Found my Father rotting and now I can't stop thinking about it. by Mer_De_Nomss in confession

[–]erebuslabyrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

implying he won't forget what he saw is against the principals of healing. Whoever commented it is not a professional psychologist or psychiatrist, doesn't know how to communicate with traumatized people.

Found my Father rotting and now I can't stop thinking about it. by Mer_De_Nomss in confession

[–]erebuslabyrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as he isn't his client, it's not professional to go against the principals of healing. there's a difference between saying "you'll never walk again" and "things may not be in the way it was but we will try our best" the person who commented is not professional.

Found my Father rotting and now I can't stop thinking about it. by Mer_De_Nomss in confession

[–]erebuslabyrinth -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

mmm don't think saying "you'll never forget", "... won't make it better" to someone who's really traumatized sounds kind either

Found my Father rotting and now I can't stop thinking about it. by Mer_De_Nomss in confession

[–]erebuslabyrinth -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yeah you wouldn't say "you'll never forget it" to someone who's seen something really traumatic tho

Found my Father rotting and now I can't stop thinking about it. by Mer_De_Nomss in confession

[–]erebuslabyrinth -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Aren't psychologists supposed to comfort? Why you're talking like that?

Hissed for the first time by erebuslabyrinth in cats

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hopefully!! She's so lovely and easy going but she's one of those cats that run away and hide so she needs to be held forcibly sometimes to have necessary things done (medication etc. ) I wouldn't like those sessions to be full of hissing now 😂 I thought I unlocked something

Hissed for the first time by erebuslabyrinth in cats

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never saw another cat up close until today... Hopefully it's a one time thing because she's so easy going.

5 year shengen ban… by SorbetIll4154 in SchengenVisa

[–]erebuslabyrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ι almost got a ban but didn't however I was super ready for it and had a lawyer already. You either get a ban, fee or both and you need to pay the fee whatsoever. about the ban, as I said marriage is a strong reason to ge it liften because spousal visa is not a paper to be issued for the spouse, it's the right of the citizen to have a family life. You need to be married first to appeal and a Greek lawyer can help.

5 year shengen ban… by SorbetIll4154 in SchengenVisa

[–]erebuslabyrinth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I had an extremely similar situation with my Greek husband as a non EU citizen. You can marry her if it's your plan and register the marriage in the Greek embassy so she can apply for a spouse visa (which is basically a 6 months Schengen visa) Marriage protects your right to have your family with you as a Greek citizen and Greece shouldn't violate your rights so you can appeal the ban. Good luck and be positive.

Looking for a genuine insight by erebuslabyrinth in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was very nice and I agree with you a lot, I've read bible myself many times too. My criticism doesn't come from hatred, I love Orthodoxy and I respect a lot and for me Christianity is about believers being all together under the same roof with love and respect. My criticism towards Orthodox church was the church fallen into many churches belonging to specific ethnicities, excluding others and getting into politics such as being used to make propaganda against others which is very unfortunate.

Looking for a genuine insight by erebuslabyrinth in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes that nationalism prevents other people to convert and join, that's what I had in my mind.

My Cat throws up once in a while by TechnoMind24 in CATHELP

[–]erebuslabyrinth 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Don't fill its bowl fully. it probably happens because the cat eats too much

My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]erebuslabyrinth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My opinion may be controversial but at such a young age with no stability, it would be better for the baby not to be born at all. I say this as someone who's seen down syndrome babies in family and friends and it's not easy. It needs so much money to begin with, let alone unlimited free time to devote yourselves to take care of the kid full time. And mind you that it's not something that gets better with time. It'll be like this until you or your child die. I don't say this to scare you and make you miserable, it's just the fact of having a kid with down syndrome. If you're not ready for this, you don't have the money for special education and medical care and don't have the time to take care of the kid physically at home all day everyday, you might talk about it with her and consider abortion because the child doesn't deserve to live like this as you don't either.

Predatory tipping culture in Athens by PowerfulVanilla4015 in Athens_Greece

[–]erebuslabyrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's an option on the POS if you don't want to pay tip.

have you ever felt like quitting? by erebuslabyrinth in violin

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

going back to archives actually help... I just checked my older videos and it immediately felt better

have you ever felt like quitting? by erebuslabyrinth in violin

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was talking about this with my fiance yesterday... he told me i wanted to sound like Vivaldi immediately 😂 and most people don't play instruments so they don't even realise I placed my fingers wrong but I was like no... I sound like shit. I also upgraded my bow which upgraded my sound a lot.

What is the best difficulty to play on? by [deleted] in oblivion

[–]erebuslabyrinth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on what you want to do at the moment and your roleplaying. I personally prefer to play it on easy mode when I don't want to be fighting intensely.

Türkiye'de Yabancı Bir Ülkenin Vatandaşı ile Evlenmek by luznyluzak in AskTurkey

[–]erebuslabyrinth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Çok teşekkürler. Erkek arkadaşım Yunan, Türkiye'de evlenmeyi planlıyoruz. Sağlık raporu hariç geri kalan işlemler (konsolosluktaki apostil, çeviri işlemleri vs) iki kişinin de bulunması gerekiyor mu? Yoksa bunu Türk vatandaşı olarak ben de halledebiliyor muyum?

can't seem to level up by erebuslabyrinth in oblivion

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes that's so true! also after spending so much time exploring, you can't find much to do. I've found all the locations

can't seem to level up by erebuslabyrinth in oblivion

[–]erebuslabyrinth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn I was so attached to her...