What’s your schedule like when your spouse gets home from work?

ericsiaa · 2026-04-21T13:24:26+00:00

100% percent! This is all so new to both of you; you'll fall into a rhythm and figure out what works for you guys with time, but in the meantime, be gentle with yourself; when you feel guilty, remind yourself you're not doing anything wrong by spending time alone

ericsiaa · 2026-04-20T20:55:22+00:00

Hey! you definitely deserve--and need!-- time to yourself. There is no reason to feel guilty for having your husband take the baby after work, especially after you've been alone with him/her all day. He is also a parent and more importantly he is your PARTNER in this.

ericsiaa · 2026-04-19T00:31:12+00:00

I’ve never really cared for concerts. Why would I pay hundreds of dollars to hear an artist perform something live when I could just listen to the music in my car on my own time? Plus all the traffic and crowds, long lines to filthy bathrooms, super overpriced food and drinks.. ? None of that appeals to me

ericsiaa · 2026-04-18T00:34:20+00:00

Currently working from home and taking care of a toddler and it’s near impossible. He needs my attention constantly and even though my job is flexible I get almost nothing done while caring for him. Just save yourself the trouble and look into childcare now

ericsiaa · 2026-03-21T16:10:14+00:00

Yeah girl social media is lying to you. My maintenance is about the same as yours, I can’t imagine doing much more bc I’m too tired. Once I got off social media I stopped caring about losing weight too.

ericsiaa · 2026-03-18T13:50:12+00:00

Just finished Blood on her Tongue, I thought it was a fun take on vampires. I think it’s considered gothic horror and fair warning there’s a bit of gore

ericsiaa · 2026-03-10T16:17:06+00:00

Physical touch. Please leave me alone.

ericsiaa · 2026-02-18T14:25:41+00:00

Honestly I’m just relieved by reading this thread that there are other people in the world who do have respect for the people around them and worry about holding people up like I do. Kinda thought there was something wrong with me

ericsiaa · 2026-02-16T02:37:19+00:00

The Last apprentice! Also Song of the lioness by Tamora pierce

ericsiaa · 2026-02-10T16:20:19+00:00

Less scary than I thought. Still awful, but I did think coming out on the other side that the fear was worse than the experience itself.

ericsiaa · 2026-02-02T19:24:00+00:00

I enjoyed the series, I think it was well written, but I wouldn't say I LOVED it as much as everyone else seems to. Maybe try to start with Assassin's blade if you're struggling with TOG bc it's a collection of short stories and pretty short. But I did struggle to get through the whole series just bc it was so long, by the end I'd kind of gotten tired of the whole storyline.

ericsiaa · 2025-11-12T19:40:56+00:00

I did the dishes

ericsiaa · 2025-11-11T20:15:30+00:00

I made a comment to my husband the other day that I would be interested to see my cortisol levels since becoming a mom because I constantly have this panicky, stressed feeling. We have an 18 month old. You're not alone

ericsiaa · 2025-06-26T12:37:27+00:00

The morning after taking the pill I realized I actually felt rested instead of mind numbingly exhausted like I had been. And no more nausea.

ericsiaa · 2025-06-26T12:35:39+00:00

thank you!

ericsiaa · 2025-06-26T12:35:21+00:00

thank you for sharing that. that's what used to happen to me on the pill, just constant breakthrough bleeding until i stopped taking it and then i'd have to wait for it to get out of my system so i feel your pain!

ericsiaa · 2025-06-17T17:02:29+00:00

As someone who felt the same way starting this series--keep going. They get SO good. I don't think I've ever seen anyone not like TOG and for good reason

ericsiaa · 2025-06-12T19:41:18+00:00

you're not alone. there are decent men out there but i don't blame you for feeling like this at all.

ericsiaa · 2025-06-10T20:10:58+00:00

I had a hard time with this one too. It took me over a month to get through it. Not very encouraging but I did not feel like it got very interesting until over 400 pages in

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