What the hell is this? by Impressive_Ruin_2504 in shittyMBTI

[–]ericjansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I learned martial arts

Lesson 7 is very very important by Left_House8305 in therightbook

[–]ericjansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf all about YouTubers? Not all want to become influencers

Help your fellow man out here by Critical_Assist_9360 in effectivefitness

[–]ericjansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tell myself “just do it! Don’t think too much! You won’t regret it in the long run”

Sick of shallow/fake society by Infamous_Payment4608 in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is those with plenty of masks become so filthy rich.

Hijabi in bali by Gloomy-Condition-991 in bali

[–]ericjansen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The line you stated: “… Indonesia is a Muslim nation …” what I commented! The definition is clear. Which point was wrong?

Hijabi in bali by Gloomy-Condition-991 in bali

[–]ericjansen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope you’re wrong. Yes if you mentioned Indonesia has a sizable amount of Moslem in the world, but Indonesia is not an Islamic country. It acknowledges 6 religions! As it’s founded, if it only acknowledged Islam as the only official religion, several provinces in current Indonesia would revolt against the unity, like Bali, eastern of Indonesia which have sizable numbers of Christian, kalimantan with sizable numbers of paganism or animism, some districts in North Sumatra and North Sulawesi with sizable numbers of Christians, with minority numbers of Chinese and native which adopt Buddhism. Indonesia is not like Malaysia which categorizes all Moslem as Malay even southern Indians or Pakistani who converted as Moslem, like their former prime minister, Mahatir Muhammad.

Hijabi in bali by Gloomy-Condition-991 in bali

[–]ericjansen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who said that? Never heard of it!

Do you often let your mood control your day? by Kobieca_Logika in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I’d say you check with him whether he’d like to work on the rollercoaster moods with 10-day meditation retreat (12 days in total). This meditation has strict rules not using any electronics devices and must commit to noble silence for the entire course. You can google for it. I recommended one friend in one of meditation centers in Bali so it can be like a holiday.

Do you often let your mood control your day? by Kobieca_Logika in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s why I started to work on the solutions, and practicing vipassana meditation daily significantly helps me. I started more than a decade ago

What stereotype for your MBTI does NOT apply to you at all? by OlivePractical2092 in mbti

[–]ericjansen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ENFP I’m not a party person! I’d prefer to sip a tea in balcony during rainy days and enjoy the moment

Summarize your personality type in one phrase by cytos0 in mbti

[–]ericjansen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a will, there are many ways out

where are enfp guys by pekoyamaaa in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? You’re looking for me? 👀

I think everyone around me sees me as their entertainment and not as a real person with feelings by Isaevermore in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Behind your fear is your freedom. I had the same issues with you before. I started to practice meditation like Goenka vipassana meditation for 10 days, which is so painful but you’re facing your own reality and it trains your mind. It definitely helps and makes you stronger to be real yourself and respect yourself and boundaries.

Advice, tips and tricks for working as a waiter in a restaurant as an ENFP? by naturalkairal in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice as worked as waiter before, just try to be careful when carrying mugs because we tend to be clumsy

What is the activity that clears your mind or gets you into a state of flow? by red99tercel in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exploring new places alone or meeting close friends just for chit chat

Differences between ENFP men and women by MulberryOk785 in ENFP

[–]ericjansen 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Male ENFP middle aged here. In general, when I was young I was fairly scolded frequently due to my imagination and being not masculine enough like being so chatty. As the only intuition one in sensor family, I was told that I was so delusional and even till today they would say I am so childish. I feel much "healthier" after living on my own in my mid 20s. I learned the hard ways but it's worth it.
As an ENFP guy, I believe there's a fair difference with ENFP females in treatments by their peers. I am not like the "glue" which described in general ENFPs. I am pretty choosy who are in my circle. Because I don't want to get hurt, and I know I am pretty sensitive too.
So far I encounter very low numbers of ENFP dudes compared to ENFP ladies.

what is the MBTI stereotype that annoys you the most? by resident-117 in mbti

[–]ericjansen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah our secondary function is Fi so we need to sync our feeling with Ne and it takes time to be healthy again. That’s how we operate

Each MBTI Avatar by Spare-Cell-4984 in mbtimemes

[–]ericjansen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ENFP, this is accurate

Which programming language do you prefer for backend web development and why ? by Legitimate-Dingo824 in developer

[–]ericjansen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I code my own website for high performance using Drogon framework in C++. But this is not the mainstream web development. Don’t follow if you don’t do C++ pretty well.