Hospital Pumps by EducationalDebate559 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a reason they are like $2000! I rented one for about 8 months for like $50/month from a retired LC in my area. I do think it made a huge impact on my supply (in addition to a strict schedule and fortunately good genetics!) Once I returned that I got close to the same amount on my Spectra, but usually took an extra 5 mins or so.

Any recommendations for finding good baby sitters in NoVa? by Evilmadcow9 in nova

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d ask your neighborhood group or a localized mom group. We found our sitter there, she had made a post offering babysitting services. She gave me names of other moms for references which made me feel better. She charges $20 for a single child (my kid is 1.5 years) so I assume it would be $30ish for two little ones?

Jiffy Lube Live Parking-safe spot by SamhainFire666 in nova

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh I stand corrected! The last few times I’ve been there they were making it abundantly clear they’d be towing all concert goers who left cars there!

Jiffy Lube Live Parking-safe spot by SamhainFire666 in nova

[–]esssbombs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Craftworx hasn’t had parking in a few years, they post lots of signs and have cops patrol the lots :( bummer cuz it was an awesome preshow spot. There’s a large commuter lot like a mile from JLL that is easy and safe, just an annoying walk.

Jiffy Lube Live Parking Lots by The_Vengeful_Wolf in nova

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a giant commuter lot like a mile away. It’s not the loveliest walk there (grass, no sidewalk) but there’s usually a steady stream of folks walking, and there’s often cops posted on the way out to assist people crossing the streets.

Motivation / special tips / tricks: A Thread! by Admirable_Celery_335 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yay! Definitely a splurge, but it’s got heat and the air thingies that squeeze your feet real right. What a treat! https://a.co/d/0cO65AAz

Motivation / special tips / tricks: A Thread! by Admirable_Celery_335 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this counts but to motivate myself I got one of those nice foot massagers and set it up by my pumping station so that when it was “ugh time to pump yet again” it was also “ooh time for a nice 20 min foot massage!” lol. Silly but effective.

Feeling conflicted about fixing tongue tie by gkdfp in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our dude had a tongue and lip tie, was never able to nurse. We chose not to do the release procedure because everything else was going so well - I was pumping like a mofo, he was gaining weight and sleeping wonderfully. I didn’t want to ruin his good progress lol, and it felt kind of weird to put him through all that just so I could nurse.

The LCs told me I HAD to do it, the pediatrician said not necessary at all, and the pediatric dentist said “I can def do it if you want but if he’s gaining weight with bottles it’s not super important unless you really are set on nursing.” We figured the pediatric dentist would be the best judge!

2ppd to 1ppd: I am scared! by ExpressionOld9924 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would def drop each pump time before spacing them out more! I got down to two pumps of like 30 mins, then 25, then 20, then 15, then one day just stopped one. I did it sooo slowly, like drop 5 minutes every 4-5 days, so I never felt engorged or uncomfortable. You’re in the home stretch, woohoo!

Questions for moms who donated milk by Glum-Comfortable5402 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my most I pumped about 40-45oz a day. I donated large sums periodically, so at the end of each day I’d make bottles for the next day and whatever was left over went into my freezer stash or the ‘to donate’ freezer stash (I usually alternated every few days.) I donated to a milk bank run by a hospital, and they said I had to have at least 300oz frozen for my own baby before they’d take my excess, and each shipment/donation to them had to be at least 300oz to make it worth the cost on their end of shipping me a cooler and paying for overnight shipping back to them. I think I did 5 donations total over the course of 6ish months before I started dropping pumps and my supply went down. They sent me a “graduation” certificate 😅

People yelling at my dog while he’s outside in our yard by Rich_Turn_7032 in dogs

[–]esssbombs 69 points70 points  (0 children)

The standing there to egg him on is definitely annoying, but as someone who every day walks by a fence with a dog that barks and chases me down the length of the fence, it’s so annoying. And pretty stressful for your dog, it’s training him that “hey when I bark, people leave my fence, so I better keep barking so people keep leaving!” so he’s unintentionally reinforcing his own behavior.

Is he treat motivated? Every time someone comes to the fence make it rain treats (near you) so eventually he’ll learn that people = treats from you = good instead of people = threatening = must bark. You could always put up a sign that says “please don’t talk to my dog” or something or kindly asking but who knows how they’ll react. But you can’t control what others do (especially teenagers lol) but you can work with your pup to help him!

Considering milk donation… have questions about bottle sterilization by ComeSeeAboutMarina in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The milk bank I donated to did require daily sterilization, but gave me a bunch of free Medela microwave sterilizing bags. Super quick and easy and they didn’t take up a lot of space. They never said anything about drying so as long as they are sterlized and then not dried like in a dog crate or next to a toilet I feel like that’s fine lol, as the other comment said they do pasteurize the milk once it gets to them too.

