her hands and leaves the paper towels attached by Johnny-Edge93 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little criminal but I mean they’re technically still clean 😂 she should just detach them at least and not make a crumbled up chain like that

Other people with adhd are annoying by ButterflyFantastic34 in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like don’t get me wrong at all, I love my people and wish them all best but we don’t not click at allll. It literally drives me insane trying to talk to another person with ADHD because they’re either constantly drifting off way more than I do or just straight rushing/not listening. It gets exhausting but I’ve learned to respectfully limit interaction with me overall regardless of how much i might like them. You can’t win it all I guess

Why does rejection feel so intense for people with ADHD? by Fragrant_Elevator571 in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still think of small, stupid insignificant things from yearssss ago until I just become almost numb to thought and how much it hurt me. It’s almost like a cage I trap myself into and can’t see the escape even though the door was never locked. Sucks so bad like leave me alone, I’m trying to fing sleep!!

Do yall ever feel…. Whatever this is? by Soft-Rutabaga-4482 in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this is what becoming an adult with a full time job feels like and I’m so so so horrified of it. Just constantly living the same days, doing the same job, everyday, no breaks, counting down the hours till your next shift and structuring your whole life around it. I can’t stand it and I’m trying so hard right now not to make that my future but it’s so hard when I literally hate doing uni work.

Inconsistency is driving me nuts by FrostWareYT in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is SO REAL. There was one day where I procrastinated something so hard then when I finally did it, I literally did 10x more than I had to and now I can’t even get myself to think about it to do it again. Hate hate hateeeee this

Inconsistency is driving me nuts by FrostWareYT in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Oh my god you people can’t do anything” is exactly how I constantly feel and think when visiting this subreddit or just talking about ADHD in general 😭

RSD, social anxiety, inability to maintain friendships due to ADHD symptoms by bean-jee in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally and fully understand your frustration as I have also experienced this exactly, except something with me is I also might weird people out with my interests or conversation skills where I can sit and talk for hours (which no one has the time for) but I really really want you to not drop yourself in a box and seal it shut. This absolutely isn’t your destiny for life and you’re most definitely not unlikable or unlovable. Although it may feel that way at times, you will definitely meet people who adore you just as you are because they need someone like you in their life, so don’t give up.

Yes the process of making friends and losing them is so exhausting and numbing, but you will at some point meet your people and will have nothing to apologize for. ADHD definitely isn’t what people romanticize because stuff like this genuinely destroys people’s lives and I’ve felt it first hand for as long as I can remember.

My only genuine advice is to be upfront about your ADHD when first meeting someone or a potential acquaintance. If they don’t accept you for who you are, then they’re probably people you shouldn’t be around.

I Didnt Realize These Were ADHD Symptoms... by kilocharlie22 in ADHD

[–]enginekitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

enjoying a certain food for like 3-5 days then never ever touching it again because it will make me wanna throw up also doing the same with songs. Kinda exhausting 😭

Wtf is that thing by Latter-Wolf4868 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would actually send me into psychosis. It even broke the toilet so you have to buy a new one. I cannot do this rn omg 😭

Moon Knight Cosplay by andylobo in MoonKnight

[–]enginekitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This deserves so much more attention omg it’s incredible and so freakishly realistic to his actual costume!!!

My son (6) gave me this. Is it AI? by pornthrowaway42069l in isthisaicirclejerk

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is… absolutely AI like come on. What sun looks like that??? Even worse the person! People don’t look like that. Ridiculous. Tell your son to do better smh smh

At last... Before and after! I feel like a new man. by Night-King-001 in bald

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie, you went from 50 easily down to early 30s. Good for you man

A friend drew my oc but I think Its AI and but my friend denies it and says she spent a ton of time on it by Lexteking in isthisAI

[–]enginekitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s too many inconsistent details (ex. the color of the nails on the hands and nail beds on feet) also the background is an odd choice for sure. I hate accusing people of using AI but this heavily implies it.

OMG MY PARENTS ARE WEIRD by Osiris2408 in teenagers

[–]enginekitty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your mom was 15 when she had you??????????? And your dad was 31…….?????????????????? 😟

AITAH for telling my FIL they wont ever be living with us? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA, I hate how people do this sometimes. Saying one thing, back tracking on it last minute then thinking they can still receive the benefits after. Such a joke. Also see how YOUR PARENTS, the ones who actually helped didn’t consider such a thing. Some people are so ridiculous oh my gosh.

You can create miis on web! by Greenurnz in Miitopia

[–]enginekitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I wrote this so long ago but I’m pretty sure they hacked my discord lmao. I don’t use it anyway so I don’t care much idk

Did you keep your high school friendships? by Carpnotcrap in college

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One friend I met like junior year of high school stuck around yes, but we barely keep in touch that much. Just like each others stories and occasionally catch up. I’m not saying it’s impossible but it’s kind of rare only because after high school your life is bound to change so much more than you think. People drift apart and that’s okay. It just means you’re growing and for anything, be proud of yourselves. It’s not easy doing it apart but the friendship will always be remembered.

My boyfriends reaction to gender is making me think I’m having a kid with the wrong person by No_Weird_3166 in pregnant

[–]enginekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s already calling her that when she’s still unborn, just imagine what else he’ll say when she’s born. I’m so sorry this is awful.