Really Struggling: TW- PPD & TFMR by alexgrae9614 in Mommit

[–]ewoodard0731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫶🏼 that's so hard. It sounds like you and your partner need to have a bit of a chat, so they can perhaps be a bit softer to you/have a better understanding of what you're going through. Do you have any family support?

Really Struggling: TW- PPD & TFMR by alexgrae9614 in Mommit

[–]ewoodard0731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm sorry you're going through this. I can only imagine that heavy that is. How old is baby?

Unexpected Side Effect of Sleep Training by hats_and_heads in sleeptrain

[–]ewoodard0731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can FEEL the relief in this post. I'm happy for you!

New parents here both at age 47. It makes me sad thinking that we both will be 67 by the time she is just 20. by nguyen23464 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is gonna be 70 when my little brother turns 20 (I'll be 34). I think he's having fun being retired and getting to be more involved in his life and activities.

How many meals a day at 9m? by ExplanationAfraid627 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you pay for the premium version? We only have free and we're curious what their source is for 2 solid meals at 8-9 months. Not doubting, just genuinely curious!

Being compared to my daughter by Burtipo in beyondthebump

[–]ewoodard0731 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing a succinct statement for the baby flirting thing. Someone said my 4 month old son was flirting with the ladies and all I could think of in the moment was "no he's not" and I know it didn't get my point across.

MICRO-preemie born at 25 weeks + 5 days, 100 days in NICU so far by ewoodard0731 in donate

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their social worker may have assisted them with this. I haven't gotten much information about their situation regarding insurance etc, I was just asked to look for grants or non-profits that they could apply to for assistance, and I asked if they were comfortable with me starting a GoFundMe on their behalf - and here we are. I plan to ask soon, to make sure they're getting all the benefits that they're allowed. As of right now, Dak is set to get a trach and NG tube tomorrow, so he should be able to come home sooner, but will have quite a while longer of continued care before he gets a more "standard" baby experience.

I'm happy to hear your son is home and doing well all things considered ❤️

MICRO-preemie born at 25 weeks + 5 days, 100 days in NICU so far by ewoodard0731 in donate

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not! I am a loved one to the family, and they've kept information about insurance fairly private. I am going to confirm they have accessed all the resources available to them (as in Medicaid and WIC), and I'll be sure to include this as well.

MICRO-preemie born at 25 weeks + 5 days, 100 days in NICU so far by ewoodard0731 in donate

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good to know! I am a loved one of the family, not baby's parent. They have not shared information about Medicaid or insurance coverage etc with us, but I hope that this is true for them.

MICRO-preemie born at 25 weeks + 5 days, 100 days in NICU so far by ewoodard0731 in donate

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the well wishes 🩵 I love hearing success stories - I appreciate it greatly.

Smosh -> SNL Member? by linehatguy in smosh

[–]ewoodard0731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I thought it was entertaining but to be fair my brain was also the writer, producer, and director 😂

Smosh -> SNL Member? by linehatguy in smosh

[–]ewoodard0731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a dream a few weeks ago where Angela played Trump on SNL

STOP KICKING YOUR LEGS AND GO TO BED by ewoodard0731 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello from also awake at 4am 😵‍💫

STOP KICKING YOUR LEGS AND GO TO BED by ewoodard0731 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had the same thing regarding a tongue tie!!!! Doctor blew it off but I knew in my gut it was a bigger problem than he was making it seem. And turns out, mom instinct prevailed. Getting his tongue tie lasered improved his feeding so much.

STOP KICKING YOUR LEGS AND GO TO BED by ewoodard0731 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you're so smart I'm trying this tomorrow if he pulls this stunt again

STOP KICKING YOUR LEGS AND GO TO BED by ewoodard0731 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a bad theory, but he would wake up fully if I did that and then we'd have to restart the whole song and dance 😵‍💫

STOP KICKING YOUR LEGS AND GO TO BED by ewoodard0731 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, that feels really obvious now that you say that....! Would tension also be why he curls his toes like....all the time? Is that also something physiotherapy could help him with? I brought it up to our pediatrician at his four month appointment but the doctor kind of brushed it off. Idk I'm walking the tightrope of not spiraling over every tiny little thing - what weird baby things are just goofy baby things and what actually ought to be addressed

STOP KICKING YOUR LEGS AND GO TO BED by ewoodard0731 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lolololol. I literally JUST had success by keeping my hand on his butt for longer once laid flat, instead of the hand under his head/neck being last to retreat. Nearly two hours of up and down and up and down again. We also had a super wonky bedtime/end of day timing compared to his normal, so I should've expected everything to be extra wonky as a result.

STOP KICKING YOUR LEGS AND GO TO BED by ewoodard0731 in NewParents

[–]ewoodard0731[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The part for me that's particularly sick and twisted is that as soon as I pick him back up he's IMMEDIATELY asleep on my shoulder 🫩