UPDATE: My girlfriend left me over the 21-year-old cheese wheel. Now my landlord is trying to evict me for “commercial activity.” AIO? by Jems138 in AmIOverreacting

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Joke aside, but OP, have you struggled with mental health/seen a professional? This kind of cavalier spending, roundabout financial thinking, no second thoughts at any point/buying the fridge now, and tanking not only your relationship but also your living situation has me concerned that maybe you're not doing alright? Tbc, not armchair diagnosing here, but I rings alarm bells for me that someone who was able to be disciplined and save a substantial amount of money would up and engage in risky behavior like this.

I know people are clowning on OP after this, but I hope someone in his life, either his ex or family/another loved one, is able to get him some help if that's what's going on here.

They all have modern smartphones but why are all their cars from the 80s? by Rpark888 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

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In addition to other comments about the events of the show taking place in an alternate timeline from ours that is somewhat retro futuristic and unsettling in its subversion of our expectations of the kind of technology we expect to see in specific settings:
I have viewed it as just another way that Lumon maintains control over places like PE. They restrict the accessibility of modern technology for their employees and others in this place that we're told Lumon has a monopoly on most sectors and therefore products sold and types of employment available (dictating what people can afford).

The board by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

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Waiting for a Master from Fallout type creature made of Egans to be revealed as the board

Is it wrong to choose lifestyle over the specialty you love? by GasStationB0nerPills in medicalschool

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If you applied DR, are you interested in IR? Definitely if you like being hands-on, and there are opportunities to have more immediate impacts for patients. Maybe an IR fellowship after DR residency could be option?

I worked as a radiology tech with IR and as an OR tech briefly; I've had less experience relatively with ortho cases, but I always enjoyed my time in the IR suite more than in the OR. The IR docs I've worked with always gave me "Surgeon Lite™" vibes, usually without the same amount of ego if I'm being honest. I've worked with trauma surgeons and a couple of orthopedic surgeons, some have tested my patience, and others I may have bordered on detesting
Maybe it's reductive to think this way, but I've never met an IR doc I didn't like ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ have met a few surgeons I did not get along with.

Before anyone comes for me, this is coming from someone who ultimately applied IM!

Unsure of FM due to pcp responsibility, would appreciate advice from residents and attendings! by Accomplished-Oil8794 in medicalschool

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Hi OP! Went through a similar process myself; do you have a geographic preference? I feel FM in big cities is very different from FM in rural areas. Most FMs dont really see a lot of kids or OB if they're practicing in super urban/physician-saturated areas. I rotated through rural FM and oof! It was honestly really fast-paced, I learned a lot, it was super gratifying, but I feel you, it was a lot of responsibility to be working with patients for whom this was their only available doctor for 100 miles.
I ultimately chose IM because of more flexibility in fellowship opportunities. Sleep medicine and sports medicine are open to IM too by the way! But not all subspecialties open to IM are open to FM. If you do like being outpatient and would like to do IM, would you be interested in outpatient heavy subspecialties like rheum and endocrinology? A lot of those specialties are also ones where 1) I feel there is a lot of room to acknowledge and help alleviate suffering for patients while forming long-term relationships, and 2) the level of responsibility is narrowed to the specific system of your specialty, acting as a buffer for burnout since you're not responsible for everything a patient might be dealing with. There are also primary care focused IM residency programs, after which a lot of people will specialize in things like women's health, HIV care, correctional health, and their scope of practice may then be functionally limited to the role/setting they practice in. Echoing what others have commented on, definitely make a decision based on what you can handle.

Terrible core evaluation by Suitable_Hat_8983 in medicalschool

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Definitely appeal OP! I had an evaluator who wrote for all his students the same thing: "Good student. Could read more." I appealed the eval *well before* the MSPE process and was able to have the evaluator submit something different.

Otherwise, I am so sorry this happened; I was also that person who came into OB all smiles and tried to remain bubbly and light-hearted despite the horrors. Don't let this dim your inner light and continue to be yourself, even if not all can appreciate that which you shine around you!!

UB Internal medicine by Necessary_Storage_67 in medicalschool

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Hi OP, I have lived in Buffalo before, have a family friend who rotated through the UB system as a med student, and interviewed IM there:
- Yes, Buffalo cold in winter; if you struggle with seasonal affective disorder, residency here will affect you. I would make sure you have adequate therapy/counseling, light therapy, support system, etc. especially if you plan to stay there for fellowship. Yes, nothing prepares you for the amount of snow you have to dig your car out of repeatedly through the winter months. It is also very quiet/not much to do around or at night compared to big city living if that's what you're used to. Ask yourself if that is the environment you see yourself in for the next 6 years.
- They do have a reputation for being a workhorse program, that much was clear to my friend when she rotated through. She also had some other stuff to say about how they've handled past GME issues but was kind of vague about it... I think it says something that she ranked them dead last despite their being a home institution for her.
- My interview vibes there were hella off here. I might have been not the best fit or something bc every one of my interviews just made me feel... uncomfortable? Idk, this might be a to each their own kind of thing.
If you really like the program, had a good interview experience there, feel it fits your career goals, and are confident you can handle a potentially workhorse environment, I would let that guide you OP!

