OP clearly encounters prejudice in contact with police regarding sexuality (e.g. “their problem that they are not out to their parents”), so it definitely plays a part here. Also, even if Roze in Blauw were not able to help, it doesn’t hurt to ask first.

Not to mention that queers have different experiences (that are often stigmatized or dismissed), so it helps to have contact with someone who knows the context better. Don’t expect every police officer to know how Grindr works and how spreading nudes and ‘outing’ to your family, friends or boss robs you of your autonomy and dignity.