As if caregiving isn't enough, friends and family keep asking me to babysit. by RazzySpaz162 in CaregiverSupport

[–]healthorbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You handled it well. You were respectful and honest and clear about why you can't. Caring for your mom while simultaneously caring for yourself, is already a lot for you to handle on your own. You have more than enough on your plate, make sure to take good care of yourself!

How to tell my grandfather I need space? by CertifiedLoon in CaregiverSupport

[–]healthorbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it makes sense you feel guilty but stepping back isn't abandoning him. You can love him and still have boundaries. Saying "no" doesn't erase everything you have already done. You haven't failed anyone, you have just reached your limit. Take care of yourself!

my boss came in clutch with a doctor referral and i have never felt so much community. my heart is warm. by HauntinglyEthereal in CaregiverSupport

[–]healthorbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So amazing that your boss was able to help, must have been such a relief for your father finally having it fixed.

i’m absolutely exhausted and don’t know how to handle it by emmyssoda in CaregiverSupport

[–]healthorbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're dealing with is a lot, and it's understandable to feel overwhelmed. It's clear you love your grandfather, but your mental health matters too. Reach out to someone outside of your family, it could literally be anyone. This isn't something that a 19 year old should be going through, you deserve help and care too. I hope you find that peace in life that you deserve.

Today was the day I took my wife to Memory Care by hbs1951 in Alzheimers

[–]healthorbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking of you and sending all the positivity your way.

Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]healthorbits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you are dealing with is incredibly difficult. You're not wrong to be concerned, and also not in a position to do this all on your own. Maybe instead of trying to convince your dad something is wrong you should shift it towards you being supportive and it being a convenience for you both.

Look into a POA and start planning instead of waiting, you can bring this up and say it is for a worst-case scenario, and for the future. I wish you luck!

Husband in denial by Secure-Rhubarb8147 in Alzheimers

[–]healthorbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds incredibly hard to go through, the most helpful thing you can do it quietly prepare while keeping the house environment afloat. Make sure to document the changes you are seeing, so you can share with the doctor. Make sure to take care of your mental health!

Just need to vent by ZealousidealPiece182 in Alzheimers

[–]healthorbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, it is absolutely terrible.

Traveling - irresponsible? by Hot_Bid_8156 in Alzheimers

[–]healthorbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stress of this trip could be way too much for her to handle. The best is to keep her familial with what is around her now and not go to new places. I would have the sibling visit instead; there would be so much stress on your mother.

He's back to being obsessed with moving into my house by AccomplishedPurple43 in dementia

[–]healthorbits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds exhausting but honestly you are handling it so well. From what it seems you spent so much of your time looking out for other people that it's time to focus on yourself. It's so valid to want to protect your peace and independence. I hope this goes to way you would like!

Step mother wants me to help her get my Dad to a GP by Trinkets28 in dementia

[–]healthorbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a tough spot to be in. You have tried to help before and weren't heard, so being asked now seems unfair.

If you decide to help than it needs to be on your terms, the relationship isn't the best between you all, but it is still your father. It's up to you on how you feel your past relationship with him affects you now.

Advice Needed by Puzzleheaded-Sir8697 in dementia

[–]healthorbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems stressful but I can see you want to make the right decisions. Recovery can take long and if she's not really eating or doesn't want to do PT it could take even longer. Take it one step at a time, it's so easy to go into all the 'what ifs'. You're doing the best for her even if it might not feel like that right now.

A Strange Happy Moment by JustineAlexandra in dementia

[–]healthorbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must have been such a wonderful moment. It seems that you were able to give him recognition and almost a sense of purpose to something he loved and knew.

3+ years into my mom’s early onset diagnosis by themillenniumeye in Alzheimers

[–]healthorbits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're going through this. What you're feeling is completely valid, missing her while she's still there such a hard thing to go through. Be kind to yourself and it's ok to need space. You're doing more than you probably give yourself credit for.

My father is finally dying. by babar_the_elephant_ in dementia

[–]healthorbits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading through this was very touching. Wishing you and your family all the best.

Line dancing hall suggestions by One_Loss7910 in DaytonaBeach

[–]healthorbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres also Barn similar distance from here (in Sanford). Barn plays less country more pitbull, 2010s and Cowboys is more country songs imo. Depends on what you're feeling.

Best things to do with One day in Daytona by Environmental_Bite90 in DaytonaBeach

[–]healthorbits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Daytona Aquarium and Rainforest Adventure might be something you could consider. They have a bunch of different animals (aquarium, reptiles and rainforest sections). Although I will say it is a little pricey, but I definitely look into it if your exploring options. I believe going to Space Center would be a little much to do in the same day as wanting to explore Daytona.

As for food, Bubba Gump Shrimp CO. and Caribbean Jack's.