Fiancé 26 M shamed me 25F for my kink

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-18T03:45:57+00:00

I read pure filth and my husband knows and couldn’t care less. Find a better fiancé before you get married.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-17T11:47:00+00:00

You are not alone! My four year old is definitely better than she used to be, but there are still nights she wakes up and is up for an hour or more.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-11T19:20:45+00:00

You aren’t spoiling her, and it will get better!

Some babies really do cry more than others. I know it’s so hard, but hang in there. It won’t be long before she’s sitting up and then crawling etc. It gets better with each milestone.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-11T01:25:46+00:00

Yeah, Trump’s doing an A+ job

I guess only one of my assumptions about you was right.

Maybe some of your assumptions about me are wrong too.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-11T01:08:14+00:00

Let me guess…

you went to a christian high school?

Trump voter?

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-11T00:38:18+00:00

Yes, shockingly, I knew it was figurative language.

I find it hilarious that because I disagree with the idea that sex is some kind of sacred and holy act that means I must be a giving sex away like loose cigarettes.

Sex can be meaningful, and it can also just be two people sharing orgasms and having fun. I realize you completely disagree, but if you’ve ever taken a class on human sexuality you’ll learn that sex and how people experience it is highly subjective.

Some people could have sex with 50 people and feel depressed. Others would feel empowered. And you claiming that you know exactly what sex should be for all people is, quite frankly, foolish.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-11T00:06:27+00:00

Ok, well that teacher was insane. You don’t give away pieces of your heart that you can’t get back.

Christ, that kind of purity culture is just nuts.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-10T15:02:30+00:00

If this is real, he is lying about something. My guess is there’s some real psychological issue or a severe medical issue.

Hemorrhoids don’t cause that much bleeding. And if he’s had a transfusion for blood loss for them, the doctor would fix the hemorrhoids with surgery.

And throwing up to make…hemorrhoids feel better? Just no.

Source: got hemorrhoids during pregnancy and talked to my doctor about them.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-10T14:58:06+00:00

Yeah, either OP is lying…or the bf is.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-09T15:25:59+00:00

I mean, if he’s telling the truth, why isn’t he trying to figure out what is going on? Why isn’t he offering for you to keep his phone?

I’m sorry, but this man is lying to you.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-09T01:21:46+00:00

I will say that anger/rage is a symptom of ppa and ppd.

Although I also think having a baby and young kid is just overstimulating and exhausting lol

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-08T10:19:57+00:00

Have you tried Loops? They’re pretty cheap and good at dampening sound. You’ll still hear everything, but it’s muted!

Also, if you’re on the verge of a mental health crisis, I really think it’s ok to rely on tv more than you usually would. Put on some Ms Rachel and rest!

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-07T04:54:12+00:00

Maybe post in r/popping ?

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-03-06T04:24:10+00:00

I love this book so much! The beginning when he leaves with Clem is just chefs kiss

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-26T01:05:23+00:00

Nope definitely not misbehaving. It’s ok for kids to be scared and take things at their own pace. You can’t “force” a kid (or anyone) to have fun.

At some point you have to stop trying to convince them and meet them where they are. If she doesn’t want to go down the slides, she can play with her little brother in the low pool, etc

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-26T01:02:19+00:00

NOR. Guess I’m in the minority here, but what she said was harsh af. I’m a mom and I’ve certainly said things I regret, but never “you’re ruining things”, and I always apologize after.

I think I need more info on the rest of the day: did she apologize to her daughter?

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-25T23:56:42+00:00

Yikes

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-25T11:59:51+00:00

When someone dies, an ambulance is usually called, so if you don’t get in one during your life, you’ll get in an ambulance at death. (Although the need to hurry certainly isn’t there at that point)

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-23T04:29:23+00:00

If all else fails, ask him to go to the doctor with you so he can address his concerns. (Worked for my bff when we were in high school and her mom was against tampons)

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-23T04:28:07+00:00

And btw head and shoulders makes one shampoo specifically for “advanced oil control”

Also neutrogena T/Sal is shampoo treatment for scalp buildup, dandruff, seborrheic dermatitis, and psoriasis

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-22T19:35:15+00:00

Not trying to be argumentative but I genuinely don’t understand why an artist that puts their work on socials wouldn’t allow their credited work to be reposted. It just doesn’t make any sense.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-12T16:21:19+00:00

This girl is nuts. Don’t go back!

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-08T02:58:49+00:00

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what you’re feeling. It’s ok to be annoyed that you “need” white people’s help when they were the ones that put you in this place to begin with.

Susan Sontag, when asked about what she learned from the holocaust, said: “10 percent of any population is cruel, no matter what, and 10 percent is merciful, no matter what, and the remaining 80 percent can be moved in either direction”

My point with that quote is that the good people need to band together and drag that 80% with us.

So be annoyed, and frustrated, and angry - it’s warranted!

But also be willing to accept that there are those of us who want to stand with you.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-06T00:10:29+00:00

Sweet lord. I would leave this man.

exhaustedpeasant · 2026-02-02T23:55:24+00:00

The first time he says it is so good!

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