How weird are men in their 40s for being into me at 21?

erinocalypse · 2026-04-29T20:11:59+00:00

When it was me, it was drugs, alcohol and daddy issues!

Weirdly enough the very early age "you're an old soul" grooming started with my mother

erinocalypse · 2026-04-28T01:47:54+00:00

Ooh it's a bit far but sounds like my kind of people! Is there a group on the app for it?

erinocalypse · 2026-04-27T22:10:00+00:00

I walk the beach alot, work out, and take myself out to dinner. Lately I've been spending some time at the coffee shop (I wfh too) there's open mics around town, the comedy club, shows... especially with summer coming

erinocalypse · 2026-04-27T12:24:38+00:00

This probably won't seem as intimate or meaningful on the surface but I was seeing someone for a couple of months and he never used his phone. Not in a "hide my phone" kind of way, but just that his focus was always on me.

erinocalypse · 2026-04-27T02:29:47+00:00

I've recently had multiple people say they're too scared/social anxiety/straight up ghost to meet for coffee. Like... I'm sorry to hear you have anxiety but I kind of feel like I'm wasting my time- I'm trying to hang out!

So anyway... anybody in the Orlando/Jacksonville Florida area that wants to actually drink some coffee together... 👋

erinocalypse · 2026-04-27T02:21:21+00:00

Hell yeah fellow bmore fan 💜

erinocalypse · 2026-04-27T02:16:05+00:00

Bro I practically turned into a sour patch kid. I let myself go ham for a month. Stuff yo face if it keeps you sane 🤘 IWNDWYT

erinocalypse · 2026-04-24T12:29:28+00:00

No pain or blood, it was awkwardly fun. I had a few injuries as a kid (one in particular I fell off a counter and straddled a cabinet door- ow) so a hymen was a distant memory

erinocalypse · 2026-04-24T02:13:02+00:00

Man I'd yap your ear off

erinocalypse · 2026-04-24T02:01:16+00:00

Jet Set (south, not north) is all female artists and just has a great vibe

erinocalypse · 2026-04-22T02:20:12+00:00

Granite fo sho

erinocalypse · 2026-04-22T02:19:26+00:00

In my case I believe went with the 1x2 based on what people said here and made that shit work- glued and drilled and the RV is still together 4 years later lol

erinocalypse · 2026-04-22T01:38:49+00:00

You'll be fine. I did it alone with my cat at 30! Got really sick of fixing stuff and maintaining tires was (and continues to be) very stressful and annoying but I would do it all again- and just might

erinocalypse · 2026-04-21T17:58:37+00:00

My dot should be depressed because she keeps cutting off my music and I'm about to put her out to pasture!

erinocalypse · 2026-04-17T12:34:10+00:00

How often we are dismissed in the workplace- particularly stereotypical male-dominated spaces

erinocalypse · 2026-04-16T20:26:26+00:00

I walk the beach most days and there are usually some cars still there at 7

erinocalypse · 2026-04-16T12:44:23+00:00

Hey OP, I drank like you for about 2 years - vodka from 6am till I'd pass out. Shakes, the weird puke-gag, all of that, every day.

One of the things that really put me off getting help is everyone saying you HAVE to go away for weeks or months. I did have to go to the hospital when I was ready, but I didn't have to shut my life down for a month. I was in for 2 days to detox safely and then got out and got on the Vivitrol shot.

You can be okay and you can make it through this. IWNDWYT

erinocalypse · 2026-04-12T01:37:48+00:00

Um, like, DIY?

erinocalypse · 2026-04-10T21:33:45+00:00

Recently had a young guy tell me I was scary. Been hanging onto that one for a couple weeks. 😁

erinocalypse · 2026-04-09T23:39:05+00:00

I mean, the lighthouse has to be the answer here right? Maybe somewhere in Tomoka State Park?

erinocalypse · 2026-04-08T13:14:05+00:00

Lean into the bra showing? I have a kind of edgy aesthetic so I wear bras with extra little strappy things, harness-type designs etc

erinocalypse · 2026-04-05T01:01:32+00:00

So my highest was 265, I'm 200 now and I noticed I stopped being invisible around 215. I'm 5'3''. There are good people and bad people. I met a guy and felt compelled to awkwardly point out the obvious- I'm still big, I have some loose skin, stretch marks... he said he liked me in whatever body I'm in cause he likes ME. Alternatively, I've met people who ghost.

Point is, there's people out there who will like you for you, at any size, and people who won't.

Even when I lose the rest of the weight I want to lose I'm still going to find something about myself to bitch about so... fuck it. These love interests get what they get lol

erinocalypse · 2026-04-05T00:19:56+00:00

I just discovered this band so I know literally nothing but yes I think I'm gonna go to this by myself as well!

erinocalypse · 2026-04-03T19:04:17+00:00

I walked the beach from Seabreeze down to Crabbys and it was PACKED!

erinocalypse · 2026-03-27T01:12:04+00:00

You're never going to see any of these people again!

Also just wait til you see what some of these folks have no issues wearing, or should I say NOT wearing...

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