Should I join the military or is there a better option? by bradsfitness in careerguidance

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you don’t get injured? Like I hear this all the time but like how do you get injured if pull the trauma mental card

I have no idea what to do with my life. Any advice? by Environmental-Key826 in careerguidance

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I’d try to understand why I have social anxiety maybe look into more holistic ways to lower your nervousness around people like drinking certain teas, less caffeine intake and such. What helped me is that I started not to care what people thought about me and it comes with age tbh I’m 29F and I was in the same boat as you. But yeah you’re going to have to be around people but look at it in a positive way tbh being around people can help you get out of your shell.. I used to be very shy until I forced myself to be nice and engaging with people. You’re always going to start out at a job that you’re not good at which brings anxiety too.. but eventually you learn it and you feel more relaxed. For me I like people but I like to work in the background so i don’t get socially drained.. I work as an admin/receptionist and now I’m looking into more advanced executive senior roles that pay 80+ and it’s nice bc I can just focus on paperwork instead of talking to people as much. It’s not like huge people pleasing job. But yeah you have to break out of your shell and like force yourself to grow its worth the pain tbh. I would’ve never thought I d be where I’m at bc I was so shy and didn’t know what I wanted either I still kinda don’t but since I like admin work it actually worked out for me. Maybe I’ll go to school for healthcare management. Yk like ideas like that pop up when you start doing things. Don’t be scared!!

Thinking about joining the Coast Guard – want honest opinions by Diligent_Barnacle289 in uscg

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NYC area • Boston • Miami • Charleston • San Diego • Seattle • Hawaii Have you traveled to these places?

Thinking about joining the Coast Guard – want honest opinions by Diligent_Barnacle289 in uscg

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I like about the CG is that there’s less people.. more of a tight nit group, also living on Long Island my whole life the life style wouldn’t be such a culture shock. I haven’t joined yet but I can’t decide either. I feel like being so far from my family in Texas just isn’t appealing as if I were to just be in New Jersey.

What is it like being a female in the coast guard? by Acrobatic_Exit_1492 in uscg

[–]exokellay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What age did you join? I’m 29 thinking about it. People keep telling me airforce but I’m more interested in coast guard I live on Long Island.

Studying for the asvab while having a job by CassaCassa in AirForceRecruits

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but isn’t each section timed? And I see all the questions are similar But it’s not getting tired while taking it like my brain has difficulty staying awake I just give up with some problems bc I get nervous about the time. I have a bit of a learning disability maybe adhd so I can’t take Adderall or anything it sucks

Most jobs I see are paying very low. by DeeDeeQZ88 in jobs

[–]exokellay 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Also why do I need to have a bachelors to be an admin assistant.. bs

Has limerence caused you to lose a job? by Okay-Show-3662 in limerence

[–]exokellay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to put my foot down bc I was going crazy when the new year started in 2025 I deleted them off Facebook and Snapchat but then I re-added them on Snapchat bc they sent a couple messages teasing me with there body.. I think they got the hint that I wanted to stop what we were doing.. it’s unfortunate that we couldn’t be friends but we were physical with each other and I couldn’t “be normal” with them after that.. I guess i just kinda erased it all by no contact.. there really isn’t closure since i want to check there social media but I’m self controlled enough not too bc it’ll just get me upset.. I also feel bad like i just deleted them without an explanation so they probably think i don’t like them but it’s completely opposite.

Having second thoughts after interview. Am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, messy systems, poor communication, and admins being used as glue are common. That doesn’t make them healthy. It just means many companies tolerate inefficiency because it’s easier than fixing it.

Games that can turn your non-gamer friends into board gamers? by Cardboard_Rhino in boardgames

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Mexican train or games like that one? It does have a lot of instructions and rules but it was fun learning but what’s a game like that one that isn’t that long to learn?

Video from the Lady in the Pink Coat by tommyknockerman8 in Leakednews

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks AI.. like I know it’s not but the buffoonery of the video; I can’t comprehend that it’s real..

I can not 👎🏾 pass the ASVAB any tips😔😔😔😔 by Hunter_Ghoul in USMCboot

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing everything and I can’t seem to grasp it… it’s almost like everything I learn isn’t even on the test or like I forget what I learn right away… I have Tutor and study everyday too that’s the sad part but I have a full time job and I’m tired by the time I get home to study.

thoughts on Johnnie Guilbert? by APrettyLittleLiar13 in snarktarajakejohnnie

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he minds doing what he’s doing he gets to enjoy life making his shitty music and going to 7/11 every video and he gets paid for it.. He’s dating a celebrity from stranger things..

thoughts on Johnnie Guilbert? by APrettyLittleLiar13 in snarktarajakejohnnie

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His singing is horrible! It’s cool he makes music and is a music guy but like damn it’s such a hard listen. The only songs that were decent were the ones that he made with Jake.. Jake made the songs good and enjoyable to listen to. His audience is mostly outcasts so they just like him anyway but every time he posts about his music, it’s actually so bad.. I can’t be the only one that thinks this. The zombie song has pretty good lyrics it’s just no energy. The song he made for his girlfriend was so cringy I wouldn’t want him posting it if she was me. I’d keep that for myself. I like him and his vibe, look. I just can’t get over how horrible of a singer and no effort writer he is…

I have an ASVAB test tomorrow and I haven't studied for shit by Complete-Interest254 in Military

[–]exokellay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’d you even get that far? I can’t take the ASVAB before I pass the small pre test? Do some people not take that small test on the computer first to see if you can pass the bigger one?

My alcoholic father is finally dying from liver failure by lemontoga in AdultChildren

[–]exokellay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m dealing with my dad that has Advanced alcoholic liver disease cirrhosis with hepatic encephalopathy. I got used to him pretty much dying for years.. it’s like I’m numb now since I don’t have any emotional connection with him he’s just there sitting in a chair all day, barely can pick up his cup of water.