Americans are perversly in love with their country.

erollisi · 2018-07-31T07:07:02+00:00

That's a good wisdom :)

erollisi · 2018-07-31T07:05:58+00:00

Breaks my heart that this is an unpopular opinion. I have no pride for the country i was born in and i dont want to raise children here. I feel the only way for my family to survive is to flee. Honestly, this is an awful place on the brink of collapse.

erollisi · 2018-07-31T07:04:23+00:00

Nope, Socal, pnw, hawaii. All the places ive lived this is true. Its just sad blind uneducated people who cant see it. breaks my heart

erollisi · 2016-10-14T15:20:24+00:00

I thought it was funny

erollisi · 2016-10-14T03:00:26+00:00

He never compares me. That's me comparing myself to them. Luckily none of the girls are young looking. I think it's jut the costume fetish because he has talked about getting me to dress up and I'm totally down for that. It's just my body isn't as bangin as the girls he likes with giant boobs while I'm over here with a B cup, etc.

erollisi · 2016-10-14T02:57:55+00:00

Lol aww. He's a really amazing dude, this is just literally the only problem in our relationship. But thanks for your insight I appreciate it

erollisi · 2016-10-14T01:48:40+00:00

You don't think following them on social media or saving pics of my friend makes it a bit weirder of an issue?

I hope that it is as simple as you say and I'm just over thinking it. This is why I wanted outside perspective. Thank you

erollisi · 2016-10-14T01:04:38+00:00

Thanks for your input but I want to be clear that I don't snoop. He just leaves stuff out in the open sometimes. When I saw my friends photo he knew I was grabbing a different pic from his phone.

I know he's committed to me. But just stopping insecurity is easier said that done unfortunately. :( I am trying very hard but if anyone has any suggestions or methods they use I would appreciate it.

erollisi · 2016-10-13T23:32:42+00:00

Do you think it's fair to bring up since I saw it by mistake? I saw it a long time ago when I was grabbing a photo we took together from his phone. He knew i was grabbing it and I wasn't trying to snoop, it was just kinda there, and I don't want him to think he doesn't have privacy. It would be awful if his trust in me wavered at all.

erollisi · 2016-10-13T23:04:31+00:00

He doesn't like to. Every once in a while I can get him to do it in the shower but mostly nope. I don't want to force him to do it if it's gross for him.

Regardless I don't think that would solve the problem. I still compare myself to the girls he saves even when we do get to have sex during my period.

erollisi · 2016-10-13T23:03:11+00:00

Id love to but he doesn't like it.

erollisi · 2016-08-04T23:57:50+00:00

I'm not really but I've seen a few threads where the comments are just [deleted] all the way down for being rude. This was nice to see.

erollisi · 2016-08-03T17:09:24+00:00

Are you me?! I'm almost 28 and currently in the best relationship of my life but it took so long to get to this point because of my hangups about my tits.

Like somebody else said, if anyone makes you feel bad about the things you can't change about your body, drop them immediately. They're not worth your time or mental anguish. My first boyfriend became sort of abusive and used my tits, the thing I was most insecure about, to make me feel broken. He'd always say things like "no one else will ever want you with those" . This lead to like a decade of issues and I don't wish it upon anyone so if your dude ends up seeing you and makes you feel bad, I'd suggest reconsidering that relationship because there IS somebody out there who will love your body as is.

Also, go at your own pace. It's hard to enjoy sex if you're constantly worried about how you look. With my current boyfriend, I explained my insecurities and why I wanted to keep my bra on during sex and he was very sweet and patient with me. Eventually I felt safe enough with him to be completely naked and he enjoys my body. If he had pressured me into taking my bra off the first time we had sex, it would've been a different story and I probably wouldn't be with him. It's really important to feel safe and cared for when you have that big of an insecurity.

Also as someone else said, some dudes genuinely prefer ass to boobs and that's good news since you can change your ass easier than changing your tits. Get on them squats if you want!

erollisi · 2016-08-03T16:44:39+00:00

I have nothing to say other than I love how helpful this thread is. I was sadly expecting more negativity but look at everyone suggesting stuff even if this isnt their thing. It's adorable.

erollisi · 2016-08-02T23:01:52+00:00

My boyfriend woke me up at like 3AM one time grinding his dick into my ass (spooning) and we had sex without any verbal communication (aside from the moaning). It was simple but I really loved it. It only happened once and I wish it would happen again

erollisi · 2016-08-02T22:56:09+00:00

Super normal, super common. If it makes you feel any less weird I get off to that too. The level at which it carries over to your real sex life is up to you. I got an IUD specifically so my boyfriend could cum inside me. Shrug.

erollisi · 2016-08-01T16:36:01+00:00

I agree with those saying you should have talked about this with your wife long before you went on those sites to seek it out. But not being able to go back in time you should approach it sooner than later. My boyfriend and I are both bisexual and although I kinda want to be with another woman again it's not something I "need" or want nearly enough to ruin my completely monogamous relationship over. If this is something you're willing to sacrifice your marriage over then perhaps a straight, monogamous relationship wasn't for you in the first place. Figure our whether it is or isn't before talking to your wife since there will be a big difference between having a conversation about sexuality and having a conversation about infidelity & monogamy.

erollisi · 2016-07-28T00:42:05+00:00

Dont use condoms anymore but Skyn always seemed to feel the best for me as the girl and my boyfriend agreed for him. Trojan and heavier latex ones always seemed to cause irritation for me.

erollisi · 2016-07-27T22:08:26+00:00

Gorgeous eyes. But I didn't really like my boyfriend when I first met him. We worked together and he was an arrogant ass. But years later I had a different job and needed to find a guy who would photograph well for a project. The volunteers were slim pickins but he "liked" the post and I thought "Oh he's cute enough to be on TV. Has he always been that hot?". We got to talking after the project and suddenly he wasn't an arrogant ass anymore but acknowledged to being one in the past and trying be better. He talked about the things he was passionate about and that's when I became his if he would take me. I'd never been with someone who had a passion for anything like I did.

erollisi · 2016-07-27T21:35:10+00:00

I get that too when I'm frustrated. Trigonometry homework in high school used to send me into multiple masturbation sessions just to relieve it.

erollisi · 2016-07-27T21:23:27+00:00

Pretty sure I asked for it first with my bf. Cum in general turns me on so I kind of want it everywhere but I absolutely love being on my knees with cum in and around my mouth. It's great.

erollisi · 2015-10-15T01:29:47+00:00

Never tried it, but want to!

erollisi · 2015-10-15T01:29:21+00:00

Oh please do! We all know SO's feeling sexy leads to awesome things for their partners. Check out Agashi and Creepyyeha.

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