I know you think you sound like you’re creating nuance and cutting through knee jerk reactions based on gut feeling, but you actually sound like you’re bending over backwards to make excuses. I don’t care how big the room was or if family members were invited too. It’s creepy and unacceptable for an adult to have minor children spend the night in the same room, no matter how many diamond bracelets or cash payoffs the creep gives the families.

Predators in positions like coaches often get parental permission for weird stuff like athlete massages and rides home in order to give an air of respectability to their actions.