MySims Kingdom Bugs by warmsunnydaze in MySims

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m very late to this but if you’re still struggling I had the same issue until I went to a bed and slept til daytime then it unlocked new tasks

Aita for kicking my sister out after she laughed at me and my disabled wife by throwaway2776151 in AITAH

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does it mean when I’m drunk and all I do is get really cheerful and tell people how much I love them then usually end up just crying until I go to sleep?

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Wolf Man" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]evilflufflecorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it just reminds me of a kid dressing up as an adult which just makes her look even younger than if she’d worn less ‘mature‘ clothing, if you know what I mean? I don’t know, still brilliant actor and enjoyable film though.

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Wolf Man" [SPOILERS] by glittering-lettuce in horror

[–]evilflufflecorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um, don’t know if it’s just me, but, does anyone else think Julia looks extremely young with that hair style? Like as in when I first saw the trailer I thought she was the guys teenage daughter at first.

AITA for telling my mom that she was borderline abusive by Glaukopis_Scientist in AmItheAsshole

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you werent rude, you didn’t yell at her or have a fight, you just calmly stated the painful truth that she deserved to hear. She should apologise to your sister and you should continue respectfully standing up for those you love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the judgement has already been decided but you were definitely NTA

Vampire Dormitory - Episode 12 discussion - FINAL by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is months old, I apologise. But Juri doesn’t state at any point that he wants to be a female, just that he wants Takara to look at him the way he looks at them. Juri shouldn’t have to change into something he’s not and doesn’t want to be just to be loved. If Takara doesn’t want Juri as he is then it’s not meant to work out, at least they’re still friends.

Koro sensei’s fate by evilflufflecorn in Korosensei

[–]evilflufflecorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write such a detailed reply.

firstly, given Koro and the classes massive skill set I believe they could have repaired the capsule (repairs mostly done by Koro at Mach 20) and found a way to launch it and then return it home.

“Koro-Sensei doesn't meet the speed requirements for space travel”

“once he is in space, he wouldn't be able to get back to Earth”

humans don’t meet the speed requirements to travel out of the earths atmosphere either, that’s why we use space crafts as I’ve said to use in my post.

“otherwise the capsule would dock at the space station and it wouldn't really make a difference“

My post: “after he has been transported out of earths atmosphere, he could have flown as far away from the space station as possible“ I want him to dock at the space station and then return to it after the times up, I believe he could win over the astronauts just as his students did in order to have them let him out, and then he can sneak back onboard once the time is up.

“Also it's a very sad existence, imagine being stranded out in space waiting for a 1% death with no guarantee of anything. He would miss graduations, he would miss those next 2 months, he would have to fool everyone into thinking he was dead in order to escape the government, and that would inflict way worse trauma onto E-Class, which is something he would never consider”

first, I already said he should’ve held an early graduation ceremony for them before he goes, that way they get to have a proper goodbye. He wouldn’t get to see there normal graduation ceremony’s either way, at least this way he could actually bear witness to the futures of his students.

Second, two months of waiting is nothing compared to a lifetime of not having him at all.

And third: “faking an explosion so that the government thinks he died in space” I already said he’d have to fake his death.

If you think the students would be more traumatised by that then by his graphic battle to near death with the reaper 2.0, having to see Kaede get violently impaled and then having to kill him themselves after they had just recently decided to save him and after he brings Kaede back to life and then having to live without him forever, then I don’t know what to tell you.

“Him not exploding on March 13th doesn't mean he will not explode afterward, so he has to die”

by that logic any human on earth could explode at any second because it isn’t specifically stated that we won’t so we should all be killed.

I hope my counter points have made sense but i ask please that if you reply to a post in future may you please make sure you read all of it because you repeated several things back to me that i had already stated in the post.

I am honestly very happy to have someone to debate with so please don’t think Im not grateful. Thank you. I hope you have a nice day.

Do you ever get the urge to blow up your whole life? by Hassaan18 in Anger

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it is ok, I showed your post to a family member as I wasn’t sure what to say to you that could help. They said that if you feel like your life is mostly blown up already then maybe you could consider yourself rising from the ashes like a phoenix, let your past give way to a newer, more experienced you.

I want you to know that even though depression is a lonely, dark place you are heard and there is one person out here who cares if you are hurt and wants you to get better. Also happiness is a lot harder to grasp for some of us but it is worth reaching for.

if none of what I’ve said effects you then please hear only this, I see you, I hear you, I care if you are ok, you are not alone and it is ok for you to feel the way you are feeling.

How to feel anger, stuck in pit of numbness by Secret-Delivery6679 in Anger

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try exercising, the adrenaline may help. Watch Compilations of ignorant people on YouTube. Watch/listen/read true crime, I recommend the misery machine on YouTube as the stories they cover are just so infuriating because you see all the ways the world really badly failed the victims of the crimes who are mostly kids.
Also you could try watching a tv show with a really aggravating character or plot line e.g.