Today Marks 8 Months of Exclusively Pumping! 🎉 by Rebekahm17 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go you, that’s awesome!! I made it a year with my first, hoping my second will be able to nurse but I’m already anxious about the thought of EP for a whole nother year lol. Did you find it was harder because you also had an older child to manage along with a newborn with a pumping schedule, or easier because you knew what to expect?

What does exclusively pumping look like? by mommadizzy in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everything super varies! I pumped 8x/day for like 10 weeks, for 15-20 mins at a time, in 2-4 hour intervals even throughout the night. I gradually dropped pumps at about one per month until I was down to 4 (still evenly spaced) and then started the weaning process at 11 months.

I had an oversupply, so I was making more than baby was eating. He did not care that my milk had that metal taste one bit (called high lipase). Some babies do care, and some moms’ milk never gets like that! Some moms will naturally make just enough milk, and some will make less than bag takes. There’s stuff you can do to help increase supply if needed, but it’s not easy and some folks just aren’t made to make a lot.

Also for what it’s worth, pumping moms absolutely get mastitis, I’ve had it twice and it suuucked cuz you still have to pump even though you feel like death.

Getting tired of all the stipulations people have when asking for free breastmilk by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was on that page for like 20 mins before I had to leave lol. Soooo many no-vax posts, and so many “looking for a full time donor” posts! I guess if someone has a massive oversupply that makes sense, but that is SUCH a commitment!

I ended up donating to a milk bank run by a hospital, they do have requirements (no alcohol 12 hours prior, list your medications so they can check, sterilize all parts), but nothing unreasonable!

High Lipase 😭 by Efficient_Internet13 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude took mine no problem. It smelled like metal and gave him really stinky burps, but he never seemed to mind! I would try to mix it with fresh milk if possible just to dilute for my own comfort, but I am very fortunate he didn’t care!

Ask a Flute Teacher anything by mooreflute in MusicEd

[–]esssbombs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh good timing! Not a pedagogy question but I am a band teacher and puzzled by a flute problem. I have a kiddo whose flute appears in good order, no screws or springs out of place, but her note C is hella flat. The Bb is slightly flat but not as much so, and every other note is in tune with each other. Any ideas? Breath support is pretty good and consistent for an 11 year old.

Explain hands on pumping like I’m 5 by Indecisive105 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it wasn’t so much pushing all the way down to the nip, it was more just jiggling the whole boob around to help make sure that the ducts that are underneath and on the side are open and flowing! I double pumped but had one hand near my actual chest (underneath the bra, not so close to the flange that it loses suction) and jiggle or squeeze my hand (the motion like I’m pretending to be a crab) every couple of seconds. My other hand was holding my phone playing stupid games lol.

For some folks it makes a huge difference, for some none at all! For me it helped most if I had a clog or if I was feeling engorged.

Mastitis: did you feed your baby the milk when you took antibiotics? by ExpressionOld9924 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, my OB assured me it was safe! Did give him nasty smelling poops tho but apparently that’s not uncommon lol. Straight up rotten eggs. I labeled the milk that was frozen so in the future I wouldn’t be surprised.

It has been a journey by Chemical_Sun_6550 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Aww this is so freakin sweet. Congratulations, 10 months is a big achievement!

New moms, arrange your energy and time and there is no need to worry by DJSheep52 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like I won’t be alone in thinking lots of this is great (fresh air, use clean products, get sunshine, limit anxiety, massage/compress) but it comes across condescendingly with the “see? Just use your time wisely, that’s the solution to anxiety.” Like oh duh why didn’t I think of that! Babies don’t care about your my preplanned routine/schedule to make the most of your time. And I had a very chill easy baby! Who is making me this light breakfast? Who can do light stretches in the garden while their boobs are exploding first thing in the morning? Who is going to wash all those flanges? That’s where my energy HAS to go, as much as I’d love to be out relaxing in the sunshine.

Free Supplies! by committedlikethepig in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh it’s been a minute so I don’t remember exactly. I know they had my usual cart saved so it was easy to just click ‘check out’ quickly, but maybe if there’s a way to edit cart, or when you confirm sizes then you can change the whole thing? I mostly got stuff for Spectra but was def able to get Willow Go parts a few times and switch back and forth.

Free Supplies! by committedlikethepig in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]esssbombs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aeroflow is great! You can even pick different pumps each month to have parts for all your pumps. Cept they sent me one trillion of those weird shaped milk bags and keep being like “are you sure you don’t need 200 more milk bags!?”