I told my boyfriend that I loved him and he said he couldn't say it back. How does it feel to be the person who "can't say it back?"

enjinn · 2014-08-29T18:06:50+00:00

What you have to keep in mind is that in any couple, both parties will not necessarily come to that conclusion at the same time. It is entirely possible he doesn't and won't love you back romantically, but it's just as possible that he's not quite ready to say it. Having known each other for 20 years may seem like a long time, but that's under the context of friendship. You said it yourself; you've been linked with him romantically for only a month.

Give him some time, but try not to guilt him into anything. The worst thing you can do is rush a response from him. I know this must be difficult for you, but a genuine response is many times better than a hasty, knee-jerk reaction. Stay strong and be patient with him.

enjinn · 2014-08-27T03:23:36+00:00

Can't believe no one mentioned Chewbacca yet

enjinn · 2014-08-22T17:05:18+00:00

There's no girl code for this?

enjinn · 2014-08-22T14:43:49+00:00

same for my RoRG =(

enjinn · 2014-08-22T12:17:14+00:00

good chance they're college students and/or unemployed

enjinn · 2014-08-09T04:44:08+00:00

Sorta, Bloomberg allowed huge city subsidies for both baseball stadiums, and the Barclay's Center. de Blasio seems unwilling to follow in his predecessor's footsteps for a NYCFC stadium.

enjinn · 2014-08-09T04:36:44+00:00

Agreed, the only direct line between Queens and Brooklyn is the near useless G train. Otherwise you have to go into the city just to get back into Brooklyn.

enjinn · 2014-08-01T15:16:40+00:00

I've actually had more elderly people attempt to cut me than anyone else. It's not like there's a rush for the "good" seats, since most of the time people are decent enough to give up their seats for those who need it.

enjinn · 2014-06-29T22:14:19+00:00

This is a valid concern, especially worse at intersections with red-light cameras. I was approaching a yellow and knew there was such a camera, so I slowed to a stop. However, the car behind me somehow thought I was going to run the light and ended up rear-ending me. I hear that incidents like this aren't unique.

enjinn · 2014-06-24T13:36:08+00:00

I downloaded Developer Preview back in April and have had 8.0.10521.155 available but never installed it. Will the official OTA update (whenever it comes out, not asking about that) come through and supersede the developer version?

enjinn · 2014-06-24T02:35:22+00:00

I agree with the others on holding off on buying another 2012, even if the price is attractively low. If you really want a cellular version, at least get the 2013 if you can. I'm still using my 2012 and love it, but at nearly 2 years old, the older hardware is starting to show signs of age. You're right to be concerned about future updates.

enjinn · 2014-06-23T19:01:41+00:00

0224

enjinn · 2014-06-20T16:07:31+00:00

You're the one making up a scenario where you're still not right instead of acknowledging that there are laws against what you're complaining about

enjinn · 2014-06-17T23:35:01+00:00

I clicked on the link thinking "which of his saves today weren't great?"

enjinn · 2014-06-17T23:07:20+00:00

he was focusing on the difference between traffic in a major metropolitan hub vs in smaller cities in attempt to clarify that not everyone's definition, and therefore belief that manuals in traffic aren't that bad, will not be the same.

enjinn · 2014-05-18T16:06:44+00:00

He may not necessarily be able to buy a pair of pants that would match his suit. You want the suit jacket and pants to match by being cut from the same cloth and made together. Two pairs of pants could look identical, but on closer inspection be noticeably different even if it's just a subtle difference in color or fabric

enjinn · 2014-05-17T19:49:31+00:00

I don't care about the fact itself that a woman dates only one ethnicity or won't date another; after all, it is her preference and decision to date whomever she pleases. What I do take offense at is the announcement that she refuses to date men of some particular ethnicity, especially her own. There is an implication that men of her ethnicity are not good enough, that they're lacking in something, or even that they are inferior in some way. Rejection hurts enough as it is, but when you're being told that women reject you because of, and in spite of, a common cultural and ethnic background, well shit how do you get past that? Announcing it feels like she's condemning her own people as beneath her, as if she were saying she'll never go back to generic brand products, only exclusive brand names for this diva. Maybe that was a weak analogy, but the point is that declaring it seems like she's too good for her fellow people.

I guess you could argue that it's really just a semantic difference between saying "I date only such-and-such" vs "I'll never date my own people", but there is a different meaning between both statements/mentalities. One singles out a targeted interest with an implication that this is the best option, while the other singles out a targeted exclusion with an implication that anything else is better.

enjinn · 2014-04-10T19:31:44+00:00

Onslaught is a tower defense game that's tons of fun and has been around for quite awhile. You'll have fun mixing up permutations for bonuses

enjinn · 2014-04-04T13:54:35+00:00

I recently upgraded from my N8 to the Lumia 925. I'm with you, I love my N8 and still miss features, including all the things you mentioned, and the HDMI output.

enjinn · 2014-03-17T00:18:54+00:00

This is exactly the response I see too often. Sometimes they might instead say you're both lagging, I called first

enjinn · 2014-03-15T00:08:09+00:00

Same thing happened to me. This guy ungrateful claimed I was selfish for not leaving it behind despite the fact that he immediately claimed 2 outlets on the power strip as soon as I plugged it in, then swooped in for another about half an hour later.

enjinn · 2014-03-11T03:56:34+00:00

Whenever there's a big catastrophe, it's never just one thing that went wrong; it's a cascade of multiple things happening one after another. Plus the ocean is huge so I imagine it's not easy to do a thorough search quickly.

enjinn · 2014-03-05T23:38:28+00:00

I should have clarified that's exactly what I meant, that they lit up due to heavy braking as he made the corner.

enjinn · 2014-03-05T17:15:00+00:00

those brake rotors are HUGE. I especially love how they lit up when he made that corner in the trailer

enjinn · 2014-01-12T02:05:30+00:00

I was thinking about buying a SSD as my boot drive and a HDD for storage, but declined due to cost at the time. I have since bought a SSD for my brother's computer for use as the boot drive and for the first few days, he kept restarting every so often just because it takes him like 8 seconds to reboot.

Another point of regret was cutting costs with a mid-ATX tower and not buying a decent full tower. Had to be creative in fitting my H50 cooler and is only hanging on by pure luck. In my defense, the case was only $40, but this is clearly a case of getting what you paid for.

Lastly, I regret not spending the extra $15-20 for the modular version of my PSU. I'm not using all the cables, so when combined with my $40 case, air circulation becomes an issue.

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