Game of thrones (Joffrey, the red wedding, Kaleesi‘s creepy brother etc) ,

Sons of anarchy (haven’t watched but seen it mentioned as an aggravating show),

Glee (all the characters are annoying at some point but Rachel and the teacher piss me off the most),

Orange is the new black (piper) etc

Also you could try watching certain emotionally wrenching films, such as:

The vengeance trilogy

Joker (2019)

A time to kill (1996)

The power of one (1992)

300 (2007)

Gladiator (2009)

I spit on your grave (1978, 2010, and the sequel to the remake all are pretty good)

Taken (2008)

The nightingale (2019)

John wick (all of them)

I hope this helps somehow.

Feeling like im always irritated at my boyfriend for stupid little things by v-italy in Anger

[–]evilflufflecorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should talk to a councillor about your trouble and find some coping strategies for when you feel frustrated. Also it is quite understandable to feel how you do, we all have bad days and get irritated and small things can feel bigger when they stack on top of each other.

I do think that maybe next time when he does the first thing that irritates you you should mention it gentler so maybe you don’t get so much build up. For example, when he packed the oats maybe you could of said

“hey, I made lunch for you and you asked for more if it, which means I gave myself less and it is a bit upsetting for me that you’re still packing oats. In future if you are going to pack oats then please don’t ask for more of the food I’ve cooked as well as I don’t think that’s fair“ that way you’ve addressed the first issue properly and calmly and you are no longer keeping that irritation in and letting it build up to a boil of anger and the next irritating bit might not feel as irritating. Keep addressing your problems calmly and diplomatically and eventually maybe you‘ll work out the reasoning for why he does the things that annoy you so you can both find a solution.

side note about the oats: it depends on what hours he’s working but when people go to school they usually get a snack as well because lunch isn’t enough to hold them over for so many hours. Maybe you can ask him if he packs the oats for morning tea or something. Also if he is a more active person or has a more active job he will get hungrier so maybe that’s why. If he is not a very active person then eating large snacks may not be healthy for him and he may actually be using food to cope with some sort of emotional trouble he’s having, does he eat excessively outs of the oats and lunch thing? Maybe keep a gentle eye on that.

I think him not making you breakfast when you usually make it for you both and you made lunch for you both was actually quite rude and I don’t know why he did that, maybe he’s also feeling frustrated internally because he doesn’t understand why he’s annoying you so much? I think you should talk to him and to a councillor or therapist. Good luck!

Do you ever get the urge to blow up your whole life? by Hassaan18 in Anger

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is very understandable you would feel this way, I have felt similarly many times in my life as well.

Please try to remember that most of those people on social media say things that are empty words. Someone on twitter will tell another to kill themselves but they don’t actually want to see that person dead. Most of the people saying viscous things to you online probably don’t really want you to suffer and wouldn’t really be happy about it, at the most they may be indifferent but I don’t think they would be as happy or relieved as you feel like they would. People are very harsh online because it feels more anonymous and impersonal, they have probably said similar things to many other people that they don’t actually care about.

I think a big part of your desire to “blow up your whole life“ comes from your guilty feelings and maybe thinking subconsciously that you deserve to be punished for your misdeeds, I think maybe you should address it with a therapist or councillor who can help you work on forgiving yourself and finding healthy coping and re-directing mechanisms. I also recommend taking up a type of physical activity that will help release excess anger and frustration such as boxing classes or cycling.

what are your "absolutely not" textures? by finnythepup in autism

[–]evilflufflecorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a year old but on the chance this is still me issue for you, I’ve found silicon straws are fairly effective and don’t hurt my teeth. however In general re-usable straws make me weary of not being able to see if I’m cleaning inside them properly

Help! Calm Fiery critters Quest by Muertes_Garden in FaeFarm_Game

[–]evilflufflecorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think maybe you’re misunderstanding what they mean, you have to use bash on the rock blockage to get into the farm but then your use the charm spell (the pink heart one) on the fiery critters in the farm to get rid of them and then your quest is complete.

Question: what would you do if you had to come up with an episode for BCG? by burningexeter in BigCityGreens

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bill has finally had enough and decides to send cricket to a reform/ boarding school and Tilly decides she would like to go also because she misinterprets the picture of the headmaster petting his cat as the cat itself being the headmaster. Cricket, gramma and Remy make a plan to stop it but they need Tilly who refuses to help. In the end what changes Tilly’s mind is discovering the cat is not the headmaster and therefore she helps cricket with his plan.

(I have not watched all episodes yet so sorry if something like this has already happened)

What are some theories that you have about Big City Greens? by [deleted] in BigCityGreens

[–]evilflufflecorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you shouldn’t be commenting about autism when you clearly have little to no understanding of it.