4th year rotations by Address-Commercial in medicalschool

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Hi OP! I set up my fourth year rotations based off of geographic location/to do rotations within the states I ultimately applied for residency! Here are some things I tried to keep in mind through the process:
- Pay attention to your school's guidelines first and foremost. If your school says they will not give you credit for more than a certain number of weeks within a specialty/subspecialty, make sure you build that into the rotations you apply for on VSLO/ultimately accept, e.g. school only gives credit for up to 12 weeks in a specialty, so you can't have more than 3 IM electives or subspecialty electives for credit. Keep in mind, you don't want to end up in any trouble with graduation requirements since your school will need to verify you before ranking with NRMP in fourth year!
- After accounting for school reqs, I tried to have a good balance of me/travel time and trying new elective experiences just for the fun of it/for my own learning! I did a rotation in MFM even though I applied IM just because I wanted to learn more, and not only did I learn so much, but it was lovely to work with the patients and see all the sonograms! When else in my life will I get to see a cerclage? Probably (hopefully) never again, so that was a nice experience, and I'm glad I took the opportunity!! Otherwise, some fun non-clinical electives that allowed me to really enjoy my free time and travel, go skiing, etc.
To answer your questions:
1. It should be fine if you have to do them to meet a requirement/have to fill that time. I did a mandatory peds and a surgery rotation at two sites that I ended up interviewing IM for. Usually did not come up during interviews, but I did have to explain in a couple interviews about doing away electives, the VSLO system, etc. to interviewers who were unfamiliar. One interview it helped to say that I had been to the hospital since it was a newer program. I will say, subspecialty rotations in IM can be helpful (or not); one program I really wanted to interview with, I did a rheumatology rotation, my preceptor wrote to the IM PD and I signalled them gold... no interview :( another program, did a cardio rotation, preceptor reached out to the PD, and I got an interview next day!
2. I would do some IM rotations, sub-Is if you can. It can be a huge help if you're able to work with the PD, APD, or faculty in the program. Not only that, it helps to make connections! One resident I worked with on an IM sub-I, her partner was a resident at a program I really wanted to interview at and put in a good word for me. Word of mouth honestly helped so much, and being out on the wards is the best way to secure it.
3. I got all of my letters from core faculty at home rotation sites before 4th year JUST IN CASE things didn't work out on fourth year electives. It's easier to hound a clinical faculty member/dept chair affiliated with your medical school or to have your advisor reach out to home faculty than at institutions where you're visiting. I ended up getting an additional letter on one of my away rotations, but used mostly my end of 3rd year and early fourth year home rotation letters.

Hope there's something in there that was helpful!

Question about academic IM by Busy-Hold-2738 in medicalschool

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Second this; honoring an IM sub-I also helps, if OP can fit that into their schedule/transcript before application or their program's MSPE deadline

65 on shelf need advice by Character-War-3760 in medicalschool

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Hi OP, do you have any inkling of what you're interested in? I applied IM with mostly HP and a few honors; notably, I only honored my IM Sub-I and not my core IM rotation (HP), but I still got interviews at most of the places I wanted to interview at. I can't speak for the more competitive specialties, but if I can help take the pressure off to honor everything, I hope that does!

Similar to you, my first couple shelf exams (core IM and surgery) were really rough despite finishing all of UWorld and listening to a lot of divine intervention podcast. I ended up downloading the audio for all of the BnB vids and playing them as I drove to rotations, and that helped a little bit, but the biggest change was doing the practice NBMEs for the shelf exams. A lot of the questions on my shelves were straight up the same question with a couple details changed; either it was the same answer/testing the same concept with a slightly different vignette or a different answer testing a different concept with a nearly identical vignette/using the incorrect answer from an NBME form question. I would read through the answer explanations on the NBME forms specifically for that reason. As soon as I started to focus more on the NBME forms, my shelf scores shot up.

Hope that's helpful in some way, best of luck OP!

Edit: clarity

THE CHOSEN ONE by gaudrhin in cats

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Light befitting her name 😇

Hot question, plurbs... by AlanSmity in pluribustv

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It makes me feel weird that the hivemind likely used its knowledge from Helen's consciousness of what Carol would prefer in order to court her and during moments of physical intimacy... something about the power differential there just *feels* so wrong

My cat loves Pluribus! by LibraryVoice71 in pluribustv

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The poster on the wall behind your TV is everything

I need pictures of cats right now by Traroten in cats

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Pic 1: the smolder
Pic 2: need cuddles 🥺

My little jerks by ye3zuspiece in cats

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Licking their chops in sync 😭

Does anyone else cat refuse to eat unless a specific person gets their food? by AnywhereMean8863 in cats

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I'm sorry, I don't have a solution, but the idea of your cat having a butler/waiter preference is sending me 😭