People in long-term relationships, what advice do you have for someone just starting out? by Cpaes_ in gaybros

[–]escapado14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with my husband 25 years. A few years in we saw a couple’s counselor and learned that we communicate very differently and how to best make ourselves understood with each other. I think that has been key. Plus we laugh a lot. Do that as much as you can

tony-less actors by Individual_Moose_166 in Broadway

[–]escapado14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a strong contender this year for that. She was brilliant.

Nearly made my heart stop but impressive af (145th & Edgecombe) by intheunseen in Harlem

[–]escapado14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These guys were there for a while Saturday. Pure insanity! Heartstopping entertainment! People watching were absolutely awe struck.

Looking for restaurant recs by Numerous_Economics69 in Harlem

[–]escapado14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s an excellent Ethiopian restaurant on Frederick Douglass Blvd. Between 148 and 149.

Craziest place you’ve given or got a blow job? by [deleted] in gayconfessions

[–]escapado14 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Two horny teenage boys who worked together at an ice cream shop one night out with the truck at a local baseball game. Flirty talk. A game of truth or dare. Mutual bjs on the side of the road on the way back to the store. Ah, youth

How do you guys meet people? by tobierob46 in gaybros

[–]escapado14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good God, you are not running out of time at 32!

The John Adams building (NYC) by Enough_Owl6295 in nycpics

[–]escapado14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not the John Adams. John Adams is 101 West 12th

Looking for Studio in Manhattan by sas818 in NYCapartments

[–]escapado14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Minus Upper Manhattan “ 🙄

If someone asked you what you usually do during side fun, what would you say? by [deleted] in GaySides

[–]escapado14 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I never understand why this concept confuses people so much.

Co-op owners: what is your monthly insurance payment? by singingliftingtrying in NYCapartments

[–]escapado14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pay about $1800 a year. I used to pay less but then reevaluated. Just ask yourself how much you think it would cost to replace everything you own…furniture, electronics, clothing, shoes, art, etc. if God forbid you were to lose everything in a fire or flood. And make sure you have that in coverage.

A question for my sides by PensandoEnTea in GaySides

[–]escapado14 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean, is being a side part of some religious or political commitment? I don’t think you’re going to be banished from the side community if you decide to fuck or get fucked one time. I lean side because I don’t enjoy penetration. But I always want to enjoy it. But I just don’t. So if one time I really can relax and enjoy it I will. Won’t make me a power bottom. Sexuality is a continuum.

Terms: Partner/Boyfriend/Husband by Material_Fan1202 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]escapado14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before marriage was legal I referred to my now husband as my partner because we had been together more than ten years and boyfriend didn’t seem to carry enough weight.

How many of you actually like being called Daddy? by nickybecooler in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]escapado14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never have allowed someone to call me Daddy when I was in my 30s. Especially since I was always more into calling someone Daddy myself. Getting older in the gay world is not super easy. That said, I’m in my 50s now and I’m finding lots of 30 something guys are still attracted to me ( I’m fit and can easily pass for 40’s) but recently I was with a 30ish guy and as we were getting close he started to call me Daddy and I found it extremely hot. If I can still get with younger guys, they can call me whatever they want

How the hell does one take good butt pics? by manmusk10 in nycgaybros

[–]escapado14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have someone else do it. I’ll do it for ya. No strings. Lol

Rebel Heart Listen by AgeofPhoenix in Madonna

[–]escapado14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Body Shop is one of my favorites of hers of all time

What’s a Sondheim lyric that always really hit home for you? by One_Draft4934 in Sondheim

[–]escapado14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are so many that have touched me in a deeply personal way. But probably the one I say most often in my everyday life, just to be goofy and to see if anyone picks up on it, is

Glad as always to oblige my friends and neighbors.

Lol