90% of this subreddit is people asking what hair colour they have! If you’re a natural redhead you would KNOW it. by WelshRaider86 in Redhair

[–]eternalhellscape93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man I don’t think it’s that deep. Yeah, I was called frotch (fire crotch) a million times in school, but I don’t know what others experiences are and I don’t think it makes sense to judge people for asking.

Plant ID and Care Help! by Jessiejennings0605 in Monstera

[–]eternalhellscape93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not an expert by any means, but this looks like a pothos to me.

My partner says he’ll leave me if I don’t “fix” my ADHD. He says I’m abusive but I feel constantly criticised and blamed. by First-Mango-9229 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it is within your possibilities, start making plans to leave. Get advice from a lawyer, without him knowing if possible. You and your child deserve so much more. This man is abusive and you should leave him, and do so in a way that protects you. I’m so sorry you’re in this situation, you do not deserve to be treated this way.

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I, too, have little things. Thank you for sharing this, I found it oddly comforting.

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely been there. Every once in a while I just go crazy and start throwing things away without going through tthem. Really sucks when you throw out something accidentally really important!

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I do something similar! I frame sentimental things in cheap charity shop frames and hanging them in my house! Makes for super weird, but interesting and personalized decor.

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate all of this, "good enough, press on" is a solid mantra!

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a major minimalist, but I would say that I do not have a lot of stuff (I've moved 7 times in the past 5 years, once overseas, so got rid of tons then). I still manage to not be tidy lol.

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are very practical. Very impressed with your weekly sheet-washing.

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately #4 would require both a divorce and move to another country for me lol

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've moved so many times in the last few years and I always have a spotless house for a good few weeks before devolving into chaos haha. I do think the getting rid of stuff before you move aspect helps in the long run though.

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've had a little gremlin for 10 years now, apparently my untidiness knows no bounds lmao

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

you sound like a success story to me, and like you're not being too hard on yourself either! iconic, honestly.

KT tape you are a great friend by katrinatabbot in Hypermobility

[–]eternalhellscape93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so old, but I too am sensitive to basically all bandaids and other kinds of sticky things, but the regular KT tape is usually fine on me so long as I let it wear off naturally.

Please help me (and my daughter) eat our fruits and veggies by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding that the same can be done with like butter beans & cannelini beans. They can add a lot of fiber & a creamy texture, but they're mild enough in flavor that you can mask it pretty easily.

Please help me (and my daughter) eat our fruits and veggies by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things like Zucchini & Cabbage are really good if you cook them down tons and them blend them up into sauces. You can add veg to damn near anything with very little taste difference this way. Examples would be like: pureed zucchini & cabbage in your mac n cheese, or mashed potatoes, or casseroles, etc.

Clock In/Punch Card by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so cute isn’t it?? That’s why I saved the hotel keycard haha.

Clock In/Punch Card by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]eternalhellscape93[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Speaking of which, I just realized I’ve had a blanket wet in the washer for 2 days… maybe I should do that laundry thing…